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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Frank Underwood is a ruthless, diabolical, conniving politician and sociopath in House of Cards.  Frank is ambitious, intelligent, conniving, smooth, and charming. However, beneath that charismatic and alluring veneer is a classic sociopath who knows the political game and has a meteoric rise from the United&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/frank-underwood-sociopath/">&#8230;</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Untitled-Design-2.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Frank Underwood is a ruthless, diabolical, conniving politician and sociopath in <em>House of Cards.  </em>Frank is ambitious, intelligent, conniving, smooth, and <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/10-reasons-not-to-be-like-jax-teller-of-sons-of-anarchy/">charming</a>. However, beneath that charismatic and alluring veneer is a classic sociopath who knows the political game and has a meteoric rise from the United States House of Representatives majority whip to President of the United States through murder, deception, and treachery. Frank Underwood is power-hungry, manipulative, and morally corrupt, and is the definition of a sociopath.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>What is a sociopath</strong></h4>
<p>The <em>Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders </em>defines a sociopath as someone who has a persistent indifference to rules, regulations, and social norms and is a repeated offender of other people&#8217;s rights.</p>
<p>If you are looking for a partner who has these traits, here are your red flags.</p>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Frank Underwood was apathetic toward right and wrong and overlooked social norms</strong></h5>
<p>Frank Underwood has a total disregard for justice, virtue, ethics, laws, and morality.</p>
<p>Murder is an apparatus to get rid of problems. Frank backs Congressman Peter Russo in the beginning. However, Underwood later kills him by flooding his car with carbon monoxide.</p>
<p>Frank develops an intimate relationship with reporter Zoe Barnes.  Zoe ends their relationship as she is investigating the apparent suicide of Congressman Peter Russo. Underwood meets Zoe Barnes in the subway. Frank pushes her into the path of an oncoming train when she least expects it. Frank shows no regret, remorse, or hesitation.</p>
<h5 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Lying constantly and being deceitful to exploit others</strong></h5>
<p>Frank Underwood the sociopath is the Machiavellian political puppet master who lies all the time to everyone around him. Franks backstabs and lies to Michael Kern, Former Secretary of State Nominee, Raymond Tusk, Business Advisor and Advisor to the President, Donald Blythe, Former New Hampshire Member of the House, and President Garret Walker. Frank blackmails Peter Russo, a former candidate for Governor of Pennsylvania. His lies cause a problem between the President and Raymond Tusk and his lies regarding his wife&#8217;s abortion.</p>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Frank Underwood the sociopath uses his charm to manipulate others for personal pleasure and gain</strong></h5>
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<p class="ad-wrapper--ad-unit-wrap ">Frank manipulates Linda Vasquez, Former President Walker&#8217;s Chief of Staff, Jackie Sharp, House Majority Whip, Bob Birch, Speaker of the House of Representatives, Catherine Durant, Secretary of State, and Doug Stamper Chief of Staff.</p>
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<p>Edward Meechum was a temporary bodyguard for Frank when Steve became ill and eventually died of cancer. Meechum was made permanent but gets fired when a brick lands in the Underwood&#8217;s house and Meechum fires a gun in the open street. Frank uses his charm to call Meechum&#8217;s boss and gets him re-hired. After Frank gets nominated for vice president he insists on Meechum being trained and promoted to Secret Service.</p>
<p>Frank likes Meechum and there is always sexual tension between them. Meechum continues to be Frank&#8217;s bodyguard even after he becomes president. Meechum, Frank, and his wife have a threesome. Meechum is loyal to Frank till the end. There is an assassination attempt on Frank and Meechum gets killed in the attack. Frank has no boundaries with his staff. Frank manipulates Meechum sexually for pleasure.</p>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Heartless, cynical, reckless, and flippant of others</strong></h5>
<p>Frank can be seen starting his day with a rack of ribs, because &#8216;I&#8217;m feelin&#8217; hungry today!&#8217; He talks to the audience a lot and describes the White House Chief of Staff: &#8216;She&#8217;s as tough as a two-dollar steak&#8217;, an enemy the way &#8216;you devour a whale. One bite at a time.&#8217; He describes Michael Kern (Underwood&#8217;s Secretary of the Treasury): &#8216;I almost pity him. He didn&#8217;t choose to be put on my platter. When I carve him up and toss him to the dogs, only then will he confront that brutal, inescapable truth<em>.&#8217;</em></p>
<h5 style="text-align: center;"><strong>A complete lack of remorse for his personal actions</strong></h5>
<p>Frank Underwood is only looking out for himself in every situation. He tells Zoe &#8216;You don&#8217;t want to work anywhere you&#8217;re not willing to get fired from, Zoe. Treading water is the same as drowning, for people like you and me. Garret Walker asked, &#8220;Are you letting pride cloud your judgment, Frank?&#8221;,  Frank replies &#8216;Respectfully, sir, you&#8217;re allowing  fear to cloud yours.&#8217;</p>
<h5 style="text-align: center;"><strong>A sociopath only knows about abusive relationships</strong></h5>
<p>Frank Underwood claims he loves his wife by saying &#8216;I love that woman. I love her more than sharks love blood.&#8217; However, he allows his wife to be in a threesome with his bodyguard. Frank allows a reporter to live in the White House and sleep with his wife Claire Underwood. He tells Zoe &#8216;everything is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.&#8217; Claire wants to have sex with him but he avoids it. He wants the balance of power in his marital relationship.</p>
<p>The media loves Don Draper in Mad Men, Francis Underwood in House of Cards, Ramsey Snow, Joffrey Baratheon in Game of Thrones, Dr. Gregory House in House, Dexter Morgan in Dexter, and Hannibal Lecter. All good-looking charming men. However the wolf in sheep&#8217;s clothing does not like to follow rules, is a pathological liar, arrogant superficially charming, impulsive, and abusive, constantly guilt trips you, lacks empathy, does not have close friends, lacks boundaries, and does not forgive.</p>
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<p>Dating a sociopath is not empowering and will only lead to misery. You will end up with low self-esteem, trauma, mental issues, no friends, distancing your family, depression, anxiety, and a whole bunch of issues. It is impossible to be in a healthy relationship with a sociopath.</p>
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