Money touches everything. It affects how we sleep, how we eat, how we raise our children, and how we dream about the future. Yet too often, we treat finances like a separate compartment of life, disconnected from faith, family, and well-being.

What if we approached money the way we approach health, looking at the whole picture instead of isolated parts?

In this conversation, Jason Trueman, Portfolio Manager with Cumberland Private Wealth Management, shares why a holistic approach to household finances matters. From buying a quality mattress to investing with discipline, Jason explains how thoughtful spending, long-term vision, and balance can create not just wealth, but freedom and peace of mind.

Welcome to Four Columns, where food, faith, finance, and family are not separate conversations, but part of the same story.

Jason, welcome to Four Columns, a holistic blog on food, faith, finance, and family. Please tell me a little about yourself.

I am a Portfolio Manager with Cumberland Private Wealth Manager. Cumberland is headquartered in Toronto. I work with a talented team in Kingston, Ontario, including a CFP, CA, CPA, and TEP, providing holistic wealth management services for successful Canadian families and business owners.

How did you end up in personal finance?

I graduated from Queen’s University with a Bachelor of Commerce Degree. I received my CFA charter in 2001. I started my career as an Underwriter with Chubb Insurance. I was recruited by AIG and worked in Bermuda for 7 years before returning to Kingston to raise our young family in 2010.

Give me three tips on how to have a holistic approach to personal finance?

Control your spending by buying things you need and on an average cost basis (i.e. you will spend one-third of your life on a mattress so buy a good one).

Be disciplined with your investing. Buy dominant companies with great management who care about both their customers and their shareholders (these are rare and require work to find).

There is a balance between disciplined spending and enjoying your life; life is short so if you need a trip or a new car or new shoes to enjoy your life then spend the money.

What happens when we live on credit cards and not on our salary?

Credit cards that you pay off in full on a monthly basis and never pay interest on and accumulate rewards are great. When you overspend and pay exorbitant interest living beyond your means then you will suffer from difficult financial decisions and increasing stress.

How important is it to have a budget as part of a holistic approach to our personal finance?

I find long-term goals are helpful in providing meaning to your actions like why am I going to work and saving for my child’s education or retirement. Budgets help keep your life and spending in order; like a calendar and daily to-do lists.

What are some important tips to start saving?

Paying off your higher interest-bearing debt is most important. Taking advantage of government savings programs like RESPs, RRSPs and TFSAs is enormously important as well. Again, buying things you need (healthy food, a quality mattress) instead of buying things you want for status and cost a lot on a per-use basis (the tenth pair of shoes, vacation properties) is critically important.

How do you balance faith, food, finance, and family?

I believe in humanity; if we all do our part to contribute, we collectively accomplish amazing things. If you don’t spend money on healthy food then you’ll pay the price with poor health and physical limitations. Finance is about independence; ideally, a career doing something you enjoy while creating financial freedom to do nothing if you so choose. Raising kind, caring and confident children who find something productive they love to do in life are our number one job as parents.

Can you recommend some great restaurants in Kingston?

Kingston has an enormous array of awesome restaurants – having 35,000 students in the city helps. I prefer local family-owned restaurants such as Tango, Woodenheads, and Harpers.

You manage money for the wealthy, what have you learned from the experience? Do they have a holistic approach?

Success usually requires some form of sacrifice at some stage in their life. For many that mean focusing on academic excellence instead of always finding the nearest party. For others, that means pursuing an idea, a vision, and taking on considerable financial risk, and working excessive hours to make their dream a reality.

How important is food to you?

Food has an enormous impact on how you feel and how you look. Humanity would benefit from healthier eating with lower health care costs, lower greenhouse gas emissions, and an overall more productive society and cleaner earth.

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A financial plan is a road map to achieving your financial goals.

We all have financial goals. It could be for a vacation, purchasing a home, children’s education, or retirement.

A financial plan looks at where you are at present and what you want to achieve in the future. It looks at net worth, cash flow, insurance planning, estate planning, retirement planning, and taxes.

A financial plan gets you in touch with reality, helps you to become realistic, looks at opportunities and risks, and gives you peace of mind.

Scott Schofield of Nesbitt Burns talks about reasons to have a financial plan and a disciplined savings strategy. Having this does not make you feel guilty.

Scott tell my global audience a little about you?

I am an investment advisor in London, Ontario, for approximately 150 families and business owners. I am a Chartered Investment Manager (CIM®) and have 20 years of experience in the asset management industry. Before joining BMO Nesbitt Burns, I consulted with financial advisors in my role as Senior Vice President with Mackenzie Investments and Dynamic Funds and hold a BA in Economics from Dalhousie University.

When not analyzing numbers, I enjoy many outdoor activities including kayaking and stand-up paddleboarding. My favorite activity is skiing with my wife and our two daughters that are 8 and 10 years old.

You have been around the financial services industry for a long time. What are some of the things you have learned? 

Being in the financial services industry has taught me a number of things over the years. However, one thing that stands out is that investors have a tendency to forget about ‘risk’ in their portfolios when the markets are good. It is always good to re-valuate your portfolio to ensure your portfolios are aligned with your objectives. If you are asking yourself, what are my objectives? you should seek advice from a licensed professional immediately.

Besides saving 10 percent, paying off your debts, living within your means what other advice can you give to my audience?

Great question, I would have to say seek out advice. Many Canadians feel like they do not have a high enough net worth to seek the advice of a professional. This is not the case. The value of having a financial advisor is undeniable.

Why is it important to save for retirement and what are some of the tools? 

There will come a day when you stop receiving a paycheque and need to replace that with an income from your portfolio. Saving in tax-deferred plans such as Registered Retirement Savings Plan’s (RRSP’s) and Tax-Free Saving Account’s (TFSA’s) are great ways to help reduce and manage the level of tax you will pay in retirement.

To become successful in saving, we have to make some sacrifices and have a financial plan. Do I always have to have the latest TV, cell phone, latest car? 

Some people really like to have the latest and greatest. I do! You should treat yourself from time to time. Having a financial plan and a disciplined saving strategy can potentially take the guilt out of treating yourself because you will know if you can or cannot afford these things.

Talk to me about TFSA and RESP? 

Both are great tools for investors.

The Tax-Free Savings Account (TFSA) began in 2009 and is a great way for Canadians to set aside money tax-free throughout their lifetime. A TFSA does not apply taxes on any contributions, dividends, capital gains, or interest earned, and can be withdrawn tax-free. This savings account is available to individuals aged 18 and older and can be used for any purpose.

An RESP is a great way to save for your child’s or grandchild’s post-secondary education. Parents, grandparents, and friends can contribute money any time to an RESP – up to a lifetime total of $50,000 per child. These contributions are not tax-deductible, but any investment income that’s earned within the plan isn’t taxed until it’s withdrawn.

The federal government will match 20% of the first $2,500 you contribute each year. That is $500 each year. When your children or grandchildren are eligible to start receiving the money to pay for tuition, books, computers, residence, meal plans, transportation and more, they pay the tax—generally at a much lower rate than you would have paid.

If my viewers want to become a client of yours, what are you looking for in a client? 

The bottom line is we want to work with clients that are engaged in their financial well-being.

Working towards financial goals is best done by a collaboration between our clients and our team.

It does take some investment of time in the early stages to get to know our client so we can properly propose personalized solutions and a financial plan that finds a balance between their goals and their risk tolerance. From there we implement the plan and monitor it year-round.

How important is it to have a financial plan, a road map of where you are going, goals, estate plan, and a will? 

I cannot stress enough how important a financial plan is to our client’s financial well-being.

It is a personalized blueprint or roadmap to meeting and exceeding financial goals.

A plan is adjusted over time as life events and unexpected things happen in our clients’ lives.

It also is a tremendous aid in helping to minimize tax during and after our clients’ lives.

How important is food to you and let us know some of your favorite restaurants in London?

What can I say I love food! I always like to be the first of my friends to try new restaurants and enjoy traveling and trying new to me restaurants along the way.

In London, I tend to frequent two of my favorites often.

The Church Key Bistro-Pub is a British traditional gastropub specializing in traditional food done with a gourmet flair. They use seasonal and locally sourced ingredients whenever possible. If you go there you have to try their Ale & Onion Soup with the Smoked Salmon Sammy.

The Bungalow – Neighbourhood Hub, is a great neighborhood ‘local’ in a residential area. The restaurant’s style and cuisine are designed for casual and convivial enjoyment. They have an extensive craft beer selection and a build your own burger option that they claim results in over 3000 different possible combinations. When not tinkering with my burger recipe of choice, my go-to is the Fish Tacos with the Habanero Potato Cheddar Bacon Soup.

How do you balance faith food family and finance in the 21st century? 

Finding a balance is sometimes tough with a busy practice and family. Making and taking the time to shut off devices and being in the moment with my family is very important to me. The best conversations are with my girls walking the dog after dinner or the quiet time when riding the chair lift when skiing the family.

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A household budget is a financial plan that allocates future personal income towards expenses, savings, and debt repayment.

Welcome to my series, How To Use Money To Make You Happier.  In the introduction section, I gave some stats and mentioned a few reasons for starting this series. I am going to break this series into a couple of steps:

Introduction

Make SMART financial goals

Create a budget

Income

Expenses

Needs and wants

Debts

Difference between good and bad debt

Pay off debt

Use the credit to your advantage

Give to charity

Introduction

Budgeting has only one rule: Do not go over budget – Leslie Tayne

A debt problem is, at its core, a budgeting problem – Natalie Pace

When it comes to money and so many other things in life, understanding your weaknesses and strengths can help you with your future plans – Tagene Brown-Mcbean

If there is one thing, I have learned being in the wealth management business, teaching financial planning, and counseling people over the last two decades is that Americans do not like to create a budget. As a result,  I have heard it all. Jerry, you are taking away all the fun from life. You mean I cannot take three vacations a year. I cannot buy a new pair of shoes every month. I cannot buy expensive makeup. I cannot eat out all the time. No! I am not saying that. In conclusion, I am empowering you to live within your means by creating a household budget.

The main goal of a household budget is to show how much money you are making a month and how it is spent. It is the foundation to build your financial future. Above all, a budget helps you to use your money efficiently.

A household budget gives you control. It allows you to balance your income with your expenses.

If you do not balance your budget and spend more than you bring in then you end up in debt.

Income

The first step in creating your household budget is to look at your monthly net income. If you get paid on the 15^th and the 30^th of the month and you get $2,000 every payday then your monthly income is $4,000.

Expenses

It is important to keep track of all your monthly expenses.

I like to break down expenses into fixed, variable, and discretionary.

The first thing to look at is your fixed expenses. The fixed expenses could be your student loan payments, car payments, rent, or mortgage. These payments are fixed and you cannot decrease them.

The second thing to look at is your variable expenses. These expenses can change from month to month and would include gas and groceries.

Discretionary expenses would include shopping, entertainment, travel, and recreation.

The bank or the credit card will provide you with a proper breakdown of your expenses.

You have now documented your net monthly income and your fixed and variable expenses. You can see where your money is going and you can make changes. If you make $4,000 a month and you are spending $3,600 and saving $400 a month, give yourself an A+. If you are spending more than $4,000 a month, then you need to look at your discretionary expenses and changes need to be made.

Create a System

I will let you decide if you want to use a pen and paper, Excel budget template, money management apps, budget calculator, financial software, or a system designed by the financial gurus. At the end of this article, I will give you a simple example of a budget worksheet.

Advantages of having a budget

It empowers you and gives you control

It keeps you focused

It shows waste

Reveals your spending habits

Reduces stress

Helps in becoming more disciplined

Helps you focus on your goals

Motivates you to save for vacations and unexpected bills

Needs and Wants

You cannot always have what you want. Sometimes you get what you need. – Linda Berdoll

Supply the needs first and the wants later, for one can only obtain true peace, love, and joy when one supplies the needs first and not the wants. – David Benedict Zumbo

A need is something you have to have in order to survive. Food, clothing, shelter, and health care are examples of a need. A BMW, Nike shoes, Polo T-shirts, eating out, going to the movies are wants. Try to spend 80% of your income on needs, 10% on wants, and save 10%.

Example of a Household Budget

Monthly Income                   _____           Insurance                   _____

Net Income     4,000                                            Car

Dividends                                                               Health

Interest                                                                   Life

Benefits                                                                   Home

Charity                                   _____             Personal                     _____ 

Savings                                   _____            Groceries

Vacation                                                                Personal

Retirement                                                           Other

Wants                                                                    Miscellaneous

Credit Card Debts                _____          Entertainment           ______

Visa                                                                        Meals

MasterCard                                                          Movies

Amex                                                                     Gym

Loans                                      _____

Student

Car

Home                                      _____                                

Mortgage/Rent

Taxes

Heat

Water

TV/Cell/Internet

Monthly Income minus all your expenses let you know if you are over or under budget

Finally, it is important to review your budget, every quarter. A budget is a piece of art and not an exact science. Look at some of the areas you need to get better. If you are getting better reward yourself.

There will be times when you have an unexpected expense. That is when your savings come in handy.

Email me back as to how this has helped me and any other questions you may have.

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How to make SMART financial goals.

Welcome to my series, How To Use Money To Make You Happier.

In the introduction section, I gave some stats and mentioned a few reasons for starting this series.

I am going to break this series into a couple of steps:

Introduction

Make SMART financial goals

Create a budget

Income

Expenses

Needs and wants

Debts

The difference between good and bad debt

Pay off debt

Use credit to your advantage

Give to charity

SMART Goals

It must be borne in mind that the tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goals to reach – Benjamin Mays

I am a big fan of having goals that are SMART. Your financial goals need to be specific, measurable, agreed upon, realistic, and time-based.

Your financial goals must be defined and clear to you. It should be obtainable and you need to know and find out when it has been achieved. It needs to be agreed either by you, by everyone in the family or household, within the time frame to achieve the goals.

Three Kinds of Financial Goals

I want you to take a piece of paper and a pen and write down your goals.

Divide your goals into three parts.

The short-term goals are those that you want to achieve between 1 and 3 years.

Car repairs, home repairs, home improvements, vacation, personal items, credit card payment, student loan payments, insurance, rent or mortgage payment, emergency fund, and any other day to day expenses come under short term goals.

Medium-term goals are those that you want to achieve between 4 and 10 years.

Saving for a down payment on a house, debt payments, saving to buy a car, are examples of medium-term goals.

Long terms goals are those that you want to achieve after 10 years from now.

Saving for retirement, paying off your mortgage, saving for your children’s education are examples of a long-term goal.

When you set goals, you are setting a foundation upon which to build your future.

The goal of this series is for you to use your money to make you happier. As a result, you need to focus on the fact that your goals are there, so you do not worry, have shelter, food, enjoy your hobbies, have a car, go on vacations and save for your children.

Specific

A specific goal needs to answer which, why, where, who and what you want to achieve.

The what goal could be to save, so you can tour Europe.

You might want to pay off your mortgage in the next fifteen years. A goal could also be that you want to retire by 55. Another example would be, you want to go to the gym four times a week.

The why goal is there for a reason. Why do you want to tour Europe? Do you want to see different countries? Do you want to experience different foods and cultures? Why do you want to pay off your mortgage in the next fifteen years?

The why has to be aligned with your goals, values, vision, and mission about your life. There needs to be a link here. Once that link is there, you will be happier.

The where goal looks at what gym you want to join to go four times a week?

The who looks at everyone else involved in your life. If you are single then that is good also. If you are married or living with someone, then the who looks at all the other people involved in your life who might be impacted by this goal.

The which factor looks at the exercises you will do to stay in shape. The other factor is which countries do you want to visit in Europe?

Measurable

The measurable aspect will look at how much. How much looks at the amount of money you have to save to go to Europe. How much do you need to save to retire at 55? How much is the mortgage and what will it take to get it accomplished? You need to measure; how much you are saving monthly or quarterly for that vacation.

Achievable

The financial goal needs to be achievable. As you get closer to your goal, you will feel good and motivated. Do not create some pie in the sky.

Realistic

Keep in mind all those around you. If you have a mortgage, two car payments, and a couple of kids, then making a goal to save $40,000 in a year is not a realistic goal.

Time-Based

Your goals need to be based on a time limit.

I want to show you, how you can do a SMART goal to pay off your mortgage or student loan in 20 years.

‘I want to pay off my student loan in 20 years’. ‘We want to pay off our mortgage in 20 years’. This is an example of a specific goal.

‘The balance of my student loan is $ 20,000, I want to bring it to zero by 2039’.

‘We want to pay off our mortgage of $250,000 by 2039 is another example of a measurable goal’.

If you are a single professional and making decent money, then maybe paying off $ 20,000 in student loans over a 20-year period is attainable. The same is possible for the mortgage.

In order for the goal to be realistic then your income and lifestyle need to match the goal.

The 20 years is the time-based goal.

Take some time and complete this assignment.

Thanks for reading and do write back to me as to how you are coming along with this and if you have any challenges.

Photo Credits: bongkarn thanyakij Andrea Piacquadio 

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In this post, I will show you how to use money to make you happier.

In the 21^st century, money is critical, essential, influential, significant, vital, fundamental, and important.

We go to school, college, and then university to become capable of earning it. After graduation, we spend the next four decades, making it. We think about it, how to make more, how to spend it, we worry about it and finally dream about winning the lottery.

Is money the root of all evil or can it be used to make a difference in society? In a divorce, arguing over money is one of the reasons given for separating. Our emotions ride high and low with how the stock market behaves or the value of the real estate. Some want the easy way out and resort to crime to achieve it. The world is judged by being first, third, and developing based on how much they have in terms of money.

In 2010, Bill Gates and Warren Buffett started the Giving Pledge. The top 1% is being asked to give more than half their net worth to sustain the environment, reform criminal justice, culture, arts, medical research, empowering girls and women, to get rid of poverty and other causes. 154 billionaires have signed the pledge. They do not want to leave the money for the next generation.

I found myself having to deal with money when I was in grade 8. I was in boarding school and a bank account had been opened for me. I was allowed a set amount of pocket money a month. At Bishop Cotton, the bank was on campus. However, all withdrawals had to be signed by the housemaster.

At college and university, I had to budget and make sure I never spent more than I had in my bank account. I did a co-op (internship) at Hotel De La Paix in Geneva. The crème de la crème of Geneva had their meals at the hotel. The tips were great.

I worked at a bank for a decade of lending money and then managing money for individuals. After that, I spent more than 15 years on Bay Street. Every couple of years, we had to update the client information. When I called clients for information on money, it was a tough fight. I soon learned that people are willing to talk about everything but money. It is an emotional thing. Our ego, identity, and everything else is attached to that paycheck.

Money is essential so we can have food, clothes, and shelter. Money can give us many options. However, do we use the money to have more free time or more things?

Does money make us happier? From the 1940s to the 90s, the purchasing power of Americans increased by 150%. Here is an interesting stat. The stats reveal that depression among people during that period went up by more than 10 times.

Tibor Scitovsky in 1976 wrote The Joyless Economy about human satisfaction. The author comes to an amazing conclusion. The best things in life cannot be bought with money. All research has shown that purpose, meaning, relationships, and connecting with nature bring people satisfaction.

Join me on the money series as I write on how to create a household budget, save for emergencies, retirement, and vacations, how to pay off debts, give to charity, and use credit to your advantage. I promise you this series will transform how you look at money and your life. You will learn how to use the money to make you happier.

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When it comes to money, most of us know the importance of planning—but very few of us actually sit down to create a household budget. To better understand why budgeting, financial planning, and legacy preparation are important, I sat down with Tony Romolo, a seasoned professional with over three decades of experience in the financial services industry, currently with Manulife Private Wealth.

In our conversation, Tony shares candid insights on why a household budget is more than just numbers—it’s about control, choices, and creating a roadmap for your hopes and dreams. From the basics of budgeting to the importance of credit, estate planning, insurance, and even family values, Tony’s open thoughts offer a practical yet philosophical look at how money shapes our lives.

Please note: These open thoughts, ideas, and commentary on a household budget are those of Tony Romolo only. They are informal in nature and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Manulife Private Wealth.

Tony, you have been in financial services for three decades. Walk me through why it is important to have a household budget.

A household budget is very important, and yet I can think of only a few that have one.  Why is a household budget important?  Because, in my opinion, a budget is about control.  A budget gives reasonable comfort and control over household finances.  It is the road map that will help determine how the money you receive is spent, saved, invested, gifted, and so on.  Because a budget is a forward-looking forecast, it is bound to be imperfect.  That’s okay.  The absence of a budget means a lack of control, stress, added expense, and so on.  Having a budget is a key component in helping you achieve the goals you set.  Sounds pretty reasonable and straightforward so far, yes?  In fact, a household budget is far more complicated and involved than it appears because a budget is about making choices.  Essentially, life planning (as much as that is possible) requires a household budget to help ensure you realize your hopes and dreams. 

Help me understand what we should include in a budget? 

A household budget is a forecast of money that will be received and money that will be spent over a future period.  A budget should be tweaked periodically and amended as required.  There are endless formats and tools to help establish a household budget ranging from the very simple to the very sophisticated.  Budgeting is essentially goal setting.  To successfully meet your budgeting goals, a household budget should include a couple of key things.  Firstly, a budget should not be a burden and a sore spot.  Remember, a budget is supposed to give you control and relieve household financial stress.  A properly structured budget should be a go-to tool that keeps you on track and gives you comfort.  Secondly, a budget should be flexible such that you can stay on plan while at the same time be prepared for managing unexpected expenses or money you unexpectedly receive.  Again, the idea is more about having a useful tool you can rely on as opposed to feeling terrible about going over budget or elated about being under budget.

How important is it to maintain a good credit score and rating?

Maintaining a good credit score and a good credit rating is very important.  A good credit score helps lenders assess your creditworthiness.  A good credit score will help lenders provide the best loan pricing possible.  A good credit score will give the prospective borrower the most favorable terms and conditions when borrowing money.  In today’s day and age reliance on credit and access to credit is perhaps more important than ever.  Having a good credit rating and credit score will help you with the credit you currently have and with the credit, you may need to access in the future.

Explain the different kinds of credit ratings and how can I mess it up? 

Your credit score recaps how much you owe to lenders, how much credit you have access to, what your repayment history has been like and other things.  Essentially, credit history reports capture installment loan information (like your car loan) and revolving or line of credit information such as the limit on your credit card, how long you have had the card, how much you owe, etc.  Your credit score is sensitive to how much actual debt you owe and how much you have access to.  It is also sensitive to how often you look to borrow money.  It is sensitive to how many different lenders you approach.  It is certainly sensitive to your repayment history.  Your repayment history is carefully tracked.  If you miss a monthly payment, for example, it will be re-scored as such.  Credit history reports are meant to be factual.  If you file a consumer proposal or declare bankruptcy, for example, that will be recorded in your credit history report.  Essentially, it is important to adhere to the terms and conditions set out by the lender that you agree to when you borrow. 

Why is having a financial plan important and what is your role in doing that?

Having a financial plan is very important.  Generally, a financial plan is all-encompassing capturing all money-related elements of an individual, couple or family.  A financial plan is the blueprint and road map one can rely on to help achieve financial life goals.  For the past couple of decades, I have worked closely with financial advisors in a multitude of different firms that specialize in financial planning.  Again, there are amazing tools and software to help navigate the complexities of financial planning.  I have really never been a financial planner, per se.  I have always participated in helping out with certain key aspects of the overall financial plan. 

Let’s talk about estate planning. Why is it important? 

An estate is all the money and property one owns at any given time.  The estate may exist while one is alive when one dies and beyond death.  As you might think, estate planning can be quite multi-faceted and usually refers to the planning process involved in passing on one’s money and property after death.  Inheritances.  Charitable giving.  Tax minimization.  I will get a little philosophical and I will keep it simple because the topic is very broad.  Estate planning deals with the legacy one leaves behind.  Estate planning is about giving meaning to the life one has led. 

Why is having life insurance important?

Life insurance is a very unique asset.  As you might imagine, it is insurance in one’s life.  One might argue that there is no need to insure something that can be easily replaced if lost.  By that logic, life insurance is absolutely essential because human life is irreplaceable.  I realize I’m getting philosophical again.  A financial plan might outline the need and amount of life insurance required.  Your budget will also capture what the cost of life insurance is and how that factors into your overall goal-setting and legacy planning.  The owner of a life insurance policy will insure life and name a beneficiary or beneficiaries.  Life insurance is an excellent tool used to protect assets and replace income in the event of the death of the insured.  The owner of the life insurance policy can also access the value of the policy during his or her lifetime.  I stand by my earlier comment.  We work incredibly hard to generate income and create wealth so protecting that income and wealth with life insurance is a very prudent thing.  Interesting use of life insurance is actually an attractive estate planning strategy.  I will give you a rough idea:  A parent can purchase life insurance on the life of their child and then transfer that life insurance to the child in a rollover transaction.  This is attractive because, essentially, the parent has the ability to purchase life insurance for the benefit of yet-to-be-born grandchildren! 

What is your opinion on having a will?

It is important to have a will.  We talked about financial planning and estate planning.  A will is a key part of the planning.  A valid and well-thought-out will ensure estate planning efforts are seen through to completion.  Get a will properly drafted.  The costs are justified.  Avoid the unnecessary costs, delays, and family bickering that result when one dies intestate (without a will). 

Give me three practical tips on how to manage our finances.

Three practical tips when it comes to managing your finances:

Pay yourself first.  This one is my favorite.  The idea is to set aside, save, or automatically invest a percentage of your regular income as soon as you receive the income.  This is a great habit to get into.  You will not notice you are paying yourself first.  You will build an excellent investment portfolio/savings.

Do not carry high-interest debt.  Do not carry credit card balances.  Pay your credit card debt in full each month.  If you can, refinance your debt into the lowest-cost loan possible.  Usually, refinancing your debts into your mortgage is best.  Part of this point is to avoid the trap of refinancing your mortgage with regular frequency because that sort of defeats the purpose!

Invest in yourself.  Take a college/university course every year.  Read.  Be a lifelong learner.  Be active and look after your health.  Be a part of your community and be sure to give back.  Volunteer.  Investing in yourself will generate ever greater financial and personal dividends. 

Talk to me about food, family, and some of your favorite restaurants in Toronto.

Family is very important to us.  I refer to family in a broad sense.  It is important to remember and acknowledge we are inter-connected to our parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, and so on.  We are all rich tapestries.  We are all in this together.  Life would have us believe we are misunderstood, alone, and isolated, however, the opposite is true.  Our family’s favorite restaurant is Terroni.  Everything on the menu is a win!

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