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		<title>Compassion: A universal law</title>
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<p class="gizmo-bot-avatar flex h-6 w-6 items-center justify-center overflow-hidden rounded-full juice:h-8 juice:w-8">Compassion is a deep and complex human emotion, a trait that is instinctual and cultivated and plays a pivotal role in the social fabric of our lives.  It is more than just empathy or sympathy. It is a deep awareness of the suffering of another, coupled with the desire to alleviate that suffering. This powerful sentiment transcends cultural, religious, and societal boundaries, fundamental to human connection and moral integrity.</p>
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<p><a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/empowered-unconditional-love/">Love</a>, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/joy/">joy</a>, peace, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/what-is-patience/">patience</a>, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/act-of-kindness/">kindness</a>, goodness, faithfulness, compassion, gentleness, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/humility/">humility</a>, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/authenticity/">authenticity</a>, and self-control are universally appreciated qualities beyond approach.</p>
<p>These qualities are valued because they contribute positively to interpersonal relationships and society. They foster environments where understanding, cooperation, and harmony are more likely to flourish. Cultivating these traits can lead to a more peaceful and productive coexistence, and indeed, there are no laws against such virtues because they universally promote social good. They transcend cultural and legal boundaries, highlighting a shared human aspiration towards a kinder and more compassionate society.</p>
<p>Over the next few weeks, I will focus on these universal qualities and see how they can empower us to be better human beings.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Quotes</strong></h4>
<p>More smiling, less worrying. More compassion, less judgment. More blessed, less stressed. More love, less hate. ― <span class="authorOrTitle">Roy T. Bennett</span></p>
<p>Compassion is the basis of morality. ― <span class="authorOrTitle">Arthur Schopenhauer</span></p>
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<p>Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive. ― <span class="authorOrTitle">Dalai Lama XIV</span></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>What is Compassion</strong></h4>
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<p>Compassion involves recognizing the pain or difficulty that another person is experiencing and feeling a genuine concern for their well-being. This emotional response often motivates people to take action to help others, whether through small acts of kindness or larger efforts to address systemic issues. It is rooted in humility and the understanding that suffering is a universal human experience.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Compassion in Action to Empower</strong></h4>
<p>Compassion manifests in many ways, from small, everyday gestures to grand humanitarian efforts. You can show it by listening to a friend, offering comforting words, or helping. These small acts, while seemingly insignificant, can profoundly impact the recipient, providing your friend the support and reassurance they need to get through difficult times.</p>
<p>On a larger scale, compassion drives people to engage in charitable work, volunteerism, and advocacy for social justice. It motivates individuals and organizations to address poverty, inequality, and human rights abuses.</p>
<p>Recent studies in neuroscience and psychology have shown that it is not just a social or moral construct but has deep biological roots. The brain’s response to compassion involves areas that are also activated when we experience pleasure or receive rewards, suggesting that acts of compassion are intrinsically rewarding.</p>
<p>Moreover, research has indicated that it can improve mental and physical health. Individuals who regularly engage in compassionate behavior tend to experience lower levels of stress, reduced symptoms of depression, and greater overall well-being.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Self-Care</strong></h4>
<p>An important but often overlooked aspect of compassion is self-compassion, the ability to be kind and understanding toward oneself during times of failure or suffering. Many people find it easier to extend it to others than to themselves, but self-compassion is crucial for overall well-being. It involves recognizing that imperfection and difficulty are part of the human experience and treating oneself with the same care and concern that one would offer to a friend.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Compassion in a Global Context</strong></h4>
<p>In a world increasingly interconnected by technology and global issues, compassion has never been more important. The challenges we face—such as climate change, pandemics, and social inequality—require collective action and a compassionate response that transcends borders. Global compassion involves recognizing the shared struggles of people across the world and taking action to support those who are most vulnerable.</p>
<p>To combat compassion fatigue, it is essential to focus on the positive impact that compassionate actions can have, no matter how small. It is also important to practice self-care and seek support from others when the emotional burden becomes too great. By maintaining a balance between awareness and action, individuals can continue to contribute to a more compassionate world without becoming overwhelmed.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Role of Compassion in Relationships</strong></h4>
<p>Compassion plays a crucial role in building and maintaining healthy relationships. Whether in friendships, family dynamics, or romantic partnerships, compassion fosters understanding, trust, and mutual support. When people approach their relationships with others, they are more likely to listen empathetically, forgive mistakes, and offer help when needed.</p>
<p>In conflicts, compassion can serve as a bridge to reconciliation. By taking the time to understand the other person’s perspective and responding with kindness rather than anger, conflicts can be resolved more peacefully and constructively.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Challenges of Compassion</strong></h4>
<p>Despite its many benefits, compassion is not always easy to practice. It can be difficult to maintain in the face of personal stress, burnout, or when dealing with individuals who may be challenging or harmful.</p>
<p>One of the challenges is finding the balance between caring for others and caring for oneself. Overextending oneself in the service of others can lead to burnout and resentment, which can undermine the very compassion one is trying to cultivate. It is important to set boundaries and recognize one’s limits, ensuring that compassionate actions are sustainable and do not come at the cost of one’s well-being.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>How to cultivate it</strong></h4>
<p>Cultivating compassion requires both intention and practice. It involves developing an awareness of others&#8217; experiences, practicing empathy, and taking action to alleviate suffering. This process can be supported by various practices, such as mindfulness, meditation, and engaging in acts of kindness.</p>
<p>Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and aware of one&#8217;s thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. By practicing mindfulness, individuals can become more attuned to the experiences of others and more aware of opportunities to practice compassion. Meditation practices, such as loving-kindness meditation, can also help cultivate a compassionate mindset by encouraging individuals to focus on the well-being of others.</p>
<p>Engaging in regular acts of kindness, whether big or small, can also help build compassion. These acts can be as simple as offering a smile to a stranger, helping a neighbor with groceries, or volunteering at a local charity. By making compassion a regular part of one’s life, it becomes a natural and instinctive response to the world around us.</p>
<p>Compassion is a fundamental human trait that connects us with others and drives us to act for the greater good. It is a powerful force for personal fulfillment, social harmony, and global change. While practicing it can be challenging at times, it is also deeply rewarding and essential for a thriving society. By cultivating compassion in ourselves and encouraging it in others, we can create a more caring, just, and connected world.</p>
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<p class="relative p-1 rounded-sm flex items-center justify-center bg-token-main-surface-primary text-token-text-primary h-8 w-8">An act of kindness is any selfless action performed to benefit another person without expecting anything in return. <em>Soul Soup</em> in Toms River, New Jersey, offers free meals to those in need every Monday. <em>Community Fridges</em>, stocked by volunteers, have been popping up in cities to provide free food to those in need. <em>Habitat for Humanity</em> brings together volunteers to build affordable housing for those in need. <em>Pencils of Promise</em> ensures children have access to quality education to help break the cycle of poverty.</p>
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<p>An act of kindness whether big or small, can have a profound impact on individuals and communities around the world.</p>
<p><a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/empowered-unconditional-love/">Love</a>, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/joy/">joy</a>, peace, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/what-is-patience/">patience</a>, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/compassion/">compassion</a>, gentleness, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/humility/">humility</a>, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/authenticity/">authenticity</a>, and self-control are universally appreciated qualities beyond approach.</p>
<p>These qualities are valued because they contribute positively to interpersonal relationships and society. They foster environments where understanding, cooperation, and harmony are more likely to flourish. Cultivating these traits can lead to a more peaceful and productive coexistence, and indeed, there are no laws against such virtues because they universally promote social good. They transcend cultural and legal boundaries, highlighting a shared human aspiration towards a kinder and more compassionate society.</p>
<p>Over the next few weeks, I will focus on these universal qualities and see how they can empower us to be better human beings.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Quotes on Kindness</strong></h4>
<p>Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around &#8211; Leo Buscalgia</p>
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<p>Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate &#8211; Albert Schweitzer</p>
<p>Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you &#8211; Princess Diana</p>
<p>A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees &#8211; Amelia Earhart</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>What is Kindness</strong></h4>
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<p>Kindness is a quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. It involves actions or behaviors meant to benefit others, often without expecting anything in return.  An act of kindness includes compassion, empathy, altruism, respect, patience, understanding, support, encouragement, forgiveness, and generosity.</p>
<p>An act of kindness is often seen as a fundamental aspect of human interaction that can foster strong relationships, build communities, and improve the overall well-being of individuals and society.</p>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>The benefits of performing an act of kindness</strong></h4>
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<p class="flex">When you do an act of kindness, you boost your mood, reduce stress, and enhance your overall sense of happiness. Kindness triggers the release of feel-good hormones like serotonin and endorphins. An act of kindness can increase your self-esteem and confidence, as you feel a sense of purpose and contribution. Try it. Go out there and do an act of kindness.</p>
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<p>Kindness fosters trust and strengthens relationships. It helps build deeper connections with family, friends, and colleagues.  Kindness often inspires others to be kind, creating a cycle of positive behavior that benefits everyone involved. If you want to be a game changer at work, in your neighborhood, and practice kindness.</p>
<p>Kindness helps build strong, supportive communities where people look out for one another and reduce bullying, discrimination, and other negative behaviors. Kindness acknowledges each individual&#8217;s shared humanity and inherent worth, reinforcing the moral principle of treating others as you would like to be treated.</p>
<p>Many philosophies and religions emphasize the moral duty to be kind, viewing it as a fundamental aspect of ethical living.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>How an act of kindness impacts the individual and the community</strong></h4>
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<p>An act of kindness like volunteering at local shelters, food banks, or community centers fosters trust and cooperation within a community. It builds stronger, more connected relationships among community members. If you help a neighbor with groceries, shovel their walkway, or offer a ride, strengthen neighborhood bonds. This positivity can encourage more residents to engage and participate in community activities.</p>
<p>I strongly recommend shopping locally and supporting small businesses to help sustain the local economy and create a more vibrant community. Initiating or participating in community programs that provide safe spaces for marginalized groups promotes inclusivity and respect.</p>
<p>In summary, kindness benefits the individuals directly involved and enhances the overall quality of life within the community. It promotes a culture of empathy, cooperation, and mutual support, leading to a more harmonious and thriving society.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Kindness and Spiritual Traditions</strong></h4>
<p>Kindness and spirituality are deeply interconnected, as many spiritual traditions and philosophies emphasize the importance of compassion, empathy, and love for others.</p>
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<p>Many spiritual paths teach that kindness is a universal principle that transcends cultural and religious boundaries. It&#8217;s seen as a fundamental aspect of human goodness and morality. Spirituality often emphasizes the development of compassion and empathy. By understanding and sharing the feelings of others, individuals are inspired to act kindly. Many spiritual beliefs highlight the interconnectedness of all life. Kindness is a natural outcome of recognizing that we are all part of a larger whole and that our actions affect others.</p>
<p><strong>Christianity:</strong> Jesus taught love and kindness, famously stating, &#8220;Love your neighbor as yourself&#8221; (Mark 12:31). Acts of kindness are seen as expressions of one&#8217;s faith and love for God and humanity.</p>
<p><strong>Buddhism:</strong> The concept of &#8220;metta&#8221; (loving-kindness) is central to Buddhist practice. It involves developing unconditional love and compassion for all beings.</p>
<p><strong>Islam:</strong> Kindness is a significant virtue in Islam. The Prophet Muhammad said, &#8220;Kindness is a mark of faith, and whoever is not kind has no faith.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Hinduism:</strong> Hindu teachings emphasize &#8220;ahimsa&#8221; (non-violence) and compassion for all living beings. Kindness is seen as a duty and a path to spiritual growth.</p>
<p><strong>Judaism:</strong> The Jewish tradition values &#8220;chesed&#8221; (loving-kindness) and encourages charity, hospitality, and compassion towards others.</p>
<p>An act of kindness aligns with many spiritual teachings, leading to a sense of inner peace and harmony. It reduces inner conflict and fosters a calm, centered mind. It cultivates spiritual growth. It helps individuals develop virtues such as patience, humility, and generosity.</p>
<p>In conclusion, kindness is a cornerstone of many spiritual traditions and practices. It fosters spiritual growth, inner peace, and a sense of connection to others and the divine.</p>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Biblical Perspective on Kindness</strong></h4>
<p>The Bible places a significant emphasis on kindness, presenting it as a core value and virtue that believers are encouraged to embody.</p>
<p><strong>Matthew 22:37-40:</strong> Jesus states that the greatest commandments are to love God and love your neighbor as yourself. This love is often expressed through acts of kindness and compassion.</p>
<p><strong>Luke 10:25-37:</strong> This parable teaches the importance of showing kindness to others, regardless of their background or circumstances. The Samaritan helps a man in need, illustrating that true neighborly love involves acts of mercy and compassion.</p>
<p><strong>Galatians 5:22-23:</strong> Kindness is listed as one of the fruits of the Spirit, indicating that it is a characteristic that should naturally develop in those who live by the Spirit.</p>
<p><strong>Matthew 7:12:</strong> Jesus teaches, &#8220;So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.&#8221; Treating others with kindness and respect is central to Christian ethics.</p>
<p><strong>Colossians 3:12:</strong> Believers are instructed to &#8220;clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.&#8221; This metaphor emphasizes that kindness should be an integral part of a Christian&#8217;s character.</p>
<p><strong>1 Corinthians 13:4:</strong> In the famous passage about love, Paul writes, &#8220;Love is patient, love is kind.&#8221; This underscores that kindness is a fundamental aspect of true, selfless love.</p>
<p>As a Christian, your faith needs to have practical implications. Believers are encouraged to be generous and charitable, helping those in need. This reflects God&#8217;s kindness towards humanity. Kindness includes forgiving others, just as God has forgiven us. This is highlighted in the Lord&#8217;s Prayer and various teachings of Jesus. Christians are called to encourage and support one another, building each other up in love and kindness. Showing hospitality, especially to strangers, is a form of kindness that is repeatedly emphasized in the New Testament.</p>
<p>Kindness is a central theme in the Bible, woven throughout its teachings and exemplified in the lives of its characters. It is portrayed as an essential aspect of living a life that is pleasing to God and reflective of His love. By practicing kindness, believers not only obey God&#8217;s commands but also serve as witnesses to His grace and compassion in the world.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="humility" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Humility is a personal quality or characteristic that involves having a modest view of oneself, acknowledging one&#8217;s limitations, and recognizing the value and contributions of others. It is the opposite of arrogance, pride, and hubris. I received a lunch invite by email recently. I was&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/humility/">&#8230;</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="humility" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Untitled-Design.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Humility is a personal quality or characteristic that involves having a modest view of oneself, acknowledging one&#8217;s limitations, and recognizing the value and contributions of others. It is the opposite of arrogance, pride, and hubris.</p>
<p>I received a lunch invite by email recently. I was excited as I had not seen this friend for more than two decades. She had moved to South America and got married and had kids. She had moved back to a city close to me. I got another email from her. One of her friends had an issue that I was coming.</p>
<p>We were all part of a group more than 25 years ago. The friend had an issue with me coming because many years ago she complained about being single. I asked her if she was single in high school, and she said yes. I asked her if she was single at university, and she said yes. I told her that she was the common factor among all the surroundings and to take <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/thrive-by-taking-responsibility/">responsibility</a> for where she was at. This single friend blamed her upbringing and blamed the men in the group for not being good enough.</p>
<p>Your workplace, family, friend circle, and your hood are full of arrogant people. They think they are better, more talented, more educated, smarter, more spiritual, go to the right church with the right doctrine and they have it together.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>How do you define a humble person?</strong></h4>
<p>A humble person tends to have a realistic understanding of their own strengths and weaknesses. They do not feel the need to constantly assert their superiority or seek attention and praise from others. Instead, they are able to appreciate and respect the abilities, accomplishments, and perspectives of others.</p>
<p>Humility often involves an openness to learning, as humble individuals are willing to admit their mistakes and are receptive to feedback and new ideas. They are not afraid to ask for help or admit when they don&#8217;t know something. This willingness to learn and grow contributes to personal and intellectual development.</p>
<p>In addition to how one views themselves, humility also extends to how one treats and interacts with others. Humble individuals tend to be considerate, compassionate, and empathetic. They listen attentively to others, value their opinions, and are not dismissive or condescending.</p>
<p>Practicing humility can foster positive relationships, enhance personal growth, and create a more harmonious and collaborative environment. It is often associated with traits like<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/kindness-respect/"> kindness</a>, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/patience-is-the-mother-of-all-virtues/">patience</a>, and selflessness.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to note that humility should not be confused with low self-esteem or self-deprecation. Humility is about having a balanced perspective of oneself and others, recognizing one&#8217;s strengths without arrogance, and acknowledging one&#8217;s weaknesses without self-deprecation.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Humility is important in life for several reasons</strong></h4>
<p style="text-align: left;">Humility helps us connect with others on a deeper level. When we approach interactions with humility, we show respect, listen attentively, and consider the perspectives and feelings of others. This fosters trust, understanding, and cooperation, leading to stronger and more meaningful relationships.</p>
<p>Humility opens our minds to new knowledge, experiences, and ideas. It recognizes that we don&#8217;t have all the answers and that there is always more to learn. By embracing humility, we become more receptive to feedback, willing to admit our mistakes, and eager to improve ourselves. This mindset promotes personal and professional growth.</p>
<p>Humility allows us to see ourselves more accurately, acknowledging our strengths and weaknesses without arrogance or false modesty. It enables us to identify areas where we can improve, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/six-miracles-happen-when-you-see-a-psychotherapist/">seek help</a> when needed, and make better decisions based on a realistic assessment of our abilities. Self-awareness nurtured through humility helps us lead more authentic and fulfilling lives.</p>
<p>In times of conflict or disagreement, humility allows us to approach the situation with empathy and understanding. By humbly considering the perspectives of others, we create an atmosphere that encourages open dialogue, compromise, and collaboration. Humility helps us set aside ego-driven responses and work towards finding mutually beneficial solutions.</p>
<p>Humility is often seen as a positive trait that inspires and influences those around us. When we demonstrate humility, we create an environment that encourages others to do the same. By acknowledging the contributions of others, sharing credit, and showing appreciation, we foster a culture of teamwork, motivation, and support.</p>
<p>Humility helps us navigate challenges and setbacks with grace and <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/resilience-stress-management/">resilience</a>. When we embrace humility, we are better equipped to accept failures as learning opportunities and bounce back from adversity. It allows us to remain grounded, adaptable and focused on finding solutions rather than dwelling on our own ego or pride.</p>
<p>Humility is a crucial trait of effective leaders. Humble leaders prioritize the needs and contributions of their team members, creating a positive work environment. They are approachable, open to diverse viewpoints, and capable of admitting mistakes. Such leaders inspire and motivate others, fostering collaboration and high-performance teams.</p>
<p>Humble individuals are more likely to make better decisions. They consider multiple perspectives and seek input from others before reaching conclusions. By being humble, you can avoid arrogance, rash judgments, and biases that can hinder effective decision-making.</p>
<p>Humility is associated with greater emotional well-being. By recognizing your own strengths and weaknesses without excessive pride, you develop a more realistic self-image. Humble individuals tend to have lower levels of stress, exhibit higher levels of contentment, and experience deeper satisfaction in their achievements.</p>
<p>Humility earns respect from others. When you demonstrate humility, people are more inclined to value your opinions, trust your judgment, and seek your advice. By being humble, you can exert a positive influence on those around you, leading to fruitful collaborations and partnerships.</p>
<p>Humility promotes effective conflict resolution. It allows you to approach disagreements with a willingness to understand the other person&#8217;s perspective and find common ground. By practicing humility, you can defuse conflicts, maintain positive relationships, and foster a culture of cooperation.</p>
<p>Humility helps cultivate gratitude and appreciation for the contributions of others. You recognize that success is often a result of collective efforts, and you acknowledge and express gratitude for the support and assistance you receive. This mindset promotes a sense of interconnectedness and enhances your overall well-being.</p>
<p>Overall, humility plays a vital role in promoting positive relationships, personal growth, self-awareness, collaboration, and resilience. It allows us to approach life with an open mind, treat others with respect, and continually strive for self-improvement.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>A humble person has the following traits</strong></h4>
<p>Self-awareness: Humble individuals have a clear understanding of their strengths and weaknesses. They acknowledge their limitations and are open to learning from others.</p>
<p>Modesty: Humble people do not boast or seek attention for their achievements. They downplay their accomplishments and give credit to others when it is due.</p>
<p>Open-mindedness: Humility fosters an open mind, allowing individuals to consider different perspectives and ideas. They are willing to listen to others and are not rigid in their beliefs.</p>
<p>Empathy: Humble individuals have a genuine concern for others. They are sensitive to the needs and feelings of those around them and demonstrate compassion and understanding.</p>
<p>Gratitude: Humble people express <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/attitude-of-gratitude/">gratitude</a> for the opportunities, blessings, and contributions of others. They appreciate the help they receive and acknowledge the value of teamwork and collaboration.</p>
<p>Teachability: Humble individuals have a thirst for knowledge and continuous improvement. They are receptive to feedback and constructive criticism, recognizing that there is always room to grow and learn.</p>
<p>Humble Confidence: True humility does not mean lacking self-confidence. Humble individuals have confidence in their abilities but do not feel the need to prove themselves or seek validation from others.</p>
<p>Service-oriented: Humble people often prioritize serving others before themselves. They are willing to lend a helping hand, contribute to the greater good, and put the needs of others before their own.</p>
<p>Non-judgmental: Humble individuals refrain from quick judgments or harsh criticism of others. They understand that everyone has their own struggles and challenges, and they approach others with kindness and understanding.</p>
<p>Approachability: Humble people are generally approachable and easy to communicate with. They create an environment where others feel comfortable sharing their thoughts, ideas, and concerns without fear of judgment.</p>
<p>Humility is a lifelong journey and a virtue that requires continual practice and self-reflection.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>What factors hinder us from being humble</strong></h4>
<p>The ego can hinder us from being humble.</p>
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<p>Ego often leads us to focus primarily on ourselves, our achievements, and our desires. This self-centered mindset can make it difficult to appreciate and acknowledge the contributions and perspectives of others. Humility, on the other hand, involves recognizing our limitations and valuing the worth and abilities of others.</p>
<p>The ego seeks validation and recognition from others, constantly striving to prove its superiority. This drive for external validation can prevent us from admitting mistakes or accepting constructive criticism, as it threatens our ego&#8217;s sense of self-importance. Humility, however, allows us to acknowledge our fallibility and learn from our shortcomings.</p>
<p>Ego often fuels a constant need to compare ourselves to others and come out on top. It leads us to view life as a competition, where we must constantly prove our worth and superiority. This mindset can prevent us from genuinely appreciating and celebrating the successes of others, as we may feel threatened or envious. Humility, on the other hand, enables us to value others&#8217; accomplishments and find joy in their achievements.</p>
<p>The ego can make us resistant to new ideas, feedback, or alternative perspectives that challenge our existing beliefs or ways of doing things. It creates a sense of certainty and inflexibility, as we may feel that admitting ignorance or being open to different viewpoints threatens our ego&#8217;s sense of knowledge or expertise. Humility, in contrast, allows us to approach situations with an open mind, ready to learn and grow from the wisdom and experiences of others.</p>
<p>The ego tends to prioritize our own needs and desires over those of others. It can make it difficult to truly empathize with others and understand their perspectives, as we may be too focused on our own concerns and self-image. Humility fosters empathy by humbling us, helping us recognize the shared humanity and struggles we all face.</p>
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<p>Paradoxically, insecurity can also hinder humility. People who feel insecure may overcompensate by projecting a false sense of confidence or superiority. They may avoid admitting mistakes or weaknesses, fearing it will make them appear vulnerable or inferior.</p>
<p>The fear of failure or rejection can lead individuals to adopt a defensive or self-protective attitude. This can make it challenging for them to admit when they are wrong or to seek feedback from others. They may be more concerned with preserving their image or avoiding criticism than with being humble.</p>
<p>Living in a society that often emphasizes competition and comparison can make it difficult to maintain humility. When individuals constantly compare themselves to others and strive to outperform them, it can fuel a sense of superiority or entitlement, diminishing their humility.</p>
<p>If someone is unwilling or unable to reflect on their actions, behaviors, and beliefs, they may struggle to recognize areas where they can improve or acknowledge the contributions of others.</p>
<p>Achieving success or recognition can sometimes lead to a sense of entitlement or superiority. When individuals experience continuous validation or praise, they may become less inclined to be humble and more prone to arrogance.</p>
<p>The people and environment we surround ourselves with can impact our humility. If individuals are constantly surrounded by those who reinforce their ego, promote a culture of entitlement, or discourage introspection, it can hinder their ability to remain humble.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to note that humility is a virtue that can be cultivated and practiced.</p>
<p>Go ahead and practice humility and become empowered in every area of my life. Unlike my friend who is still single 25 years after our conversation.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="kindness" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>The first week of 2021 has passed. The thought that crossed my mind was the lack of respect and civility in our society. At school, it was important to say please and thank you. It was important to treat our fellow students with kindness and&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/kindness-respect/">&#8230;</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="kindness" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Untitled-Design.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">The first week of 2021 has passed. The thought that crossed my mind was the lack of respect and civility in our society. At school, it was important to say please and thank you. It was important to treat our fellow students with kindness and respect. It was even more important when we did not agree on an issue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">As I look at the news, Facebook, and Twitter feed, all I see are people filled with anger, resentment, venom, and cavil about anything and everything.</p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">I have left so many Whatsapp groups because it is filled with differences in religious beliefs, political and cultural differences.</p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">I think maybe I am naïve, dovelike, or jejune. The state of the economy, unemployment, COVID-19, the elections have brought the tension to a boiling point.</p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">Last year, I unfollowed all my friends who spewed hatred or anger all the time. It was one of the best things I did. It helped my sanity, peace of mind, and health. If I do not like what someone says on social media, I just move on.</p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">I love the discussions. If it filled with respect. We can and should discuss our opinions without derision or contempt.</p>
<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 18.0pt 0cm;">The truth needs to be spoken with <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/faith-hope-love/">love</a>, grace, humility, and without ego.</p>
<p>Kindness is one of the most underrated qualities. A person who is affable, affectionate, amiable, attentive, friendly, considerate, and generous is considered kind. Compassionate, discreet, magnanimous, polite, unselfish, tolerant, and honest are words that are associated with kindness. To be kind to someone requires grit, determination, and strength. Kindness is an interpersonal soft skill.</p>
<p>Kindness is needed in 2021. Humans were born to connect and care for one another. To have sympathy and care for others is in our DNA. Research shows that those who volunteer, care for others, and give to <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/charitable-giving/">charity</a> are <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/10-secrets-to-happiness/">happier</a> than those who are selfish and self-focused.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.alexandraohudson.com/">Alexandra</a> is passionate about the way that ideas and storytelling can change people’s lives. She is an award-winning writer based in Indianapolis, currently working on a book on civility and American civic renewal. She is the curator of <a href="https://www.civic-renaissance.com/">Civic Renaissance</a>, a newsletter and intellectual community dedicated to moral and cultural renewal.</p>
<p>She earned her Master’s degree in Public Policy at the London School of Economics as a Rotary Scholar and has served at the local, state, and federal levels of government and policy—including a recent appointment at the U.S. Department of Education. She was awarded a 2019 Novak Fellowship for her original reporting and analysis on civility, public discourse, and civil society in America.</p>
<p>Now a full-time journalist and writer, Alexandra is an in-demand speaker and commentator, appearing frequently on local, national, and international television outlets such as CBS, Fox News, and others. She is a regular contributor to USA Today and also writes for The Wall Street Journal, TIME Magazine, POLITICO Magazine, Newsweek, and other national outlets.</p>
<p>I talk to Alexandra about her book and kindness.</p>
<h4><strong>Alexandra, a privilege to have you on board. I want to know something unique about you?</strong></h4>
<p>Thanks for having me!</p>
<p>Hmmm. Unique. Well, I’ve trained with the most famous and best pizzaiolo in the world. In Naples, Italy in the summer of 2018, I met him at a restaurant I was writing at one rainy day, and eagerly accepted a chance to learn how to make and throw pizza dough—and how to dress it the authentic and only appropriate way: tomato sauce, mozzarella, and basil! Drizzled with ample extra virgin olive oil, of course. A fun memory and skill to add to my resume!</p>
<h4><strong>I am a big fan of being gentle and kind to people. You are writing a full book on how to be civil in the political arena. Talk to me about it?</strong></h4>
<p>After a rather dispiriting stint in the federal government, I left disillusioned by the broken state of our public discourse and the lack of fundamental respect for our fellow citizens and persons—especially those we differed with. I both witnessed and endured some of that animosity first hand.</p>
<p>After I left government in January 2018, I dedicated myself full time to these important questions: What does it mean to be a human being? What is the bare minimum of respect we are owed, and owe to others, in light of our human dignity? What does that look like in practice today, especially when it comes to those we disagree with?</p>
<p>These questions have only become timelier, and they are the lens through which I approach my writing and work on civility. It’s about our shared humanity and the basic decency and respect we owe to others—which is necessary for both our institutions of civil society and democracy, as well as our personal flourishing.</p>
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<h4><strong>Your mom is an expert on manners and has written many books. How was it being raised? Did you have to be prim and proper from the morning till evening and how did it shape you?</strong></h4>
<p>I have the best mother in the world! She’s called Judi the Manners Lady, and yes, she’s been in the manners business for nearly as long as I’ve been alive.</p>
<p>But she doesn’t just <em>teach</em> kindness and courtesy. She <em>lives</em> it. She is the most genuinely caring, thoughtful, and selfless person I’ve ever encountered. I think that is what gives someone credibility to talk about why things like manners and kindness are important: they embody those moral ideals of sacrifice and kindness themselves. I couldn’t have had a better role model growing up for what true civility was: utter self-forgetfulness, hospitality to the stranger, and fundamental joy for life, community, and relationship with others.</p>
<p>My mother embodied the spirit of civility—and she always knew that taking a social risk for the sake of friendship or relationship mattered more than blind conformity with social norms. She was—and still is! —always willing to be the first to strike up a conversation, say hello, or greet someone with a warm smile.</p>
<p>My mother’s work in manners, and her powerful example, ensured my early and lifelong interest in exploring the timeless principles of civility that contribute to strong relationships and human flourishing. It sparked my curiosity about the way that our habits and norms of social engagement can either promote or harm human community. It made me want to understand why we do things the way we do them, why some norms of social engagement have changed across culture and time, and why others seem to be constant.</p>
<p>For example, the norm of taking your shoes off in someone’s home is present in some parts of the world—such as Japan or Canada, but is not a widely accepted norm in America. While this norm is not constant across different culture, it has roots in concerns that <em>are</em> constant, such as concern for hygiene and also respect for the preferences of the host.</p>
<p>Norms are like the air we breathe—we rarely pause to reflect on them, and usually don’t even realize they exist until they are <em>broken</em>, and some expectation in social interaction is not met. My mother’s constant attentiveness to the needs of others and the norms of social engagement probably made me both aware of, and interested in, these ideas more than most people. I’m so grateful to her for that and so many other things.</p>
<h4><strong>I find writing cathartic. You are a master of the media. What drew you to it?</strong></h4>
<p>I haven’t always enjoyed writing! But I’ve always loved ideas, and when I realized that writing was an important and powerful way of getting ideas in front of people, I threw myself into being the best that I could be at the craft.</p>
<p>I love the creative process. The struggle to create and bring forth a new idea from the higher, more sophisticated part of our mind and soul—as opposed to staying at the level of fleshly, temporal pleasures—is always rewarding. It’s a uniquely human process, and also one that helps us fully develop and realize our humanity. It’s a beautiful thing, and I like to remind people that the creative process is something that we can all enjoy and partake in.</p>
<h4><strong>You appear on CBS News, Fox and write for USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, TIME, POLITICO, and Newsweek. I want to know what is different about you as a journalist? What is your competitive advantage? What do you bring to the table that others do not?</strong></h4>
<p>In some ways, we’re in a golden age of journalism: anyone with a smartphone and internet access can observe the world around them, tweet about it, and suddenly create a ripple effect of news coverage. Social media has changed the way that the large newspapers and television networks report on the news because they’re no longer the gatekeepers that get to decide what is newsworthy and what is not. What’s newsworthy is far more crowdsourced—a tweet or video reaches a million people in a matter of hours, and <em>that’s</em> newsworthy.</p>
<p>But this democratization of our news media—both from the journalist side of things, and the consumer side of things—is a double-edged sword. It’s great that we have more information available to us, and it’s great that anyone can be a reporter journalist if they want to. These freedoms are good. The downside is the way in which the virality of information can be weaponized and serve to further reveal and solidity pre-existing deep social, cultural, and political divisions.</p>
<p>What makes me different is that I care deeply about my work serving as a tool of social and cultural healing—not further division. My aim is for my work to break this vicious cycle of the way our media and information diet seems to perpetuate divisions instead of healing them—it seems that many journalists today care more about the <em>virality</em> of their work than the <em>impact</em> of it. This goal informs everything from the types of issues and stories I write about—stories of hope, uplift, and solutions— to the tone with which I write them—tempered, elevated. This approach can also be limiting, though, because there is such an appetite for information that inflames and confirms people’s preexisting opinions. But this is the approach I’ve chosen to take, and the one I am committed to.</p>
<h4><strong>I am sure you lead a hectic life. Talk to me about your self-care routine concerning taking care of your health, food, going to the gym, and staying in shape?</strong></h4>
<p>I try to take a holistic approach to self-care. Mind, body, soul.</p>
<p>First, the mind. The intellectual life is incredibly important to me. I am insatiably curious, and constantly reading, learning, and growing in my understanding of the world around me. Learning a new subject matter is like breathing to me. When I’m feeling discouraged, stagnant, or stuck, it’s usually because I haven’t been learning anything new, and usually, the resolution is to become inspired by reading something new and gleaning a new insight. Exercising our intellect is an essential part of being human.</p>
<p>Second, the body. I adore my routine at the gym—which involves high interval training cardio and some strength training—and my particular luxury is the dry sauna. I take a page from the Scandinavian handbook for health and self-care, and really enjoy the hot-cold therapy: spend 15 minutes in the sauna, followed by immersion in ice-cold water, and then repeat. It’s invigorating, refreshing, and amazing. One of my favorite things to do is to stretch in the sauna while listening to a lecture on philosophy or some new subject—combining care of the mind with care of the body.</p>
<p>For meals, I love the art of cooking and enjoy preparing good quality food that is not only enjoyable to eat, but also beautiful to look at. The presentation goes a long way to the overall enjoyment of a meal! This is especially true during the pandemic, where meals are often the one constant in our day and are something to look forward to. I tend to be low carb, high protein, and high in healthy fats, and enjoy a lot of Mediterranean cuisines and recipes— from ratatouille to carpaccio, from ragù to steak tartare.</p>
<p>Third, the soul. My ideal morning involves getting up early, around 4:30 or 5 am, and begin the day with reflective solitude. The stillness of the early morning is powerful and transcendent. I’ll do a devotional, I’ll journal, and I’ll read. I’ll re-affirm my values and priorities before the day begins. I do prefer this to waking up and immediately being bombarded by shrieking headlines and emails that require action. To me, this chaos for the soul. My joy, resilience, and productivity are astronomically higher when I start the day early and in stillness. Yet—amazingly—it’s still difficult for me to do with perfect consistency!</p>
<p>Some mornings, I’m tired and can’t resist the snooze button. Or I’ll wake up and go right for my email instead of being disciplined and doing a devotional first. I think that the fact that we <em>don’t</em> do things that we <em>know</em> are good for us—or, conversely, we consistently <em>do</em> things that are <em>bad</em> for us, despite knowing they are—says something powerful about the plague of human forgetfulness!</p>
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<h4><strong>In the last 500 years, we have had some interesting personalities. Any come to mind who you want to interview or write a cover story about?</strong></h4>
<p>I love this question. You’re right, there are so many people amazing people in history that have accomplished things and lived lives and had insights into the human condition that can instruct us and help us today! My dream, actually, is to write popular biographies about the great men and women from our past that we’ve forgotten as a culture, but whose lives deserve to be revived, and studied for the lessons that they can offer us in our current moment.</p>
<p>One that comes to mind is Blaise Pascal. He was a brilliant French anti-enlightenment thinker, and inventor, and a theologian. He actually invented an early vacuum, the first omnibus system in Paris, the calculator, and many, many other amazing innovations. He anticipated many of the challenges of modernity to the human psyche—such as anxiety, despair, ennui, and restlessness—and reading him today is a breath of fresh air. He’s also famous for “Pascal’s wager,” written in his <em>Pensées</em>, about the reason to believe in God: <em>if you win [and believe in God], you win all. If you lose, and don’t believe in God] you lose all. </em></p>
<p>And he has so many incredibly penetrating insights quotes. “<em>We know the truth, not only by the reason, but also by the heart.” “All men&#8217;s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.” “Justice without force is powerless; force without justice is tyrannical.”</em></p>
<p>There is not a popular biography on this incredible man who so helped shaped our modern world, and who has so much to offer us today. I’d love to write it one day!</p>
<h4><strong>What does women&#8217;s empowerment mean to you?</strong></h4>
<p>Women’s empowerment is self-determination: the freedom to self-cultivate and becomes who we want to be. It means practicing discipline, self-denial, and aiming to promote proportionately and virtue in the soul. I don’t believe there are “male” and “female” virtues. There is just virtue and vice. Men and women are equally capable of cultivating virtues such as courage, prudence, justice or temperance, and just as easy to fall prey to the vices of cowardice, gluttony, selfishness or sloth.</p>
<p>True empowerment means the freedom to become the best version of ourselves—but also the ability to suffer the consequences of our own mistakes, and hopefully, learn from them to the end of greater self-awareness and self-improvement.</p>
<h4><strong>My daughter is 16 and wants to become a journalist. Give her some advice?</strong></h4>
<p>The key to being a good writer is to be a voracious reader. Read good writing constantly—of all genres and eras. <em>The Economist</em> is fabulous for good writing that allows you to keep up with global affairs, for example, but also read good stylists such as Oscar Wilde, Lewis Carroll, or G.K. Chesterton. Reading good writing helps you find your own voice. It expands your vocabulary to allow you to better communicate and put words into your own thoughts and ideas.</p>
<p>Also, it goes without saying, practice! Write as often as you can, publicly and privately. Journal. Introspection and self-awareness are key to being a powerful writer. Write for your school newspaper. Stay informed about local affairs and write a letter to an editor. Build a portfolio that can help you land an internship.</p>
<p>Most importantly, write because you love to write. I love Steven Pressfield’s insight in his famous book on the battle that wages in every creative soul, entitled <em>The War of Art</em>: define yourself territorially, not hierarchically. Don’t define your own success based on the success of those around you. Be the best writer that you can be, and be satisfied with that. Create for the love of the craft.</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><span style="color: #000000;">I am in my 25th year of marriage. I am reminded of Michelle Obama, who said that &#8220;</span>Our greatness comes when we appreciate each other&#8217;s strengths, when we learn from each other, when we lean on each other&#8221;. I make mistakes all the time in my marriage. Antoine de Sainte-Exupery reminds us that &#8220;One man may hit the mark, another blunder; but heed not these distinctions. Only from the alliance of the one, working with and through the other, are great things born.</p>
<p>As we approach Valentine&#8217;s Day, love your spouse, treat her with respect, give her a big hug, and appreciate that she is different from you.</p>



<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">Appreciate your partner</span></strong></h4>
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I am having dinner with Debbie, Brian, and Sarah two weeks before my wedding.<br /><br />Brian was the minister who was going to marry me. This was an opportune time to pick his brain.<br /><br />Brian was a decade older. We did not have much in common. We had our disagreements. He was married for a while. I did respect him because he had a great marriage. He adored his wife.<br /><br />Brian, what is the secret to a great marriage? I was expecting the following answers:<br /><br />&#8211; Go to the e-harmony website and look at the 29 characteristics to have to be successful<br />&#8211; Pray together<br />&#8211; Spend quality time together<br />&#8211; Do not go to bed angry<br />&#8211; Keep the fights clean and the s.. dirty<br />&#8211; Be sensitive to her<br />&#8211; Just humble out and say you are sorry<br />&#8211; Build a triangle with God being the third<br /><br />All of the above were great points. However, he surprised me with “enjoy each other&#8217;s difference”.<br /><br />To be honest with you, I did not take what he was saying seriously. I was focusing more on the wine and the steak. I was excited about the wedding. <br /><br />After the honeymoon phase, things were becoming clearer. I was type A, Debbie was type Z negative. I was a hardcore disciplined individual. Debbie thought that word was Latin. I made 3 months 1 year and 5-year plans, Debbie flew by the seat of her pants. I was outgoing and carried my heart on my sleeve, Debbie was the stiff upper lip Scottish.<br /><br />She forgave easily. I did not know how to spell forgiveness. I did not have patience, she had all the time in the world. I was prideful and full of myself. She was humble, down to earth with no pretensions. The big one. I was born in a home surrounded by about 10 women. Debbie was raised by her dad. She brought the toolbox into the wedding. I was brand conscious; she did not know the difference between a Toyota and a Mercedes let alone between a Chateau Laffite Rothschild and a Chilean Red. Enjoy each other’s differences, I said to myself. Easier said than done.<br /><br />It finally hit me what Brian said. Did he give this advice to every couple who asked? He probably knew both our temperaments. No matter what it was wisdom?<br /><br />It made me look at life differently.<br /><br />Rather than seeing Debbie’s shortcomings, I just appreciate that she is different. It makes me understand why we are in each other’s life. Opposites attract. Marrying someone unlike you is exciting and challenging. Marrying a clone is boring. It also helped me to appreciate my own past and why I react the way I do.<br />The home does not have to be pristine clean every time. We do not have to be perfect. It also helped me get off the performance-driven treadmill.<br /><br />It has helped me in my friendships. I do not get upset or angry just because someone disagrees with me. I am glad someone has another angle. It is ok to be friends with a tree hugger or a left-wing hawk. I need to have compassion for that 40-year-old legalist, who has never had a job, lives at home but sends me countless emails inviting me to all these life-changing events. It is his way of doing things. <br /><br />It has helped me in my business decisions. Being emotionally intelligent help, you make rational decisions. I might look at a business from a pure momentum play. Another has a bottom’s up approach. Alternatively, someone has a top-bottom way of doing research.<br /><br />It has helped me deal with other Christian denominations. It has made me accepting, less judgmental, finding common ground and looking at the heart rather than playing church Olympics.<br /><br />A friend recently remarked that he has known me for the last 30 years and this is the happiest I have ever been. Another remarked I am balanced.<br /><br />I am sure it has to do with me getting older, wiser, married and being a father. A big portion of it is “enjoy each others difference”.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Untitled-Design-4.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Paula Novella is a blogger based in Melbourne, Australia. We catch up and talk about honesty, integrity, and what her blog is all about.</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">Paula, please share a little about yourself.</span></strong></h4>
<p>I am a 52-year-old who has been focused on living a <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/reasons-to-have-a-balanced-diet/">healthy</a> lifestyle for the last few years. I wrote my first <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/mayple-dorrington-life/">story</a> one year before I published it, but very happy I did!</p>
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<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">What is your blog about? What is unique about it and who is your audience?</span></strong></h4>
<p>My blog is a <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/healthy-anger-boundaries-eating/">health</a> and <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/yoga-meditation-and-mindfulness-benefits/">well-being</a> blog and I think what sets it apart is that I want to engage with my readers. I named the blog ‘shared stories’ because I want the blog to be interactive. A platform for everyone to ‘share’ their ‘story’ and for this reason my audience is everyone!</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">Why did you get into blogging?</span></strong></h4>
<p>I started blogging because I love to write and can’t believe how much ‘stuff’ I had in my head.</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">Talk to me about the city you live in? The food scene&#8230;restaurants and why we should visit it?</span></strong></h4>
<p>I live in Melbourne, Australia which is a great city with an abundance of nightlife, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/great-experience-at-a-restaurant/">restaurants</a>, and <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/reuben-virasami-bartender-extraordinaire/">bars</a>, not to mention the music scene available.</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">What does women empowerment mean to you?</span></strong></h4>
<p>Women’s empowerment is especially important because not all women are able to achieve without it.</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">Life is challenging. Help me understand something you have been through, what you learned from it and how you dealt with it?</span></strong></h4>
<p>My mother’s death when I was a young 19-year-old totally changed my life and I know that had she not left me when I was just starting my life I would be a totally different person to who I am today.</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">What are some values in life that you stick by?</span></strong></h4>
<p>I believe that integrity and honesty are two very important qualities in a person.  I try to live my life respecting everyone’s right to their opinions but try very hard to not let that get in their or my way of <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/health-goals/">achieving</a> <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-make-smart-financial-goals/">goals</a>.</p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">How do you balance faith, food, finance, and family in the 21st century?</span></strong></h4>
<p>I believe that setting and working towards<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/new-years-resolution/"> goals</a> is very important and that <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/discover-reasons-to-live-a-balanced-life/">balance</a> in everything is the key.</p>
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