I am excited to interview Nora Dunn. In 2006, Nora sold her financial planning practice in Toronto, Canada, and all her belongings to head for the adventure of a lifetime. She hit the road in early 2007, and over the next 12 years, traveled slowly through over 60 countries and five continents. Through these travel experiences, she learned that full-time travel doesn’t have to cost as much as we would suspect. Nora volunteered in trade for free accommodation – and stayed in some pretty damn nice places.  In fact, through these adventures, she coined the term financially sustainable travel. It’s not about budget travel, nor is it about being environmentally sustainable. It’s about making money successfully, spending money smartly, and managing it wisely – all in the arena of lifestyle travel. These three pillars form the foundation of this website. She is the original travel blogger before the industry was even formed. She has appeared in every magazine and website that is out there.

Nora, I love your blog as I love traveling, so tell me a little about you?

Thanks, Jerry! I love traveling too; so much so, in fact, that I decided to make it a lifestyle. In 2006, I sold everything I owned (including a busy financial planning practice) to embrace a life-long dream of “cracking the code” of various countries and cultures around the world; something I realized wasn’t possible with limited-duration vacations. I hit the road in early 2007 and traveled full-time for 12 years. I now have a home base in Toronto Canada, and I continue to travel for about half of each year.

How did the idea of Professional Hobo come about? What is it all about? What is unique about it? Who is your audience and why should we read it?

When I first started traveling full-time, I didn’t yet have a career as a digital content publisher (ie: travel writer, blogger, vlogger, and online jack of many trades). My initial adventures included taking the train across Canada and then spending a few months with some extended family in Edmonton. While there, I attended some local Rotary meetings (I’m a long-standing Rotarian and love attending Rotary meetings while I travel to meet locals I’d otherwise never meet, and Rotary became quite instrumental in future years when I was affected by some natural disasters….long story). But having sold everything and quit my career, I didn’t know how to answer the inevitable question of “what do you do?”. As a way of making fun of my proverbial homelessness and wanting to add a professional edge to it, I said: “I’m a Professional Hobo”. It stuck!

While blogging wasn’t an official industry at the time (blogs were still considered online journals), I had a blog for personal reasons, and thus named it The Professional Hobo. As the years progressed and my website developed, the name The Professional Hobo became more and more apt for a variety of reasons, not the least of which is that the overarching theme of the site is How to Travel Full-Time in a Financially Sustainable Way  – ie: how to be a professional homeless person!

My audience includes people who are interested in long-term or full-time travel and want to know the logistics of how to do it (from packing your bags to arranging your finances and more), as well as armchair adventurers who enjoy my (at times brutally) honest accounts of life on the road and cultural explorations.

Everyone I know is becoming a travel blogger. You have been doing this for more than a decade. Is it really a glam job or a lot of work?

My initial instinct, when asked this question, is to rail on about how travel blogging isn’t anywhere near as glamorous as it may seem. But let’s get it right – it allows me to travel the world full-time, and I sometimes get some amazing travel experiences for free in exchange for writing about them.

That said, in my experience, the biggest misconception about travel blogging is that it’s easy. Instant fame. Full-time vacation. SO wrong!

I regularly get emails from people who plan to take big trips and want to start a travel blog so they can get sponsorships and travel for free. In many cases, these people are emailing me as little as a few weeks in advance of their departure. I find it insulting that people think it’s that easy because it debases all the hard work – the years of blood, sweat, and tears – that I’ve poured into my online business.

Travel blogging is not easy. It takes months (if not years) of full-time hours with little to no pay to set up a website, optimize it, develop content, publish it, market it, etc, etc, etc. I’m considered a “pioneer” in the travel blog industry because there was no such industry when I started blogging. Today, a new travel blog is born every 38 seconds, so the competition is fierce. If you think the world is going to flock to your website and travel providers are going to give you stuff for free simply because you have a little online real estate, think again. Blogging is a bonafide business, requiring a diverse set of skills, an equal balance of passion and business sense, and a ton of work.

I was made all the more aware of how difficult working online, in general, can be when a friend decided to start an online business…..and failed miserably. The “X-factor” that not everybody considers when getting into a digital nomad lifestyle is that it requires a heroic dose of self-discipline. Not everybody has what it takes to sit down in front of a computer and work without a clock to punch, much less with some delightful new destination on the front doorstep waiting to be discovered.

This brings me to the last misconception about travel blogging and lifestyle travel as a digital nomad; it’s not a vacation. I work full-time, regardless of my location. Thus, if I spend two weeks at a destination, I’m going to see a whole lot less than somebody who is there on vacation for the same two weeks, touring around daily. This is one (of many) reasons why slow travel is the way to go when considering travel as a full-time lifestyle; the pace is completely different.

I have been dying to ask you this but does it get lonely on the road. You also talk about finding love on the road…walk me through that experience?

I’ve had a pretty kaleidoscopic collection of travel experiences in terms of the company I’ve kept. I traveled with long and short-term romantic partners, friends, tv crews, and a whole lotta time solo too.

While it’s natural to be concerned about loneliness on the road, it’s really not an issue. I mean, it depends on your travel style and also your personality, but on the whole, I’ve found that it’s actually easier to meet people on the road as a solo traveler than as part of a couple.

As for love on the road, well, I’ll let you read all about my romantic experiences here.

Honestly, can one make a living being a full-time travel blogger? What are the challenges? I Like that you are transparent by posting your annual income.

The short answer is yes, you can make a living as a full-time travel blogger. The reality is that not everybody has (or rather, understands) what it takes. While technically anybody can do it (if they’re willing to learn and practice the skills required), not everybody is suited for it. I’d make a really bad car mechanic, even if I went to school for it; my brain just doesn’t work in mechanical and special ways that are required for the job. The same goes for blogging; aside from the fundamental requirement of being a half-decent writer, you also need marketing, SEO, publishing, and other skill sets. It’s just not everybody’s forte.

Challenges to travel blogging as a career include the requirement for self-motivation, managing work-life balance (consistently my biggest struggle), adapting to a volatile and ever-changing industry, and dealing with a huge amount of competition. Many of these are the same challenges that any entrepreneur would face.

I publish my annual income and expense reports because when I started tracking my expenses I surprised even myself at how inexpensive full-time travel can be. I wanted to show the world that it can actually cost less to travel full-time than to live in one place! And then I wanted to show the world with my income reports that it’s possible to earn enough money online to support the lifestyle. I coined the term “financially sustainable travel” not as a synonym to “budget travel”, but rather as an open-ended equation that requires earning money successfully, spending it wisely, and balancing these two aspects so you can travel as long as you wish.

I have some colleagues who earn seven figures a year; their full-time travel lifestyle will look very different from other colleagues who are earning in the low five-figure range. Regardless of income and expenses, if you are spending within your means, you’re traveling in a financially sustainable way. It’s all about choice.

Name me some safe countries for women traveling alone? Also, give my female audience some advice on things to do and not to do?

This is a really subjective question. I’m relatively brave in terms of traveling alone as a woman, and yet, there are places I’d be nervous to visit alone. For example, I’m not big on going to countries where women’s rights are virtually non-existent (which includes, to my own surprise, Morocco). And yet, I have plenty of female friends who have gone there solo and loved it.

I’m also not a big fan of going solo to places where I’m an overtly visible minority. And yet, I visited places like India and Sri Lanka, lived in the Caribbean for two years, and lived in Peru for two years; in all those places (and many more) I stood out like a sore thumb.

So, rather than name specifically safe countries or unsafe countries for solo female travel, I’d rather suggest that women go where they’re comfortable going. As you garner travel experience, you’ll likely get braver and braver about where you’re willing to go. If you really want to visit a destination but are worried about doing it alone, then book yourself on a tour. You’ll get a whole set of experiences you wouldn’t likely have the chance to have if you were on your own, and it’s easy and enjoyable to be with a group.

We have a lot in common but you also were in the financial services industry. I am sure that has helped you with budgeting and staying within your income.

Absolutely; my inner financial planner is always there, balancing the books. But there are lots of tools available to help people who aren’t as financially literate as I am. It takes work, and a willingness to evaluate your circumstances and make changes as necessary. Not everybody is willing to critically evaluate their financial situation and make decisions accordingly. I’ve known more than one travel companion who simply ran out of money on the road because they weren’t willing to make the spending sacrifices required for their situation.

It probably also helps that I’m a minimalist and frugal, possibly to a fault. It’s a throwback to my “starving artist” days when I was a professional actor/singer/dancer. Knowing how to get by on very little money is a skill that serves me well. Though it frustrates some people around me when I deliberate ad nauseam before making large purchases, even when I can afford it. Old habits die hard!

You are in every newspaper and channel. What are some plans and goals for 2020?

That’s a great question. I have a few exciting things in store for 2020, including expanding my speaking opportunities; I’m regularly asked to speak at travel and financial conferences, and I’m developing content for broader audiences as well. I also have designs on writing a book (or three), and I’m always ready for another tv producer to invite me to host a show (I’ve filmed a few tv shows in my years on the road, and in a former life I used to work in the tv industry as a producer and host).

There are other possibilities on my radar, but I’ll keep them to myself until they develop further.

If I had a choice, I would send you to Mars on the mission. Name me something you want to take with you and why?

Gosh. I’m often asked what items I insist on traveling with, but that assumes I’m still on planet Earth! (My zero-waste kit is an example of something that I always have whenever I leave the house). But Mars is another matter. I dunno. Any answer I can think of sounds boring. Like, it’s a long trip. I’ll want a notebook so I can record my experiences, and some books loaded onto my Kindle for the long journey. See? Boring. Perhaps this is the dark side of my being so utterly practical. Haha!

The post Nora Dunn: The Professional Hobo appeared first on Four Columns of a Balanced Life.

It is time to take a vacation. You want to go to an all-inclusive resort. I have been to 10 all-inclusive resorts, taken a couple of cruises in the Caribbean and Central America. I have been to 30 countries and lived in four different countries.  I have traveled on business and stayed in some of the best hotels in Europe, the US, and Dubai. I love food, people, and culture and have an undergrad in hotel management from Switzerland. This is a practical guide on how to enjoy your vacation at an all-inclusive resort. Trust me if you follow these tricks your experience will be better at an all-inclusive.

Set a budget 

An all-inclusive can cost $ 600 a week all the way to $ 6,000 a week. Start saving a year in advance. You do not want to go on vacation stressing about how you will pay the bills. It is wise to include a taxi back and forth to the airport from your home or parking, tips and excursions. I recommend going during the low season. Avoid March break, Christmas, and New Year. Also, sometimes it is cheaper to fly during the week than at the weekend.

Choose an all-inclusive resort that meets your needs

If you are going as a family, choose a family resort. If you want peace, quiet, and romance then go to an adult resort. If you want restaurants, a marina, discos, and clubs then choose one that is in the downtown area. Remember if your resort is next to the airport, get used to planes taking off and landing and the noise. If you have mobility issues then choose a resort that has elevators and not constructed on a mountain.

Know what is included in an all-inclusive

It is important to know what is included. Make sure that baggage, transport from the airport to the hotel, tips, room service, mini bar, Wi-Fi and other services are included. Premium drinks, excursions, taxis, spa services, laundry, and long-distance phone calls are not included.

Eat yogurt

Two weeks before you head on your vacation, start eating yogurt. Yogurt increases the good bacteria in your intestines and will fight the bacteria that can lead to diarrhea at an all-inclusive.

Check flight times

If you are going for a week and you have an evening flight. You will get to the resort late in the evening or the night and you lose a whole day. I recommend taking an early morning flight. This way you are on the beach by noon.

Check the distance from the airport

I personally prefer a morning flight and a resort within a hrs distance from the airport. If you take a 6.30 am flights you arrive around 10 am. Once you pass customs, you can be at the resort latest by noon.

Sunscreen, tanning and mosquito spray

Make sure you carry the appropriate sunscreen, tanning, and mosquito spray with you. These are very expensive at the resort.

Sunglasses and a hat

If you do not want to get a headache and avoid getting sunburned then bring a pair of sunglasses and a hat.

Research the resort

Look at the map of the resort. This will give you an idea of where your room is located and how close you are to the beach, restaurant, pool, bars, amenities, and activities. On Google Maps find out the attractions, shopping centers, and nearby towns if you want to leave the resort. Also, look into public transportation and hospitals nearby.

Know the weather conditions

Look at the weather channel and it will give you one week and two weeks forecast. It is vital to know the weather, temperature, climate and any other conditions that will impact your vacation. Do not go during hurricane season.

Book your vacation

Now that you have money saved up and done your research book your vacation. Make sure you have your passport and visa if necessary.

Check with your family doctor

Call your doctor and see if you need to take any vaccinations for the country you are visiting. Carry Imodium, Pepto-Bismol and an after bite with you. All three are over the counter medications.

Exchange money

If you are in Canada and heading to Mexico, ask your local bank for Pesos. You will get the best rate. At your hotel, you will get 10% less.

Get to the airport

I recommend taking a taxi or limousine. The parking at the airport is expensive. If you stay at a hotel, make sure the buses come regularly. In a snowstorm, you can be stuck for a couple of hours.

At the airports

Enjoy your flight. As you land at the airport and pass customs walk straight through the timeshare sharks and head outside. Your representative will meet you there and take you straight to the air-conditioned bus and even offer you a beer.

Put all valuables in the safe

You are now at the resort and in the room. Unpack and put everything in place. Before you head to the pool or beach, put your passport, jewelry, cash and any other valuables in the safe.

Traveling with children

Find out about the kids’ club, the age limit, hours of operation, activities and tell them about any allergies. Also, ask if daycare is available after the kids’ club closes.

Take a tour

Walk around the resort. See the distance between your room and all the amenities.

Clothes

Dress appropriately for the pool, beach, lobby, restaurants, and clubs. The beach club might allow you to eat in your bikini. It is definitely a big no in the restaurant.

Restaurants

The resort will have at least 4 to 6 restaurants and about 6 to 10 bars. Ask the concierge about the types of restaurants, the names, what time they open and close and if reservations are required. Also, find out if they cater to any allergies.

Bring your own mug, insulated cup or flask

The drinks outside the fine dining restaurants will always be served in throwaway or plastic cups. If you prefer to drink coffee or your cocktail in your own cup or glass then bring it along.

Meet your representative

Your tour representative would want to meet you the next day. I strongly recommend that you see him/her. They are locals and will tell you everything about the resort and the tours. They can also help you in case of emergencies. The representative will also give you a return voucher which you give to the taxi or bus that will pick you to take you back to the airport.

Take it easy the first day

This is very important. I have seen many people get sick. It is not the fault of the resort. Remember you are in a new country. Brush your teeth with bottled water. On the first day, do not expose yourself to more than one hour of the sun. If you spend 8 hrs in the sun, have 8 Coronas, a couple of Mojitos and then a couple of drinks after you have overstuffed yourself with food. Guess what? You have shocked your body. The shock will suppress your immune system. You will get sick. Also, if you step outside the resort, drink only bottled water and eat at a well-established restaurant. Do not eat from any road hawker.

Do not lose your room key, wrist band or towels

Keep your room key with you always. If you lose your keys, you have to go back to reception, stand in line, explain the situation, answer any questions and then security might escort you back to the room. Do not lose the room keys. You will get a card for a towel. Do not lose this card. You will have to pay at least $20 per towel. You will get a wrist band during your stay at the resort. Do not lose it or cut it until you leave the resort.

Get in the mood

You are now finally here. Relax, take it easy and do that embraces this pace and flow. Be grateful and enjoy.

Forget the Wi-Fi and the internet

Wi-Fi has been around a short time. The internet has been around for the last quarter-century. Cell phones do not enhance your vacation. Take pictures for sure. But do not get worked up if the Wi-Fi strength is not strong or the internet is down. You do not have to check your social media feed every hour or your emails. Forget about checking with the office. Focus on yourself and your friends and family.

Do not schedule every minute

Do not bring your day timer and plan every minute of your vacation. It will ruin it for you and your family. Go with the flow and enjoy talking to the other guests and employees.

Food

After I have visited an all-inclusive and read the reviews, I wonder if we were at the same resort. I am going to spend some more time here. Every resort I have visited, I have checked the kitchen. They are run by professional chefs with professional standards on safety, hygiene, and cleanliness.

I am going to lay down a couple of ground rules. If you are leaving from Canada, the UK or the US, the bacteria and microbes are different in the meat, fish, poultry, and vegetables. If you eat a steak rare or a salmon at medium, you should always eat your meat and fish well done. The bacteria are killed and chances of you getting sick are slim.

Before you enter the restaurant, use hand sanitizer. Drink bottled water only. Find out what oil is used. If you have eaten food cooked with sunflower oil and you eat everything cooked in coconut oil, your body is not used to it.

Most of the buffets have chefs making tacos, crepes, omelets, pasta, fish, steaks and tacos. Eat fresh off the grill.

Try different a la carte restaurants. Try various buffet restaurants. Try various local dishes.

Take it easy with the alcohol in the restaurants.

Activities

An all-inclusive will have activities from 9 am to 2 am. A family resort will have a playground, games room, mini-golf, and a waterpark. The adult resorts will focus on dance lessons, massage, tasting wine and everything romantic. In general, expect aerobics and stretching in the pool, games, volleyball, soccer, yoga, Spanish lessons, cooking lessons, guessing the alcohol in a cocktail, ping pong tournament, archery tournament, dart tournament, bingo, history questions to be some of the activities. My personal favorites are volleyball in the pool and ping pong.

On the beach snorkeling, kayaking, paddleboarding, sailing, windsurfing, parasailing, and gliding are some of the activities. Try them all.

Do not expect everything to be like home

I would strongly recommend learning a few words in Spanish and French. Always have Google translate with you. Embrace the new culture, food, and entertainment. Do not freak out if you see a lizard, fly, dragonfly or mosquito in your room.

Go outside the resort

One of the things I strongly recommend is taking an authentic tour to see historical sites, villages or a small town. It will open your mind and hearts as to how other people live. Go visit a local bakery, school, local market and you will notice things are done differently. Invest in sustainable, ethical tourism.

Ask questions

Talk to a concierge or someone at reception if you have a question. They are more than willing to help you.

Do not compare resorts

When you go on a tour or for a walk on the beach, you will meet fellow Canadian, American and from British tourists. Never compare your resort to the other. Always remember what you paid for your vacation.

On a rainy day

The first thing to do is not to freak out. Sleep in. Go to the spa. Exercise at the gym. Go shopping. Take a tour of the city. Spend the day at the sports bar. Watch soccer, play some pool or cards. This is your day. Do not let any rain spoil your day.

Tips

In the Caribbean, Mexico, and Central America, the staff depends on tips. This is my recommendation. For one week at an all-inclusive, a couple or a family of 3 should budget $200.

The driver who drives you to the resort and back to the airport: $5

Bag attendant: $2 per bag

Housekeeper: $15 a week

Minibar service: $2

Buffet waiter: $5

A la carte waiter: $10

Buffet chef: $5

Bartender: $2

Concierge: $5

One or two members of entertainment: $15

Tour guide: $10

Tip your bartender, waiter at the buffet and the omelet chef the first day and miracles will happen.

Finally, enjoy your vacation. Something will always go wrong. The staff at the resort are humans. They work long hours in extreme heat and on their feet. Treat them with love and respect and you will be surprised.

Photo Credits: Ana Acosta Sharon McCutcheon Karly Gomez Leio McLaren Belinda Fewings yue su Chelsea Gates STIL  Gary Tou twinsfisch David Boca Michelle Spollen

The post Discover 34 tricks to enjoy an all-inclusive resort appeared first on Four Columns of a Balanced Life.

Sharon Mendelaoui is a travel writer, passionate photographer, and graphic designer. She is the creator and publisher of dailydream360.com, a travel and lifestyle website featuring travel destination guides, fashion and beauty tips, and a selection of lifestyle articles to help her readers live a balanced dream life.

I met Sharon more than 15 years back as we both worked for the same company on Bay St. Sharon has been super friendly in answering a lot of my questions about blogging. A couple of months back, we sat down again and talked about life, our own path through the corporate world, where we are, and where we are heading. I told her I would send her some questions and to put that in writing. Sharon is real, vulnerable, and a lot of wisdom is shared here.

Sharon, it is a pleasure knowing you for the last decade. Please tell my audience a little about yourself.

I’m a dreamer born and raised in Toronto, Canada. I’ve had a passion for writing and art since I was a young girl, but the responsibilities of school and career took me away from that passion. I am a graphic designer and have been doing this for over 15 years, mainly for financial firms, one of which was where I was lucky enough to meet you!

I know you were in the corporate world for a while. Why the change and how has blogging helped you and shaped you?

Working in crazy corporate offices was stressful, and I was always dreaming about leaving and working for myself. I started blogging in hopes of finding ways to make money online. I had built at least 4 websites, all trying to do this as I worked in jobs that really didn’t inspire me at all. Google crushed my dreams with an update known in the web world called Panda.

The premise was that bad sites geared to getting traffic without good information were removed from search ranking. The updated hit all my sites except one, my hobby travel blog. I kept working on this hobby which I devoted my weekends too. It was like taking a vacation every weekend and made having to go into work during the week a little more bearable.

I don’t know why but I was surprised when I started to notice brands take notice of me. I didn’t quite believe that this hobby could somehow really be a business. I dreamt about it constantly, but it just didn’t sink in.

By 2012, I was on many Ontario Tourism Boards’ radars. On my very first press trip, we went treetop trekking. It was a hard course and after two obstacles I realized I wasn’t going to be able to complete it. I swallowed my shame, disappointment, and fear as the crew set up a high angle rescue. I had to lean back and let the harness carry all my weight as they winched me down a tree. About halfway down I had this overwhelming moment of pure joy. I knew I was the only blogger on the trip with this story and also, I knew in my core, this is what I was meant to be doing. I found my passion.

That was when I really started to take the website seriously. I also spent every spare second at work learning about running a business, planning my business and figuring out how I was going to take the plunge away from the corporate world.

In 2014, I was downsized from my corporate job. I took this as a sign. I could find another job that made me miserable and pays the bills or I could take this opportunity to chase my dream of running my own graphic design business and do the things that really inspired me. It was the scariest time of my life, but the combination of fear and joy was something I can’t even describe in words and it pushed me to share that dream in my website Daily Dream 360.

What is Daily Dream 360 all about?

Daily Dream 360 is the evolution of a hobby travel blog into a travel and lifestyle website built to inspire women over 40 to transition through big challenges with a 360° approach to their life.

What I discovered in my travels was that facing my fears and doing things that challenged me and then conquering those fears was a powerful feeling. That combination of fear with sheer joy that comes from accomplishing it was something that fueled me in my life. The smallest dream moments could add fuel to this little fire inside of me which inspires and moves me to the next moment.

What is unique about it and why should we read it?

There are a million places online to get inspiration, life coaching, travel advice, etc. Some of these sites are good and others are just nonsense. My goal with Daily Dream 360 is to really create a community where women like me are going through a big transition maybe divorce, being downsized, or chasing a dream-like starting their own business. My end goal is to create a place (maybe a Facebook group) where we can help one another with information, support and just knowing that we are not alone in this.

At the moment I categorize posts on the site into Dream Travel, Dream Life, and Dream Home. My focus is to talk about these as a Dream it, plan it, and live it approach, which is the way I live my life today. Every dream starts with an idea or pleasant thought, however, you have to make a plan and set an intention to fulfill that dream and then be aware when you are actually living it out.

This past year I focused on rebranding the site with this focus, a huge undertaking where I had to face the fear of breaking the travel site or losing my audience by trying to build something bigger and more balanced with Daily Dream 360. Thankfully the site is doing great and the response has been terrific, so now I’m focusing on building a Facebook community and connecting more to my audience so that we can inspire one another to dream every day!

Name some of your favorite places you have visited and why?

I have such a hard time with my favorite questions because I’m always looking for places that inspire me, challenge me to do something new or outside my comfort zone, and continue to add fuel to my dream flame. I have been so fortunate to find this in just about every trip I take. The memories and experiences add up and it is so hard to choose just one but here are some that just really wowed me.

Horseback Riding at Painted Bar Stables in Finger Lakes NY: The stable is run by a woman named Erica who has a passion for all things horses that just lit me up. I had never been horseback riding; I was absolutely terrified, and she just made this the most amazing experience ever. Never in a million years would I have imagined riding through a forest with water running down a creek on horseback – but I did it thanks to a woman with her own dream and business plan. An area is a great place for a woman’s road trip, wine tastings, little boutique hotels, great parks with hiking trails I highly recommend it.

Quebec: I have discovered a lot of the province and I have to say that every trip I took in the province had some crazy dream moment in it. From hugs with Bonhomme Carnival in winter carnival, a soak in a Scandinavian spa in the dead of winter, visiting the ice hotel, walking the white sand beaches of Iles de la Madelaine or a helicopter ride over Charlevoix – there was always a dream, a challenge, and amazing food and people.

The last time we had coffee you told me you found your faith through traveling let us talk about that?

This is a hard one to answer. I have had a lot of challenges in my life growing up. Being the redhead, fat kid, with braces and the ugliest headgear you could imagine you’d think was enough – but being that kid in a private Jewish school of rich kids who took it upon themselves to remind me that I was not like them every day of my childhood life was a lot. I was born into an immigrant family, my mom was a teacher and my dad a contractor. My parents wanted me to learn about my faith and to learn to speak Hebrew a language we spoke a lot at home.

When you are in a private Jewish school and you have no faith in your religion because you are miserable all the time, well that is a very hard thing for a child to go through. When my father later got diagnosed with a brain tumor and left us, I didn’t get any comfort from my religious faith. I just felt empty and really angry at God.

It was Oprah that brought me out of my anger believe it or not. I discovered later in life that God or the universe or that energy that seems to be flowing through us and dictating things that happen in our lives is not something you can be angry about because it is inside you. If you are angry at it, you are angry at yourself. When I let go of that anger and started chasing the joy that was when I found my faith.

In a way the traveling was me chasing joy – a walk on a beach, sounds of the ocean and other sounds of nature all fuel that dream and that joy.

If I do something out of a place that starts with feeling good – it usually leads to fulfilling a dream. Travel is a great place to find that joy feeling which at home and during the crazy in our day to day lives is just harder to find.

You have been blogging for a long time. Give some advice to those who want to become a blogger?

I can’t believe it, but I just started my eighth year of blogging. As a graphic designer, I have a lot of clients that want to start blogs on their business websites or to make money as my site does. The problem with this is they don’t realize the technical side of blogging and just how many things you have to do just to maintain and run a website – before you even start writing an article.

This is a loaded question because if you want to start a blog or website my best advice is to make sure it is set up correctly, is updated and maintained, and that you have plenty of security measures in place. An out of date plugin on a WordPress website can lead to a disastrous hack. Back when I started, we just wrote, and no one worried about algorithms and plugins and site speed and mobile-friendly. So, making sure that you either have a great web designer to help you with the technical side of things or that you are willing to learn all about this is going to be very important – before you even start writing your blog.

The post Sharon Mendelaoui: Pursuing Your Dreams appeared first on Four Columns of a Balanced Life.