Ebenezer Scrooge was a stingy miser and not frugal. I worked for 18 years for Ebenezer Scrooge. Ebenezer has a reputation for being the most miserly person in town. He never gave to charity, his clothes were tattered, and his home was a dilapidated cottage because he refused to spend a single coin on repairs. Ebenezer loved to day trade and would lose thousands of dollars a day on trading, but did not want to share the wealth.

Ebenezer lost his wife and he came to work after the funeral. Ebenezer’s heart remained unchanged. He continued to hoard his wealth, living in the same shabby cottage and wearing the same tattered clothes. He had gained notoriety, but he had not gained any real happiness.

Ebenezer worked till he was in his late 80’s. He never traveled.  Ebenezer grew old and frail. No family or children. No legacy.

I wish Ebenezer smelled the roses. The roses represent the joy that can be found in embracing life’s challenges, stepping out of your comfort zone, and in sharing your experiences with others. Ebenezer never realized the true cost of his stinginess and the richness of the experiences he had missed out on.

The difference between being stingy and being frugal

There are different undertones, implications, and connotations to being stingy and being frugal. They both relate to the people manage their resources and money and how they react to it. The main difference between being frugal and being stingy lies in the attitude and motivation behind one’s financial decisions.

Frugal

Being frugal means being mindful and careful about spending money and resources. Frugal individuals are intentional and make deliberate choices to save money by avoiding unnecessary expenses, finding deals, and making the most of what they have.  Frugal individuals prioritize value and are often focused on long-term financial goals. Frugality is about living within your means, being inventive, and making cautious decisions about where and how to spend your money.

Stingy

Stinginess, on the other hand, has a more negative connotation.

A stingy person is typically someone who is overly cautious or reluctant to spend money or resources, even when it might be appropriate or necessary. This behavior is often driven by a desire to save and accumulate wealth, sometimes at the expense of relationships, experiences, or personal well-being. They are often unwilling to spend money on even basic necessities and may go to great lengths to avoid parting with their funds. Stingy people might be hesitant to share their possessions, whether it’s lending items to friends or family, contributing to group expenses, or giving to charity. They may delay or avoid making purchases, even for items that would significantly improve their quality of life. Stingy individuals often engage in intense negotiations or haggling to get the lowest possible price. Stingy people might find reasons to avoid social gatherings that involve spending money, such as going out to eat, attending parties, or participating in activities that require a financial contribution. This hoarding behavior can extend to money, material goods, or even knowledge. Stingy people often prioritize saving money over enjoying life experiences.

qualities often associated with a frugal person

Resourcefulness

Frugal individuals are adept at finding creative solutions to problems. They can repurpose items, find alternative ways to achieve their goals and make the most of what they have.

Budget-Conscious

Frugal people are mindful of their spending and typically create and stick to budgets. They prioritize their expenses, focusing on necessities while limiting spending on non-essential items.

Prioritization

They understand the difference between needs and wants. Frugal individuals prioritize spending on essentials like housing, food, healthcare, and education while being cautious with discretionary spending.

Savings Mindset

Frugality often goes hand-in-hand with a strong savings habit. Frugal people are diligent about saving a portion of their income for future goals, emergencies, and investments.

Minimalism

Frugal individuals tend to value experiences and relationships over material possessions. They may embrace a minimalist lifestyle, owning only what they truly need and avoiding excessive consumerism.

Comparison Shopping

Frugal people are known for researching prices and comparing options before making purchases. They seek the best value for their money and are willing to invest time in finding deals.

DIY Attitude

Frugality often involves a willingness to do things yourself. This could range from cooking at home instead of dining out to tackling basic home repairs without immediately calling a professional.

Avoiding Debt

Frugal individuals are cautious about accumulating unnecessary debt. They aim to live within their means and avoid high-interest loans or credit card debt.

Long-Term Thinking

Frugal people are often future-oriented. They consider the long-term consequences of their financial decisions and are willing to make short-term sacrifices for greater financial security down the road.

Environmental Awareness

Many frugal individuals are environmentally conscious. They reduce waste, recycle, and minimize their carbon footprint by adopting practices like reusing items and reducing energy consumption.

Contentment

Frugal people often find contentment in simple pleasures and experiences rather than constantly seeking material possessions. This mindset contributes to their overall well-being and happiness.

Mindful Spending

They make intentional choices about where they allocate their resources. Frugal individuals are less likely to engage in impulse buying and more likely to think through purchases before making them.

Embracing frugality can empower you as a person

Frugality helps you build financial independence and stability by saving money, reducing debt, and increasing your overall financial security. This independence can free you from financial stress and the need to rely on others for support.

Being frugal enables you to allocate resources toward your goals and dreams, such as buying a home, starting a business, or traveling the world. You have the financial means to pursue your passions and aspirations.

Living within your means and having a financial safety net can significantly reduce stress and anxiety related to money. You’re less likely to worry about unexpected expenses or financial emergencies.

Practicing frugality requires self-discipline and mindful spending. This discipline can spill over into other areas of your life, helping you make better choices and maintain a healthy work-life balance.

By spending less on non-essential items, you have more freedom and flexibility in how you allocate your resources. This can mean more time for family, hobbies, or pursuing opportunities that align with your values.

Frugality often encourages sustainable and eco-friendly practices, such as reducing waste, conserving resources, and choosing products with a longer lifespan. This can contribute to a healthier planet and a sense of empowerment in making environmentally conscious choices.

Frugality can be closely associated with minimalism, which focuses on decluttering your life, simplifying possessions, and prioritizing experiences over material possessions. This minimalist approach can lead to a greater sense of contentment and focus on what truly matters to you.

Being frugal encourages resourcefulness and creativity in finding cost-effective solutions to everyday challenges. This problem-solving mindset can extend to other areas of your life and enhance your problem-solving skills.

Frugality helps you develop resilience in the face of economic downturns or unexpected financial setbacks. Having a frugal mindset means you’re better prepared to weather financial storms and adapt to changing circumstances.

When you have financial stability through frugality, you may be in a better position to help others in need. Whether through charitable donations or lending a helping hand to friends and family, you can make a positive impact on your community and society as a whole.

Frugality empowers you as a person by providing financial security, reducing stress, promoting self-discipline, and allowing you to allocate resources toward your goals and values. It can lead to a more intentional and fulfilling life, emphasizing what truly matters to you while also fostering financial responsibility and resilience.

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Introduction

The surge and rise in prices of goods and services in an economy are called inflation. The increment in price results in your currency buying fewer goods and services resulting in the decreasing purchasing power of your money.

As I am revising this article, the inflation rate in Canada and the U.S. is around 8% the highest in four decades.

I am going to write about what I have been doing to save money during this inflationary period.

I have spent more than 25 years in the financial services industry. I have lent money, managed money, traded money, and seen two recessions, the tech crash in 2000, 9/11, 2008, and now 2022. The COVID-19 crisis was an outlier or a Black Swan. The challenge with the COVID-19 crisis is that we had to quarantine ourselves, as countries around the world had been hit by a pandemic that was merciless, carcinogenic, and catholic. The knife was in the stomach, turned around and salt is being rubbed in the form of a shortage of many goods, disruption in supply chains, hoarding, and inflation.

I would strongly recommend that you create a budget and stick with it. Inflation kills your budget.

The future is uncertain and the times are scary. However, we will overcome it.

One question on your mind is whether you will come out ahead financially at the end of this. Here is what I am doing to deal with inflation and save money.

Save on Car Insurance

It is easy to save if you own two cars. Debbie has a short drive to work. I am working from home. We will be driving the car once a week to get groceries. This month, I called the insurance agent and took one car off the insurance. Total savings is $125.

Save on Cell phone, cable, internet

As a loyal customer with a provider, you have to negotiate and it can save you money. I called my provider and negotiated better rates for the cell and internet. I switched to IPTV where I get 5,000 channels and only pay $15 a month. Total savings is $50.

Hair color for Debbie

Debbie used to go to a salon for coloring her hair. I learned how to color her hair. Total savings  $125.

Cutting grass

I have a huge lot and for the last couple of years had a professional company cut my grass three times a month. I am going to cut the grass this year. Total savings $100.

Save by Working from home

I requested to work from home. It saves me two hours a day stuck in traffic. I am saving $160 in gas and $50 in parking. Total savings $210.

Cooking at home

I am cooking all my meals at home. I used to eat out pretty often. No need for Uber Eats or Door Dash. Total savings $150.

Cut the non-essentials

Inflation could last for a while. No one knows if another wave of COVID-10 will come. So, the more money you save, it can sustain you.

Refinance, consolidate and lower your rates

If you have many loans, lines of credit, and credit cards, I recommend you refinance your mortgage and consolidate. This way you will have only one payment. Call your banker and lower your interest rate. I recommend Ashish Lala. He is the best in the business.  Continue to invest in conservative stocks that will give you a dividend and ask for a raise.

I hope some of these tips will help you to save money during these inflationary times.

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Money touches everything. It affects how we sleep, how we eat, how we raise our children, and how we dream about the future. Yet too often, we treat finances like a separate compartment of life, disconnected from faith, family, and well-being.

What if we approached money the way we approach health, looking at the whole picture instead of isolated parts?

In this conversation, Jason Trueman, Portfolio Manager with Cumberland Private Wealth Management, shares why a holistic approach to household finances matters. From buying a quality mattress to investing with discipline, Jason explains how thoughtful spending, long-term vision, and balance can create not just wealth, but freedom and peace of mind.

Welcome to Four Columns, where food, faith, finance, and family are not separate conversations, but part of the same story.

Jason, welcome to Four Columns, a holistic blog on food, faith, finance, and family. Please tell me a little about yourself.

I am a Portfolio Manager with Cumberland Private Wealth Manager. Cumberland is headquartered in Toronto. I work with a talented team in Kingston, Ontario, including a CFP, CA, CPA, and TEP, providing holistic wealth management services for successful Canadian families and business owners.

How did you end up in personal finance?

I graduated from Queen’s University with a Bachelor of Commerce Degree. I received my CFA charter in 2001. I started my career as an Underwriter with Chubb Insurance. I was recruited by AIG and worked in Bermuda for 7 years before returning to Kingston to raise our young family in 2010.

Give me three tips on how to have a holistic approach to personal finance?

Control your spending by buying things you need and on an average cost basis (i.e. you will spend one-third of your life on a mattress so buy a good one).

Be disciplined with your investing. Buy dominant companies with great management who care about both their customers and their shareholders (these are rare and require work to find).

There is a balance between disciplined spending and enjoying your life; life is short so if you need a trip or a new car or new shoes to enjoy your life then spend the money.

What happens when we live on credit cards and not on our salary?

Credit cards that you pay off in full on a monthly basis and never pay interest on and accumulate rewards are great. When you overspend and pay exorbitant interest living beyond your means then you will suffer from difficult financial decisions and increasing stress.

How important is it to have a budget as part of a holistic approach to our personal finance?

I find long-term goals are helpful in providing meaning to your actions like why am I going to work and saving for my child’s education or retirement. Budgets help keep your life and spending in order; like a calendar and daily to-do lists.

What are some important tips to start saving?

Paying off your higher interest-bearing debt is most important. Taking advantage of government savings programs like RESPs, RRSPs and TFSAs is enormously important as well. Again, buying things you need (healthy food, a quality mattress) instead of buying things you want for status and cost a lot on a per-use basis (the tenth pair of shoes, vacation properties) is critically important.

How do you balance faith, food, finance, and family?

I believe in humanity; if we all do our part to contribute, we collectively accomplish amazing things. If you don’t spend money on healthy food then you’ll pay the price with poor health and physical limitations. Finance is about independence; ideally, a career doing something you enjoy while creating financial freedom to do nothing if you so choose. Raising kind, caring and confident children who find something productive they love to do in life are our number one job as parents.

Can you recommend some great restaurants in Kingston?

Kingston has an enormous array of awesome restaurants – having 35,000 students in the city helps. I prefer local family-owned restaurants such as Tango, Woodenheads, and Harpers.

You manage money for the wealthy, what have you learned from the experience? Do they have a holistic approach?

Success usually requires some form of sacrifice at some stage in their life. For many that mean focusing on academic excellence instead of always finding the nearest party. For others, that means pursuing an idea, a vision, and taking on considerable financial risk, and working excessive hours to make their dream a reality.

How important is food to you?

Food has an enormous impact on how you feel and how you look. Humanity would benefit from healthier eating with lower health care costs, lower greenhouse gas emissions, and an overall more productive society and cleaner earth.

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When it comes to money, most of us know the importance of planning—but very few of us actually sit down to create a household budget. To better understand why budgeting, financial planning, and legacy preparation are important, I sat down with Tony Romolo, a seasoned professional with over three decades of experience in the financial services industry, currently with Manulife Private Wealth.

In our conversation, Tony shares candid insights on why a household budget is more than just numbers—it’s about control, choices, and creating a roadmap for your hopes and dreams. From the basics of budgeting to the importance of credit, estate planning, insurance, and even family values, Tony’s open thoughts offer a practical yet philosophical look at how money shapes our lives.

Please note: These open thoughts, ideas, and commentary on a household budget are those of Tony Romolo only. They are informal in nature and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Manulife Private Wealth.

Tony, you have been in financial services for three decades. Walk me through why it is important to have a household budget.

A household budget is very important, and yet I can think of only a few that have one.  Why is a household budget important?  Because, in my opinion, a budget is about control.  A budget gives reasonable comfort and control over household finances.  It is the road map that will help determine how the money you receive is spent, saved, invested, gifted, and so on.  Because a budget is a forward-looking forecast, it is bound to be imperfect.  That’s okay.  The absence of a budget means a lack of control, stress, added expense, and so on.  Having a budget is a key component in helping you achieve the goals you set.  Sounds pretty reasonable and straightforward so far, yes?  In fact, a household budget is far more complicated and involved than it appears because a budget is about making choices.  Essentially, life planning (as much as that is possible) requires a household budget to help ensure you realize your hopes and dreams. 

Help me understand what we should include in a budget? 

A household budget is a forecast of money that will be received and money that will be spent over a future period.  A budget should be tweaked periodically and amended as required.  There are endless formats and tools to help establish a household budget ranging from the very simple to the very sophisticated.  Budgeting is essentially goal setting.  To successfully meet your budgeting goals, a household budget should include a couple of key things.  Firstly, a budget should not be a burden and a sore spot.  Remember, a budget is supposed to give you control and relieve household financial stress.  A properly structured budget should be a go-to tool that keeps you on track and gives you comfort.  Secondly, a budget should be flexible such that you can stay on plan while at the same time be prepared for managing unexpected expenses or money you unexpectedly receive.  Again, the idea is more about having a useful tool you can rely on as opposed to feeling terrible about going over budget or elated about being under budget.

How important is it to maintain a good credit score and rating?

Maintaining a good credit score and a good credit rating is very important.  A good credit score helps lenders assess your creditworthiness.  A good credit score will help lenders provide the best loan pricing possible.  A good credit score will give the prospective borrower the most favorable terms and conditions when borrowing money.  In today’s day and age reliance on credit and access to credit is perhaps more important than ever.  Having a good credit rating and credit score will help you with the credit you currently have and with the credit, you may need to access in the future.

Explain the different kinds of credit ratings and how can I mess it up? 

Your credit score recaps how much you owe to lenders, how much credit you have access to, what your repayment history has been like and other things.  Essentially, credit history reports capture installment loan information (like your car loan) and revolving or line of credit information such as the limit on your credit card, how long you have had the card, how much you owe, etc.  Your credit score is sensitive to how much actual debt you owe and how much you have access to.  It is also sensitive to how often you look to borrow money.  It is sensitive to how many different lenders you approach.  It is certainly sensitive to your repayment history.  Your repayment history is carefully tracked.  If you miss a monthly payment, for example, it will be re-scored as such.  Credit history reports are meant to be factual.  If you file a consumer proposal or declare bankruptcy, for example, that will be recorded in your credit history report.  Essentially, it is important to adhere to the terms and conditions set out by the lender that you agree to when you borrow. 

Why is having a financial plan important and what is your role in doing that?

Having a financial plan is very important.  Generally, a financial plan is all-encompassing capturing all money-related elements of an individual, couple or family.  A financial plan is the blueprint and road map one can rely on to help achieve financial life goals.  For the past couple of decades, I have worked closely with financial advisors in a multitude of different firms that specialize in financial planning.  Again, there are amazing tools and software to help navigate the complexities of financial planning.  I have really never been a financial planner, per se.  I have always participated in helping out with certain key aspects of the overall financial plan. 

Let’s talk about estate planning. Why is it important? 

An estate is all the money and property one owns at any given time.  The estate may exist while one is alive when one dies and beyond death.  As you might think, estate planning can be quite multi-faceted and usually refers to the planning process involved in passing on one’s money and property after death.  Inheritances.  Charitable giving.  Tax minimization.  I will get a little philosophical and I will keep it simple because the topic is very broad.  Estate planning deals with the legacy one leaves behind.  Estate planning is about giving meaning to the life one has led. 

Why is having life insurance important?

Life insurance is a very unique asset.  As you might imagine, it is insurance in one’s life.  One might argue that there is no need to insure something that can be easily replaced if lost.  By that logic, life insurance is absolutely essential because human life is irreplaceable.  I realize I’m getting philosophical again.  A financial plan might outline the need and amount of life insurance required.  Your budget will also capture what the cost of life insurance is and how that factors into your overall goal-setting and legacy planning.  The owner of a life insurance policy will insure life and name a beneficiary or beneficiaries.  Life insurance is an excellent tool used to protect assets and replace income in the event of the death of the insured.  The owner of the life insurance policy can also access the value of the policy during his or her lifetime.  I stand by my earlier comment.  We work incredibly hard to generate income and create wealth so protecting that income and wealth with life insurance is a very prudent thing.  Interesting use of life insurance is actually an attractive estate planning strategy.  I will give you a rough idea:  A parent can purchase life insurance on the life of their child and then transfer that life insurance to the child in a rollover transaction.  This is attractive because, essentially, the parent has the ability to purchase life insurance for the benefit of yet-to-be-born grandchildren! 

What is your opinion on having a will?

It is important to have a will.  We talked about financial planning and estate planning.  A will is a key part of the planning.  A valid and well-thought-out will ensure estate planning efforts are seen through to completion.  Get a will properly drafted.  The costs are justified.  Avoid the unnecessary costs, delays, and family bickering that result when one dies intestate (without a will). 

Give me three practical tips on how to manage our finances.

Three practical tips when it comes to managing your finances:

Pay yourself first.  This one is my favorite.  The idea is to set aside, save, or automatically invest a percentage of your regular income as soon as you receive the income.  This is a great habit to get into.  You will not notice you are paying yourself first.  You will build an excellent investment portfolio/savings.

Do not carry high-interest debt.  Do not carry credit card balances.  Pay your credit card debt in full each month.  If you can, refinance your debt into the lowest-cost loan possible.  Usually, refinancing your debts into your mortgage is best.  Part of this point is to avoid the trap of refinancing your mortgage with regular frequency because that sort of defeats the purpose!

Invest in yourself.  Take a college/university course every year.  Read.  Be a lifelong learner.  Be active and look after your health.  Be a part of your community and be sure to give back.  Volunteer.  Investing in yourself will generate ever greater financial and personal dividends. 

Talk to me about food, family, and some of your favorite restaurants in Toronto.

Family is very important to us.  I refer to family in a broad sense.  It is important to remember and acknowledge we are inter-connected to our parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, and so on.  We are all rich tapestries.  We are all in this together.  Life would have us believe we are misunderstood, alone, and isolated, however, the opposite is true.  Our family’s favorite restaurant is Terroni.  Everything on the menu is a win!

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