I am a lone parent, so how that differs from a single parent is that my children’s father is not involved in their lives financially or with his time. In that sense, I have had to support them by myself and, at times, have had to get creative to provide for them. I have gotten really good over the years at generating income from nothing, so now I’m teaching others the steps I took to figure out what they have to offer that can be monetized.

You talk about raising your daughter alone. Help me understand it better. What are some of the challenges of being a single mom?

The biggest challenge is financial.  I have always been able to provide for my family…at times when I didn’t know how I was going to make it, God always showed up and provided. Christmas was always stressful, I needed to earn extra money to provide a Christmas experience.  Some of the things I have done to provide Christmas are making 18 cases of homemade salsa and selling it, parking vehicles in my driveway for nearby events, and photography. The other challenge is getting time for rest.  There is no one else available to help pick up the slack…I’m the shopper, the laundress, the cleaner, the chef, the landscaper, the maintenance man (I have repaired and replaced my dishwasher myself), the snuggler, the tea party player, and the breadwinner.  Having a community around you for support is crucial.  I am grateful when a friend shows up at my house hands me my purse and my keys and tells me not to come back for 3 hours.

I love your pottery stuff. What inspires you to create and how did you get started?

Pottery was something I always wanted to try, it was on my bucket list.  December 2018 was a Christmas gift to myself to take classes.  I loved it. I learned quickly and had a natural talent for it.  Pottery has been a creative outlet for me as well as an outlet to get out of frustration…nothing like slamming some mud to work out aggression!

Do you have an online portal where you sell your pottery creations?

I sell my pottery mostly in person at hand-made shows and also have an Etsy portal: nicoleventurapottery.etsy.com

What does women’s empowerment mean to you?

Women stepping into the power they possess and not being afraid to take up space in a room.

Talk to me about the city you live in and why we should visit.

I live in Hamilton, Ontario.  I’ve lived here for 17 years.  I’m originally from a very small town in northern Ontario. Hamilton has that small-town feel of being a blue-collar city.  People here are real and don’t have an ounce of pretense.

How do you balance food, faith, finance, and family?

I don’t believe there is balance. However, with that, I believe that priorities are never in conflict so whatever the priority is at the time gets my attention.  My faith always gets my attention first, after that it is whatever the priority is.

Do you have any advice for my readers who are 25 years old?

Don’t wait until you’re older to not care what other people think of you…the sooner you realize that whatever they think of you has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you the sooner you step into your full power as a woman.

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Do you want to save money? Here are my favorite quotes on saving money.

Never spend your money before you have it. – Thomas Jefferson

Do not save what is left after spending; instead, spend what is left after saving. – Warren Buffett

He who buys what he does not need is stealing from himself. – Swedish Proverb

The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it. – Henry David Thoreau

Therefore, it is not how much you make, but how much you save that matters.

It was 2001. I was a young, aggressive, investment advisor on Bay Street. A call came in and being the broker of the day I answered.

Meeting potential clients

The caller was in his late 30’s, an executive in the hydro business and his wife was a marketing executive. They had two kids. He wanted to meet with me as he needed help to save money and start saving for retirement.

Are you kidding me? Sure…. It was an opportunity of a lifetime.

I called the wife and told her I would be late for dinner.

I am dressed to kill. The car is washed. I am ready to make an impression. I am ready to open an account and help this couple save money.

I drive around and check the hood. I see a Mercedes and BMW parked outside their home.

I am excited. My heart is beating fast. I have my pitch perfected.

I ring the doorbell and they welcome me.

Zero Savings

After the basic get to know chat, we sit down to have a more serious conversation. The numbers are impressive. They have a total family income of 250,000 plus bonuses. I can work with that. I can give them tips on how to save money.

After that, I ask how much do you save at the end of the month?

Their face completely changed. They had zero savings.

The monthly payment for the mortgage was $ 3,000, each car was leased for $ 500, private school per child was $ 2,000, trips, vacation and eating out took the rest.

I made some recommendations that included some lifestyle changes to be made in order to reach their goals and how to save money.

As a result, I left empty-handed and never heard from them.

As a VP with a US discretionary manager, I covered Ontario and Manitoba. I would only go to see a potential client who had a minimum of $ 750,000 to invest.

I flew to Sudbury to see a surgeon, an executive in the construction business and a retired janitor.

How to save money

As a result, I googled the home of the janitor and it was not impressive. To be honest it was in a derelict state. I thought to myself he probably wants free information on our stock picks and is not interested in our services.

I went to see him at 5 pm and he preferred that we sit out in the balcony. After the usual small talk, I explained a little about our services and asked him the usual getting to know your client questions. I asked him about his net worth and he did not have a clue. He brought out two statements from different banks and the total was about $2.5 million.

As I am looking at all his holdings, he tells me he also has some share certificates and bonds. He brings about 30 share certificates and bonds and they consist of all blue-chip stocks listed in Toronto and New York.  His liquid net worth came to approximately $5 million.

I recommended that he convert them to electronic shares.

Above all, I was fascinated. I wanted to know his story.

He shared that he started off as an 18-year-old janitor and saved a lot of his money and invested in shares. He retired at 55. He was not interested in impressing anyone. He lived within his means and took vacations. Overall, he lived a simple life. He did want to leave a legacy with a few charities. He was good at saving money.

Conclusion

In conclusion, if there is something, I have learned from being two decades in wealth management is that it is not how much you make but how much you save.

It is important to go out, travel, spend time with family, and do other fun stuff but it has to be within your means.

Photo Credits: Michael Longmire Vanessa Lee Javier Reyes Zan Allef Vinicius Benedikt Geyer

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A financial plan is a road map to achieving your financial goals.

We all have financial goals. It could be for a vacation, purchasing a home, children’s education, or retirement.

A financial plan looks at where you are at present and what you want to achieve in the future. It looks at net worth, cash flow, insurance planning, estate planning, retirement planning, and taxes.

A financial plan gets you in touch with reality, helps you to become realistic, looks at opportunities and risks, and gives you peace of mind.

Scott Schofield of Nesbitt Burns talks about reasons to have a financial plan and a disciplined savings strategy. Having this does not make you feel guilty.

Scott tell my global audience a little about you?

I am an investment advisor in London, Ontario, for approximately 150 families and business owners. I am a Chartered Investment Manager (CIM®) and have 20 years of experience in the asset management industry. Before joining BMO Nesbitt Burns, I consulted with financial advisors in my role as Senior Vice President with Mackenzie Investments and Dynamic Funds and hold a BA in Economics from Dalhousie University.

When not analyzing numbers, I enjoy many outdoor activities including kayaking and stand-up paddleboarding. My favorite activity is skiing with my wife and our two daughters that are 8 and 10 years old.

You have been around the financial services industry for a long time. What are some of the things you have learned? 

Being in the financial services industry has taught me a number of things over the years. However, one thing that stands out is that investors have a tendency to forget about ‘risk’ in their portfolios when the markets are good. It is always good to re-valuate your portfolio to ensure your portfolios are aligned with your objectives. If you are asking yourself, what are my objectives? you should seek advice from a licensed professional immediately.

Besides saving 10 percent, paying off your debts, living within your means what other advice can you give to my audience?

Great question, I would have to say seek out advice. Many Canadians feel like they do not have a high enough net worth to seek the advice of a professional. This is not the case. The value of having a financial advisor is undeniable.

Why is it important to save for retirement and what are some of the tools? 

There will come a day when you stop receiving a paycheque and need to replace that with an income from your portfolio. Saving in tax-deferred plans such as Registered Retirement Savings Plan’s (RRSP’s) and Tax-Free Saving Account’s (TFSA’s) are great ways to help reduce and manage the level of tax you will pay in retirement.

To become successful in saving, we have to make some sacrifices and have a financial plan. Do I always have to have the latest TV, cell phone, latest car? 

Some people really like to have the latest and greatest. I do! You should treat yourself from time to time. Having a financial plan and a disciplined saving strategy can potentially take the guilt out of treating yourself because you will know if you can or cannot afford these things.

Talk to me about TFSA and RESP? 

Both are great tools for investors.

The Tax-Free Savings Account (TFSA) began in 2009 and is a great way for Canadians to set aside money tax-free throughout their lifetime. A TFSA does not apply taxes on any contributions, dividends, capital gains, or interest earned, and can be withdrawn tax-free. This savings account is available to individuals aged 18 and older and can be used for any purpose.

An RESP is a great way to save for your child’s or grandchild’s post-secondary education. Parents, grandparents, and friends can contribute money any time to an RESP – up to a lifetime total of $50,000 per child. These contributions are not tax-deductible, but any investment income that’s earned within the plan isn’t taxed until it’s withdrawn.

The federal government will match 20% of the first $2,500 you contribute each year. That is $500 each year. When your children or grandchildren are eligible to start receiving the money to pay for tuition, books, computers, residence, meal plans, transportation and more, they pay the tax—generally at a much lower rate than you would have paid.

If my viewers want to become a client of yours, what are you looking for in a client? 

The bottom line is we want to work with clients that are engaged in their financial well-being.

Working towards financial goals is best done by a collaboration between our clients and our team.

It does take some investment of time in the early stages to get to know our client so we can properly propose personalized solutions and a financial plan that finds a balance between their goals and their risk tolerance. From there we implement the plan and monitor it year-round.

How important is it to have a financial plan, a road map of where you are going, goals, estate plan, and a will? 

I cannot stress enough how important a financial plan is to our client’s financial well-being.

It is a personalized blueprint or roadmap to meeting and exceeding financial goals.

A plan is adjusted over time as life events and unexpected things happen in our clients’ lives.

It also is a tremendous aid in helping to minimize tax during and after our clients’ lives.

How important is food to you and let us know some of your favorite restaurants in London?

What can I say I love food! I always like to be the first of my friends to try new restaurants and enjoy traveling and trying new to me restaurants along the way.

In London, I tend to frequent two of my favorites often.

The Church Key Bistro-Pub is a British traditional gastropub specializing in traditional food done with a gourmet flair. They use seasonal and locally sourced ingredients whenever possible. If you go there you have to try their Ale & Onion Soup with the Smoked Salmon Sammy.

The Bungalow – Neighbourhood Hub, is a great neighborhood ‘local’ in a residential area. The restaurant’s style and cuisine are designed for casual and convivial enjoyment. They have an extensive craft beer selection and a build your own burger option that they claim results in over 3000 different possible combinations. When not tinkering with my burger recipe of choice, my go-to is the Fish Tacos with the Habanero Potato Cheddar Bacon Soup.

How do you balance faith food family and finance in the 21st century? 

Finding a balance is sometimes tough with a busy practice and family. Making and taking the time to shut off devices and being in the moment with my family is very important to me. The best conversations are with my girls walking the dog after dinner or the quiet time when riding the chair lift when skiing the family.

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Meira Dholakia is a go-getter and a super achiever. I admire her focus, strength, and determination. We talk about her journey after university.

International Women’s Day (IWD) is celebrated on March 8^th every year. It is an important day for women’s rights. On February 28, 1909, the Socialist Party of America organized a Women’s Day in New York City. In 1910 at the International Socialist Woman’s Conference, German delegates Paula Thiede, Kate Duncker, and Clara Zetkin suggested a ‘special Women’s Day’ be organized. In 1917, women gained suffrage in Russia and March 8 became a national holiday. Women’s Day was celebrated only in communist and socialist countries. In 1967, the feminist movement adopted it. In 1977, the United Nations began celebrating it.

Four Columns is all about inspiring and empowering women to live a balanced life. To celebrate Women’s Day, I am interviewing various women, from different backgrounds.

Meira Dholakia, a pleasure to have you on board. Do tell me something important about you?

I was born in Dubai and raised in Richmond Hill, Ontario. I studied International Business with a major in Accounting at the Schulich School of Business at York University.  I represented York University on the Track & Field team. I am about to obtain the CPA designation, having recently passed the final CPA exam. I am currently working as an Auditor at Deloitte and work part-time as a Group Fitness Instructor at Movati Athletic in Richmond Hill. Fitness has always been one of my passions.  After retiring as a track athlete, I obtained the Personal Training Specialist certification to keep fitness as part of my lifestyle and those around me.

Meira, you are cool, an athlete and an accountant.  An exciting combination. Talk to me about your passion for accounting?

I have always loved math as a child. After taking the accounting course for the first time in high school, I realized that this is a career, where I could use my math and analytical skills. In university, I learned that there is much more to accounting than simply numbers. I learned that it is not always black and white and that professional judgment is what makes it more exciting. The fascinating part about accounting is the story that you can tell, by simply reading a company’s financial statements.

Walk me through your life experience. What did you learn from these experiences and how has it changed you?

I’ve learned that if you love something enough, you will always make time for it – as I have for sports, Track & Field, and fitness today.  I have had the opportunity to teach street kids in India, Math, and English. I was amazed that they could teach me about how lucky I was to live in such a great country with innumerable opportunities.

This experience reminds me to be thankful for everything I have. My exposure to the Far East when I studied one semester in Singapore, was amazing. I learned about different cultures and food, and adaptability in any environment. I documented this experience through a blog, capturing important moments that were read by many.

Who are the Millennials? What do they want? What do they want to change in present-day society?

Millennials want to change society’s old ways of chasing money. Millennials want to make a difference in the world and feel like they are making a direct positive impact. We want to help our environment and benefit society while making money – that’s why there is an increased awareness of corporate social responsibility for businesses.

What should employers know about you and treat you at work?

Employers should know flexibility is important. The more flexibility I am provided, the happier I will be. I am fortunate that Deloitte allows me to pursue my passion for fitness outside of work as it provides me with the perfect balance of mental and physical challenges. My work environment has been supportive in my endeavors, which places me among the lucky few; and I am thankful for that.

What are some of the social and other causes that you are passionate about, which the past generations missed out on?

I am passionate about health and wellness. ​Our society is becoming increasingly competitive as the generations progress. With this increased competitiveness, we overlook the importance of our health and well-being – whether it be exercising, eating healthy, or making time to do the things that make us happy. As a certified personal trainer, I am passionate about improving the mental and physical health of others through the power of exercise.

What do food, faith, family, and finance mean to Millennials?

Family and faith are extremely important. I find that most Millennials forget about the importance of family and family time. I enjoy eating home-cooked meals at the table with my family and spending time with them because I know that they are always there for me no matter what – this should not be taken for granted. Managing finances is also very important, which many Millennials lack. I’m happy that financial literacy is now being introduced in the Ontario school curriculum for students. Through Deloitte’s Impact Day I taught elementary school kids ‘Financial Literacy’, in partnership with Junior Achievement.

What do on fleek, dipset, bae mean in Millennial speak?

On fleek = perfect, dipset = to leave, bae = someone you love (ex. girlfriend/boyfriend).

All right, Meira, you tell me accountants are not boring. I get it. Let’s see if accountants have a sense of humor. Tell me a joke?

Why do we tell actors to “break a leg”? Because every play has a cast.

What should Gen X and Baby Boomers know about the Millennials?

Millennials are a very misunderstood generation. We are not lazy, as seems to be depicted, and neither are we self-absorbed. We are a generation that cares about their planet earth, social causes, well being of people, and are more efficient and innovative. We believe we can make the world a better place.

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Money and holidays go hand in hand.

There is so much to do. You have to buy gifts, visit family and friends, and bring stuff to each of those visits.

If one is not careful, the bills can pile up, and January can become a scary month. However, it does not have to turn out that way. Have a budget, set up a list, pay cash, do some free stuff for people, volunteer, give your time, do not buy on credit, do not buy last minute, give practical gifts, use coupons or online sales, and have fun.

Enjoy the holidays, rejuvenate and get ready for the new year.

I talk to Hope, who is a blogger at UndertheMedian and we discuss how to stay within a budget and to use your money wisely during the holidays.

Hope, a pleasure to have you onboard and talk about one of my favorite topics, money and household finances. I love your name Hope and please tell my audience a little about you?

My husband, Larry, and I have been married for 31 years and are the proud parents of four sons – age 11-23. I have a degree in Radio and Television, working for a local radio station for 12 years, before leaving the full-time workforce when I had children.

Since then, I’ve provided voiceover talent for such prestigious companies as Pioneer Hybrid International and the Museum of Science and Industry in Chicago. I sing the second soprano and have been a featured soloist for the highly-acclaimed Heritage Ensemble, am a frequent and popular speaker at the APACHE Homeschooling convention, civic, and church groups. I teach literature and public speaking in the high school department at Peoria Cooperative Academy. I have written multiple guest posts for websites, including Crystal Paine (Money Saving Mom) and Change Your Finances. Finally, I blog and give tips on living with a spirit of joy and abundance on a shoestring budget.

What is Under the Median all about? Why should we read it? Who is your audience?

When my husband and I married in 1988, we were each making $5 an hour. Three months later, our bank account registered ZERO! We had a choice to make. Would we continue our current spending habits and sink into debt, or look our situation square in the face, embrace delayed gratification, and learn to live within our means?

We chose to take the bull by the horns, set goals, and figure out how to live lean. Four years later, we purchased our first home with a 20% down payment. We paid off our 15-year mortgage in just 5 years. Then, 12 years later, we purchased our current home with cash. We did it all while raising 4 sons on an income that was consistently under the national US median income.

My blog, Under the Median, was born three years ago out of a desire to teach others how to not only cut costs but also to live with a spirit of joy and abundance while doing it! Encouragement and practical advice are huge parts of my blog. Anyone who wants tips on how to live within their means, save money, and create memories without spending money, will enjoy reading my blog.

You talk a lot about budgeting. What is it and why is it important to talk about money?

Some people get very uncomfortable when you begin speaking about budgeting, but, really, they shouldn’t. A budget is a monthly spending plan, giving each dollar that you earn a job to do. It’s not about being in a financial straight jacket. It’s about giving yourself freedom, knowing that you can spend money on that latte, as long as you have budgeted for it. I often tell people that no one is excused from setting short, medium, and long-term goals. In fact, if you make a less-than-average income, written goals are critical to your success.

It is not how much money you make but how much you save. Please comment?

Absolutely! We, personally, live in a neighborhood that is full of people who make several times what we do. My husband works at the local police department and has had captains and sergeants ask him how we bought a home in our neighborhood. We could afford to live here because we had a plan and worked diligently to make it happen. It was a long, hard road to achieve that goal.

Also, you have to remember that “money problems” do not just affect those who make little money. Often, folks who make a higher-than-average income, have never learned the principles of budgeting. You have to approach it as though it is a skill – because it is! The good thing is, anyone can do it! You don’t need a college degree or lots of money to make it happen. Information about how to save money and successfully budget are available for FREE. All you have to do is look for it! I’ve been budgeting for 30 years and I still check out finance books from the library. Why? Because there is always something more that I can learn.

December is the holiday season and stressful for many people with gifts and travel. How can people make it easier by spending the money they have?

I love this question! I teach a 3-pronged holiday strategy.

Be authentic and honest

There is nothing more wonderful than sharing warm moments with family and friends. However, the pressure to attend functions and spend money is very real!  It’s enough to leave you distraught, confused, and emotionally devastated. You can’t do it all – physically, financially, or emotionally. So, don’t try.  Be upfront and honest with every single person who comes to you with a request or an expectation. Answer sincerely and with a smile.

Set realistic expectations and boundaries

Boundaries are HUGE during the holidays, especially when it comes to family dynamics. It’s okay to tell your siblings that you won’t be contributing $100 toward Mom and Dad’s gift this year. Instead, you can afford $50. It’s okay to tell friends that you’d love to meet them for a drink, but you already allocated your restaurant money for the month. Better yet, invite them to your place for a pot luck dinner and then play board games or watch cheesy Christmas movies. It’s okay to set limits on how much you will spend on gifts. When was the last time you opened a gift and said, “Wow!  This is great!  How much did it set you back?”  I would venture to say that never have such crass words come from your lips.  So, it is highly unlikely that any friend or loved one will utter them either.

Create margin and memories

If looking at your December calendar is giving you hives, then do what you need to do to make it manageable. I advise that people pick several days and a pencil in “evening at home”. This gives you emotional permission to take time out to just breathe, read a book, and sip a drink by the light of the Christmas tree. Taking time for self-care is SO important when your schedule is a little wild.

Finally, you must remember that creating meaningful moments does not always mean spending a lot of money. We never had money while raising the boys, but we discovered several annual events, which were free or nearly free. As the boys got older, they told us which ones were most important to them. In fact, when our oldest was home from college for Thanksgiving, all six of us gathered in the living room, and everyone scheduled into their phone, the dates and times of this year’s holiday family events. My boys did not want to miss any of our family traditions!

How are household finances and money different as a single, married, and married with kids?

I remind married couples that they are a team! Just like a football player would never start passing when he was supposed to be blocking or tackling, you can’t go off in your own direction when you are married. Generally, one person in a relationship is a spender and the other is a saver. You need each other to find balance. I am the saver, but I need my husband to periodically say, “We have the money saved for this trip. It’s okay to relax and spend the money.” Conversely, he needs me to tell him, “No, we can’t afford that new big, screen television until next year” Then, I follow up with a timeline. “If we save $100 a month, we should have enough money in six months.”

The other thing you need to take into consideration is your partner’s communication and learning style. Larry is concrete-sequential. He doesn’t like anything that is nebulous. He likes a carefully thought out plan for nearly everything. When I began budgeting, my husband was pretty doubtful that we’d be able to reach any financial goals. Remember, we were both making $5 an hour. I realized that he needed to see my plan in black and white. So, I created a chart, delineating where we were financially now, a preliminary budget plan, and a timeline of when we would reach that first big goal (which was paying cash for a car). His reaction was like night and day! Once he could see that there were a clear path and a plan that we could set in motion, he was “in”!

Being married with kids is a whole new ball game! As parents, we want to give our kids the world. I remind people to think deeply about what really and truly counts in life. We need to develop our children’s character, their work ethic, their compassion for others, and their awareness of their own strengths and weaknesses. Your children need your love, affirmation, guidance, and time. None of which will cost you money! We spent a huge amount of time with our boys, deliberately creating moments every week of family bonding and fellowship. My grown sons have thanked us again and again for letting them know that they were loved and cherished.

Having said that, I’m a HUGE proponent of teaching financial principles at an early age. We give our sons an allowance from age 5-14 and it is tied to weekly chores and work. When they turn 14, we have a coming-of-age celebration! They receive special gifts from us, a ceremony, a blessing from my husband, and a party for family and friends. At age 14 we also stop paying them an allowance. Instead, we “invest in their dreams”, matching 50% of the amount that they earn toward their own, personal goals. They must earn their half by working for someone besides us. At age 16, they reach financial independence. We pay for all school-related expenses, healthcare, and food. They get a job, pay for their portion of the car insurance, purchase their own cell phone, and pay for all personal items and expenses. We match the first $2000 that they save toward a car.

Our sons knew very early in life that we would not pay for their college experience. We simply could not do it. They were encouraged to get good grades, participate in extra-curricular activities, and define their strengths and interests. Our oldest son will graduate debt-free in May of 2020, with 2 associate’s degrees and 1 bachelor’s degree. He won several scholarships, including a full-tuition offer to transfer to an amazing, small, private, Christian university. Our second son chose not to attend university. Instead, he is pursuing a career in IT. His passion for all things electronic has been clear since he was very young. Not only does his employer deeply appreciate his work ethic and commitment to the company, but they are also paying for all of his certifications.

I tell single people that they should not “go it alone”. No man (or woman) should be an island.

Get an accountability partner. It’s honestly lonely for someone who is single and is struggling with making ends meet or is deeply in debt. It can be debilitating to feel alone. They need to pick someone who will support their goals, not be afraid to lovingly be honest with them, and give them a sounding board. I mention the ability to call that partner if you are in the mall and that Kate Spade bag is calling your name. They will be able to tell you to put the plastic away and save up for it.

Give me three tips on how we can save money and have a meaningful holiday season?

There are three major steps that I tell people to take to get through the holidays without breaking the bank.

Get accountable. Don’t do Christmas alone and don’t “wing it”!

I will tell you with absolute transparency that the opinions of others have always mattered very much to me.  I love to make people happy and nothing breaks my spirit more than knowing that I have disappointed a friend or family member.  At Christmas, my husband and I spent out of guilt, feeling that we needed to make everyone happy.

It also became clear in a really short order that my annual spending spree had to stop! It was time for intellectual and emotional honesty with one another. We had to negotiate what traditions stayed and which ones needed to be cut. We had to partner together to get through December without a holiday hangover in January.

If you are not married, I highly recommend that you get an accountability partner.  This person should be trustworthy and willing to be firm, but honest with you.

Plan a realistic Christmas budget

One of the mistakes that people make is creating a gift list and then stopping there. First of all, that gift list needs to include how much you intend to spend on each person. Just going to the mall or heading to Amazon will spell certain disaster if you have no idea how much you can reasonably spend.

Secondly, I include everything related to the holidays: gifts, decorations, special dinners, supplies, high-priced ingredients that I don’t generally buy, stocking stuffers, and events like annual plays or musicals. I try to think of everything that may need to be added to my holiday budget and list it.

Shop wisely

Don’t hop on the “whatever is popular” bandwagon. Usually, those items are not only hard to find, but they are also expensive. Remember the Cabbage Patch dolls in the 1980s? There were physical riots trying to grab them off the shelves. Instead, put some thought into items that are meaningful. They should also fit into your budget, of course. You may consider visiting shops that stock lightly used items. Also, pay with cash. When you do, statistically you spend 20% less.

You have been married for three decades and raise four children. Give my readers some tips on being a wife and a mother?

As a mother, I took great pleasure in the challenge to create moments of family bonding for little or no money. For instance, because we had absolutely no money to go out to eat, we took the boys on Friday night picnics. Every Friday, we packed up whatever I had made for supper, a board game, read-aloud book, or some music, and headed off to a local park that overlooked the river. Both of my older sons voted “Friday night picnics” as their absolute favorite memory while growing up.

One of the other important roles of being a mother is being a sounding board for your kids without becoming a helicopter parent. My boys always knew that they could talk to me about anything – and they did! However, they also learned that if they were not looking for solutions, but for sympathy, they would preface the conversation with, “Mom, I just need you to listen”.

Another super important concept I talk about when I speak to parents is allowing your children to be their own person. They are not carbon copies of you. They come with their own set of strengths and weaknesses, their own desires and goals, their own individual bent and calling in life. Our role, as parents, is to help them discover the talents that God has birthed in them and then facilitating a pathway for them to move in that direction.

You talk a lot about your faith in your blog. Walk me through this faith and how has it helped you?

Being Christians has had a huge impact on our view of money. We believe that ultimately God provides for all our needs. We also understand that God has given us our income. We are stewards of it, not only to meet our own needs but also to reach out beyond our own family and impact the lives of others. Many times, when goals seemed insurmountable or stress mounted, my husband and I would take to our knees together and pray for help and for guidance. Having a frame of reference which includes a Divine impartation of strength has been absolutely critical in every area of our lives.

Talk to me about a time you face something really challenging and how you overcame it?

Probably the biggest hurdle we have ever surmounted was paying cash for our home. In the fall of 2008, at 3:30 pm, three of my children had just come inside from playing in the front yard. At that moment, a drug dealer ran through the front yard, closely followed by the police. This was not the first time that chaos had erupted in our neighborhood. Sadly, gunshots and break-ins were becoming all too commonplace. My husband looked at me and wordlessly mouthed, “When can we move?” I did the quickest calculations I had ever done in my life!  Here’s how the situation looked on paper.

We owned our current home.

We had some savings.

My husband made $40,000 a year.

We needed an additional $60,000 to move to a better neighborhood.

We gave ourselves two years to save money. If we couldn’t eat it or wear it, we didn’t buy it. We cut every penny possible from our already tight budget. Every extra dollar that came into the house, went into the “house fund”. We communicated more effectively than we ever had in our married life. We prayed as a family every night and thanked God for making a way where there seemed to be none. We grabbed onto that great, big, nearly impossible goal with both hands and refused to let go!

Twenty months later, we had saved 37% of my husband’s income. In August of 2010, we paid cash for a three-bedroom, two-bath, brick home in a very good neighborhood.

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Liz is the creator behind Minding My Thirties, a financially focused blog where she discusses the necessary evil that affects us all, money, debt, and finances. For her, money doesn’t have to be so evil. In fact, money can work for us. It can actually be the tool that lets us spend more time with our family, travel the world, or learn a new skill. It can give us time, which is really freedom after all.’

Liz’s goal with her blog is to ‘understand how to better harness’ money. She got her Eureka moment when her credit card got declined for a $7 beer. She had $70,000 in student loans and consumer debt. She researched money management and personal investing to pay down her debts and also save for her future. She became more aware of her personal finances, gained control of her money, and became debt-free at the age of 30.

Just like families evolve in our 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s, so do our finances. I interviewed Liz on finances in our 30s.

Liz, a pleasure to have a fellow financial blogger on Four Columns. Please tell me a little about yourself.

Thanks, Jerry! Well, I’m a 30-something-year-old American expat living in Germany with my (German) partner, Timo. We left the States, Chicago to be specific, in January of 2020. Despite the global pandemic, we’ve been settling well and embracing a slower lifestyle here in Germany. Back in Chicago, I was working for a high-end interior design firm as a Designer, collaborating on residential projects all over the country. I’ve always been passionate about design in any realm possible, from graphics to interiors to website design. I think what I love most is that design is much like storytelling, which is probably what piques my interest when it comes to blogging.

But after finishing my graduate degree in interior design, I found myself in about $70K of combined student loan and consumer debt. I spent most of my late twenties working to get out of debt as quickly as possible. I also dedicated a good chunk of time towards understanding finances and learning how to manage and invest my money for the long haul. Somewhere along the way, I discovered minimalism and the FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early) lifestyle. I was hooked! I decided to start blogging about personal finances as a way to document everything I was learning and to connect with others going through the same experiences when it comes to money.

Since then I’ve focused my time on prioritizing my personal values, financial goals, and building quality relationships while removing the excess from my life. While tackling my finances and adopting a minimalist lifestyle I’ve become more mindful of how I spend two of my most valuable resources: money and time. My long-term goal is to be able to remove money from the equation altogether by achieving financial independence. In doing so, I’d like to be able to make decisions based on where I see value and opportunity – and not just a paycheck.

I love your blog and graphics. What made you decide to become a financial blogger?

Thank you! The graphics are a lot of fun to put together. It was kind of the perfect storm with the development of the blog. As I mentioned in my backstory – I spent a ton of time researching personal finances and climbing out of debt myself leading up to our move to Germany. I also knew I would not be able to legally work for a while when we got to Germany. While I do not necessarily intend to make a living off the blog (although a girl can dream, right?), I knew it would be a great opportunity to start one seeing as I had the time to do so.

I also thought it would be a great way to document everything I learned about personal finances. And in doing so, I could offer help to others, which has been the most rewarding part. Most people think they have to have some unique story or niche to start blogging. That’s not necessarily true. Sometimes the best bloggers are the most relatable ones. The ones who have stories and experiences just like you and I. These are the people we can easily connect with. I thought my story and prior relationship with money was very relatable: I had debt. Made a modest salary. No real assets to my name. I didn’t understand how money actually works. Nobody taught me about finances and I didn’t pay someone to handle it for me. Everything I achieved was through hard work and persistence with my financial education. I thought – if I could do it, surely someone else could.

I’d love to be part of the reason someone better understands their finances. I’d love for others to experience this awakening – or – mindfulness when it comes to finances. Because once you’re able to fully harness your money, so many other opportunities open up.

Talk to me about how women can be empowered by having control over their personal finances?

I love this question because taking control of my personal finances has been beyond empowering! Being able to control your money, instead of it controlling you, is freedom. Zero debt and a comfortable saving in place allows you to capitalize on opportunities and take some calculated risks (like moving halfway around the world with no job  ).

When I was about 5 or 6 years old my parents divorced. Leading up to the divorce my mom never really built much of a career as she was focused on taking care of my brother and I. In fact, she was just a semester shy of finishing her masters in creative writing when she became a mother. Of course, you can’t fault my mom for putting us first before her career and finances. Being a mother is in and of itself its own job, and in many ways, being a stay-at-home mom today makes financial sense for some couples.

But throughout much of my childhood, I watched as my mom had to build her career, and finances, from the ground up. Divorce happens, of course. But sadly, it’s usually the women who face financial risk when it does. They are the ones who put their careers and earning potentials, on hold while raising children. And they are the ones that go back to work with a dormant skill set and reduced earning (and a wage gap) after years off. But watching my mom come full circle 25 years later as she is about to retire next year has been an exemplary achievement. One that I admire and respect. It empowers me to continue taking an active approach with my finances. It’s a reminder to pay myself first and make sure my financial future is taken care of regardless of whether or not I get married and have children. I think seeing this type of achievement, especially by other women, can really empower more women to take an active role in their finances.

Oh, and by the way, a few years ago she also finished that last semester of grad school and finally earned her masters! I am very proud of my mom!

How do men and women approach finance differently?

Oof, that’s a loaded (great) question! I think there are many different ways men and women approach finances. But for the sake of keeping this brief, I’ll focus on the investing side of things. Research shows men tend to show more interest and knowledge when it comes to investing. Men also tend to express more confidence, leading them to riskier investments, which ironically means that the women who do invest are actually getting slightly better returns.

But I think a lot of this psychology might be rooted in our cultural norms and traditions since the beginning of mankind. Women and men always had very separate, independent roles from hunter-gatherers all the way until now in modern society. And to some extent, due to biological differences, men and women will continue to have separate roles. But when it comes to finances, men used to dominate the workforce not that long ago. Because of this, I think for most men it was a point of pride, of ‘macho-ness’, to be able to provide and handle the finances. However, I think this is changing now that more and more women are earning a living for themselves or in some cases – becoming the breadwinner of the family! Hopefully, it’s not long before we have more women taking an active, vested role in their finances.

Money is an emotional thing. People do not like to talk about it. Money can also be used to satisfy an urge by shopping or binging on food. However, money can also be used for many good things. Please explain?

Absolutely. There’s a saying that money is a necessary evil. But I’d like to change that mindset. It doesn’t have to be so evil. We just have to know how to better harness it. Money – or at least the opportunities, experiences, and even things money can buy – brings lots of joy to people. It can also solve or ease a lot of problems in the world. One thing I’d like to see more in the financial community in discussions around charity or sustainable spending: how and where we put our money can really make an impact. I’d like to see more people incorporate a dollar amount for charity in their retirement plans or find ways to be sustainable with their dollars: invest in socially responsible companies or shop at local stores. This is something my partner and I are now starting to look into. We’d like to minimize our carbon footprint and find ways to not only do so in our daily lifestyle but ways to financially support the efforts around fighting climate change.

Money, money, money when is it enough?

Ahh, that’s the million-dollar question, isn’t it?! I believe there are three answers to this question, only two of which I can provide data.

There’s the salary, or how much money we need now to be happy now. For most, it’s enough to cover our essentials and pay off debts with some leftover for discretionary spending. According to researchers at Purdue University  the ideal individual income for optimal life satisfaction is $95,000 per year. But our emotional well-being is satiated with just $60,000-$75,000. Of course, this varies across regions, cultures, and individuals.

The second way to answer this question, and the one that is often difficult for people to understand – is how much money do we need in retirement? In fact, only 1 in 10 Americans actually understands how much they need to save for retirement. Our financial education system is failing us!

Here’s how to calculate how much you’ll need in retirement. First, determine your annual spending. This is how much you spend on everything for an entire year (rent/mortgage, car, food, clothing, travel, etc.…). Multiply this number 25 (for a safer, cushier retirement, calculate by 30). If you’re spending $35,000 per year, you’ll need approximately $875,000 ($35,000 x 25) to retire. This also assumes that you’ll withdraw around 4% or less from your investments in retirement. And of course, variables such as asset allocation and the current market will affect the success of this retirement portfolio. This method is not full-proof but it’s a great jumping-off point to get you started. It’s something that should be re-evaluated every year. If your annual expenses go up, your retirement number will too. This is why keeping your lifestyle in check is so important.

And finally, there’s the number of how much money YOU – personally – need to be happy, something I cannot answer. Many people will spend their off-hours ‘hustling’ to earn more with a financial goal in mind: to pay off debt, save for a child’s college or a down payment on a house. I think these are great, commendable reasons to maximize your earning potential. But there are many who approach money with an insatiable mindset – making more just for the sake of making more, or worse – making more to fulfill lifestyle creep. This is dangerous territory. If you don’t understand how much money you need then no amount will make you happy.

How are finances different when you are living alone compared to living with a partner or in a marriage?

I think when you are living with a partner or in a marriage, it’s incredibly helpful to share a financial vision. This can be tough to do as you may have very different views on how to spend and invest money. One of you may be making significantly more than the other, which can also add a point of contention. There are lots of variables at play here. So, I think the key is finding common ground and compromising.

There are also some couples who choose to keep their finances completely separate and split everything down the middle or proportionately to what they make.  This can be a valid approach when you have strongly opposing views on finances. But I still think it’s important to find a common goal or outlook when it comes to shared expenses and work on it together – after all, that is what being in a partnership is all about.

Like most things in life, there’s more than one way to do something. The same goes for money. So, it’s important to keep an open mind and hold judgment when discussing finances with your partner. The best thing you can do is talk about your financial goals early on in the relationship and maintain regular discussions – or check-ins – about your finances.

Of course, living on your own means you are accountable for all the financial decisions. This can be empowering and freeing, but of course, so can being on the same financial page as your partner and having twice the income working towards a shared goal!

I am teaching my daughter about money. I also went to the bank and opened an account for her and gave her a debit card. How important is financial literacy?

Super important! I believe financial literacy should be part of every high school curriculum! That’s wonderful that you are starting her early with a debit card and getting her used to the concept of income versus expenses. I say it’s never too soon to start teaching your children about money.

I never truly understood just how interest on a credit card worked, which is why I found myself in $10K worth of consumer debt. Learning to be fiscally responsible is not usually something that comes naturally to us. After all, money is a man-made construct. There’s nothing innate about our users with it. We may have certain personality types that make us more likely to be savers, frugal spenders, or over-spenders. But many times, these are learned behaviors. Which means anyone can learn how to better manage their finances.

The sad part about our lack of financial literacy is that, without it, our financial decisions could follow us for years or even decades into the future if we don’t understand how money works. Financial literacy is a topic I’m particularly vocal about on my blog and social media.

What are some of the biggest challenges your generation is facing with regard to money?

In many ways, our generation has it easier than those before us. The power of the internet makes not only obtaining knowledge just a keystroke and click away, but so is investing and saving. We have an app for everything. Apps that will itemize our budget for us, automatically roll over our change on purchase into a savings account, or buy index funds. It couldn’t be easier.

However, with the internet comes a lot of noise and distraction. We are constantly being shown ways to consume instead of saving. We see dozens of sensationalized stories every day of how others accumulated wealth in passive and ‘simple’ ways. We see influencers living large doing the bare minimum. I think this can be very de-motivating. To be in constant contact with unattainable, and sometimes falsified, lifestyles and overnight success stories warp our vision of reality.

We are also becoming a culture of instant gratification because of the internet and things like Amazon Prime. Many of us give into immediate wants, such as buying the latest trends (even if we can’t afford it), instead of stashing away a few hundred dollars a month to save for our future wants. Our priorities are out of touch and I really believe the internet has a huge impact on that.

I have always saved 10% of my paycheck. Pls. comment?

10% is a great start! But you should definitely try to increase that. Here’s why: Let’s say you’re making $50,000 a year (after taxes). Saving 10% equates to $5,000 a year, which means you are spending about $45,000 a year. To maintain this lifestyle in retirement you would need about $1,125,000 invested. If you started investing $5,000 a year at 25 years old, you’d still fall short of this goal after 40 years by almost $100,000! This math scales. So even if you are making $100,000 per year but still only saving 10% (or $10,000), you’ve fallen into lifestyle creep and are now spending $90,000 a year. To maintain that lifestyle in retirement you would need about $2,250,000 in the bank. A 10% savings rate would get you to about $2,060,000 – still short!

A more sustainable savings rate is between 15-20%. Try increasing your savings rate by 1% every 3-6 months while reducing other unnecessary expenses. By gradually building up your rate, you’re less likely to feel like you’re pinching pennies or making drastic reductions in your lifestyle. When I first started my financial journey, I discovered bloggers who were saving in the vicinity of 75-80% of their income! I felt dwarfed by this in comparison as I only saved around 5-8%. But, little by little, I managed to cut the spending on things I really didn’t care about and save more. In doing so, my partner and I reached a savings rate of 52% while living in the States. Of course, this is more extreme as our goal is to reach financial independence as soon as possible. For someone on a traditional timeline, not wanting the option to retire early, they would do just fine with a rate closer to 20%.

Finally, give yourself advice when you were a teenager and in your early 20s?

Don’t overcomplicate your finances. Debt can wreak havoc on your financial AND emotional well-being. Be careful with it. Don’t buy crap to impress people you don’t care about. Spend less than you earn. Invest the rest. Start investing now and let compounding interest do the work for you. Financial independence is great but enjoy and trust in the process. It’s truly as simple as that.

And in life: be mindful of what you do today, it matters tomorrow. Eliminate the clutter in your life – whether it’s things or toxic relationships; both will slow you down. Design a life YOU want to live first and foremost, or someone else will do it for you. Don’t be ashamed if you choose the less beaten path; this is often the most exciting and fulfilling one.

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The strength of your personal financial resources is equivalent to the quality of your financial decision-making. –Wayne Charisa

Financial success isn’t just about the numbers in your bank account—it’s about defining what truly matters to your happiness and making choices that support that vision. I first learned this lesson during my very first week at a brokerage firm on Bay Street. David Wilkes, one of the most successful advisors I’ve ever met, pulled me into his office and shared three pieces of advice that have stuck with me ever since: buy a small house, keep the first wife, and drive your car for at least 15 years.

David’s wisdom extended beyond investing—it was about creating a life of stability, balance, and intentionality. Over the years, I’ve taken that guidance to heart, refining it into a set of strategies that have helped me—and can help you—build financial security and freedom. In this post, I’ll share 15 practical strategies for financial success, from setting goals and budgeting to investing wisely and living intentionally, all grounded in lessons I’ve learned from experience and observation.

What is financial success

Financial Success is how you define what is most important to your happiness.

It was my first week at the brokerage firm on Bay Street. David Wilkes pulls me into the office and tells me ‘Jerry, I am going to give you three pieces of advice. In other words, buy a small house, keep the first wife, and drive your car for at least 15 years.’ A great piece of advice from one of the most successful advisers on Bay Street. David was great at investing his money. He was one of the best entrepreneurs I have met. As a result, I have listened to the above advice, and here are my 15 strategies for financial success.

Write down your goals

It is important to write down your financial goals. It is your blueprint and vision for your financial success for instance.

Know the difference between wants and needs. Food, shelter, heat, hydro and water are needs in order to sustain your life. In addition, wants are cappuccinos, going to the movies, vacations, and an expensive watch. Make sure needs are covered and then take care of wants.

Set short term (less than a year), medium (1 to 5 years), and long-term goals (more than 5 years). Be precise, realistic; set a time frame and a dollar amount. Write beside the goals whether it is a need or a want. Figure out the cost of each goal, how many months you need to achieve it, and then how much money you need to save each month.

Create a budget

A budget is how you will spend your money in any given year. The budget tells you how much money you will have for the things you want to purchase. In my two decades of voluntary counseling, every single person who was ever referred to me never had or followed a budget. In other words, a budget also allows you to live within your means and gets you a step closer to financial success.

Create an emergency fund

As the name suggests, this is for emergencies. What happens if you are laid off? What happens if you are in an accident? The dishwasher breaks down or you need winter tires. In conclusion,  open a high-interest account at a bank and have at least 6 months of your salary saved up in this account.

Pay off your debts 

A Globe and Mail survey in 2018 found 48 % of Canadians live paycheck to paycheck. This is a stressful situation. Is it really worth carrying credit card debt at 21% interest? Once you are debt-free, you are not at the mercy of the lenders or anyone. You are free and can live life as you choose. Imagine if you paid off your mortgage, car and student loans. That means you do not have to pay rent or mortgage payments, no car or student loan payments. You can take it easy. You can take a less stressful job or work from home or work fewer days a week.

Save 10 percent

I strongly recommend that you start saving 10 percent of the money you earn. As you get more disciplined you can save more. Above all, this is your nest egg.

Save for retirement

At some point in our lives, the paycheck stops coming. Many of us will live at least more than two decades after we retire. We will need money for this. The best thing to do is to invest in a Registered Retirement Savings Plan.

Give to charity

The National Institute of Health did research on the brains of individuals who donate money. The act of giving money to a good cause activated pleasure centers in the brain. When you give money to a charity that is aligned with your goals and values you are making a difference and impacting other people’s lives.

Be patient

Rome was not built in one day. When you buy a home, do not go and buy a brand-new car, new furniture, install hardwood, new interlock and remodel the kitchen. The extra debt will add unnecessary pressure on you. Take your time and do one thing at a time to become financially successful.

Stay away from credit cards

The average credit card debt in Canada is $2,600. Many pay only the minimum balance. That means paying 21% interest on it. Use credit cards only if you have the money in the bank account.

Do not buy on impulse

This is your biggest enemy. It can derail any plan you have for simplicity and frugality. Avoid malls and do window shopping. Stick to your goals, budget, and plan and avoid online retail.  A walk, volunteering, going to the gym, talking to a friend, or having someone over can make up for retail therapy.

If you are married, keep the first wife

Many successful married men have asked me what is the best financial advice I can give them. I always tell them to keep the first wife. Divorce messes you mentally, emotionally and financially. Keep her and treat her well.

Keep track of your spending

Have an excel spreadsheet or write down your major expenses and expenditure so you know you have the funds in your bank account.

Invest in a TFSA

If you have extra funds, invest in the Tax-Free Savings Account. You are allowed to invest a certain amount every year and you do not have to pay tax on any interest, dividend, or capital growth in this account.

Do not keep up with the neighbor

Make a promise to yourself. You will not keep up with the neighbor. Do you really need to spend $40,000 on interlock? Do you need to install an outdoor pool which you will barely use? If you have a paved driveway, is an interlock driveway any better?

Drive the car for 15 years

If you buy a new car, as soon as you drive it out of the showroom it loses thirty-five percent of its value. You are better off buying a car that is one year old. If you do decide to buy a new car, drive it for the next 15 years or at least 300,000 km before you get a new one.

In conclusion, these are some of my strategies for financial success, let me know if you are using them and how they have worked out for you.

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When it comes to money, most of us know the importance of planning—but very few of us actually sit down to create a household budget. To better understand why budgeting, financial planning, and legacy preparation are important, I sat down with Tony Romolo, a seasoned professional with over three decades of experience in the financial services industry, currently with Manulife Private Wealth.

In our conversation, Tony shares candid insights on why a household budget is more than just numbers—it’s about control, choices, and creating a roadmap for your hopes and dreams. From the basics of budgeting to the importance of credit, estate planning, insurance, and even family values, Tony’s open thoughts offer a practical yet philosophical look at how money shapes our lives.

Please note: These open thoughts, ideas, and commentary on a household budget are those of Tony Romolo only. They are informal in nature and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Manulife Private Wealth.

Tony, you have been in financial services for three decades. Walk me through why it is important to have a household budget.

A household budget is very important, and yet I can think of only a few that have one.  Why is a household budget important?  Because, in my opinion, a budget is about control.  A budget gives reasonable comfort and control over household finances.  It is the road map that will help determine how the money you receive is spent, saved, invested, gifted, and so on.  Because a budget is a forward-looking forecast, it is bound to be imperfect.  That’s okay.  The absence of a budget means a lack of control, stress, added expense, and so on.  Having a budget is a key component in helping you achieve the goals you set.  Sounds pretty reasonable and straightforward so far, yes?  In fact, a household budget is far more complicated and involved than it appears because a budget is about making choices.  Essentially, life planning (as much as that is possible) requires a household budget to help ensure you realize your hopes and dreams. 

Help me understand what we should include in a budget? 

A household budget is a forecast of money that will be received and money that will be spent over a future period.  A budget should be tweaked periodically and amended as required.  There are endless formats and tools to help establish a household budget ranging from the very simple to the very sophisticated.  Budgeting is essentially goal setting.  To successfully meet your budgeting goals, a household budget should include a couple of key things.  Firstly, a budget should not be a burden and a sore spot.  Remember, a budget is supposed to give you control and relieve household financial stress.  A properly structured budget should be a go-to tool that keeps you on track and gives you comfort.  Secondly, a budget should be flexible such that you can stay on plan while at the same time be prepared for managing unexpected expenses or money you unexpectedly receive.  Again, the idea is more about having a useful tool you can rely on as opposed to feeling terrible about going over budget or elated about being under budget.

How important is it to maintain a good credit score and rating?

Maintaining a good credit score and a good credit rating is very important.  A good credit score helps lenders assess your creditworthiness.  A good credit score will help lenders provide the best loan pricing possible.  A good credit score will give the prospective borrower the most favorable terms and conditions when borrowing money.  In today’s day and age reliance on credit and access to credit is perhaps more important than ever.  Having a good credit rating and credit score will help you with the credit you currently have and with the credit, you may need to access in the future.

Explain the different kinds of credit ratings and how can I mess it up? 

Your credit score recaps how much you owe to lenders, how much credit you have access to, what your repayment history has been like and other things.  Essentially, credit history reports capture installment loan information (like your car loan) and revolving or line of credit information such as the limit on your credit card, how long you have had the card, how much you owe, etc.  Your credit score is sensitive to how much actual debt you owe and how much you have access to.  It is also sensitive to how often you look to borrow money.  It is sensitive to how many different lenders you approach.  It is certainly sensitive to your repayment history.  Your repayment history is carefully tracked.  If you miss a monthly payment, for example, it will be re-scored as such.  Credit history reports are meant to be factual.  If you file a consumer proposal or declare bankruptcy, for example, that will be recorded in your credit history report.  Essentially, it is important to adhere to the terms and conditions set out by the lender that you agree to when you borrow. 

Why is having a financial plan important and what is your role in doing that?

Having a financial plan is very important.  Generally, a financial plan is all-encompassing capturing all money-related elements of an individual, couple or family.  A financial plan is the blueprint and road map one can rely on to help achieve financial life goals.  For the past couple of decades, I have worked closely with financial advisors in a multitude of different firms that specialize in financial planning.  Again, there are amazing tools and software to help navigate the complexities of financial planning.  I have really never been a financial planner, per se.  I have always participated in helping out with certain key aspects of the overall financial plan. 

Let’s talk about estate planning. Why is it important? 

An estate is all the money and property one owns at any given time.  The estate may exist while one is alive when one dies and beyond death.  As you might think, estate planning can be quite multi-faceted and usually refers to the planning process involved in passing on one’s money and property after death.  Inheritances.  Charitable giving.  Tax minimization.  I will get a little philosophical and I will keep it simple because the topic is very broad.  Estate planning deals with the legacy one leaves behind.  Estate planning is about giving meaning to the life one has led. 

Why is having life insurance important?

Life insurance is a very unique asset.  As you might imagine, it is insurance in one’s life.  One might argue that there is no need to insure something that can be easily replaced if lost.  By that logic, life insurance is absolutely essential because human life is irreplaceable.  I realize I’m getting philosophical again.  A financial plan might outline the need and amount of life insurance required.  Your budget will also capture what the cost of life insurance is and how that factors into your overall goal-setting and legacy planning.  The owner of a life insurance policy will insure life and name a beneficiary or beneficiaries.  Life insurance is an excellent tool used to protect assets and replace income in the event of the death of the insured.  The owner of the life insurance policy can also access the value of the policy during his or her lifetime.  I stand by my earlier comment.  We work incredibly hard to generate income and create wealth so protecting that income and wealth with life insurance is a very prudent thing.  Interesting use of life insurance is actually an attractive estate planning strategy.  I will give you a rough idea:  A parent can purchase life insurance on the life of their child and then transfer that life insurance to the child in a rollover transaction.  This is attractive because, essentially, the parent has the ability to purchase life insurance for the benefit of yet-to-be-born grandchildren! 

What is your opinion on having a will?

It is important to have a will.  We talked about financial planning and estate planning.  A will is a key part of the planning.  A valid and well-thought-out will ensure estate planning efforts are seen through to completion.  Get a will properly drafted.  The costs are justified.  Avoid the unnecessary costs, delays, and family bickering that result when one dies intestate (without a will). 

Give me three practical tips on how to manage our finances.

Three practical tips when it comes to managing your finances:

Pay yourself first.  This one is my favorite.  The idea is to set aside, save, or automatically invest a percentage of your regular income as soon as you receive the income.  This is a great habit to get into.  You will not notice you are paying yourself first.  You will build an excellent investment portfolio/savings.

Do not carry high-interest debt.  Do not carry credit card balances.  Pay your credit card debt in full each month.  If you can, refinance your debt into the lowest-cost loan possible.  Usually, refinancing your debts into your mortgage is best.  Part of this point is to avoid the trap of refinancing your mortgage with regular frequency because that sort of defeats the purpose!

Invest in yourself.  Take a college/university course every year.  Read.  Be a lifelong learner.  Be active and look after your health.  Be a part of your community and be sure to give back.  Volunteer.  Investing in yourself will generate ever greater financial and personal dividends. 

Talk to me about food, family, and some of your favorite restaurants in Toronto.

Family is very important to us.  I refer to family in a broad sense.  It is important to remember and acknowledge we are inter-connected to our parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, and so on.  We are all rich tapestries.  We are all in this together.  Life would have us believe we are misunderstood, alone, and isolated, however, the opposite is true.  Our family’s favorite restaurant is Terroni.  Everything on the menu is a win!

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