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		<title>Holistic Approach to Household Finances</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="household finances" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Money touches everything. It affects how we sleep, how we eat, how we raise our children, and how we dream about the future. Yet too often, we treat finances like a separate compartment of life, disconnected from faith, family, and well-being. What if we approached&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/interview-with-jason-trueman-portfolio-manager-with-cumberland-private-wealth-management/">&#8230;</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="household finances" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-5.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p data-start="153" data-end="396">Money touches everything. It affects how we sleep, how we eat, how we raise our children, and how we dream about the future. Yet too often, we treat finances like a separate compartment of life, disconnected from faith, family, and well-being.</p>
<p data-start="398" data-end="509">What if we approached money the way we approach health, looking at the whole picture instead of isolated parts?</p>
<p data-start="511" data-end="860">In this conversation, Jason Trueman, Portfolio Manager with Cumberland Private Wealth Management, shares why a holistic approach to household finances matters. From buying a quality mattress to investing with discipline, Jason explains how thoughtful spending, long-term vision, and balance can create not just wealth, but freedom and peace of mind.</p>
<p data-start="862" data-end="985" data-is-last-node="" data-is-only-node="">Welcome to Four Columns, where food, faith, finance, and family are not separate conversations, but part of the same story.</p>
<h4><strong>Jason, welcome to Four Columns, a holistic blog on food, faith, finance, and family. Please tell me a little about yourself.</strong></h4>
<p>I am a Portfolio Manager with Cumberland Private Wealth Manager. Cumberland is headquartered in Toronto. I work with a talented team in Kingston, Ontario, including a CFP, CA, CPA, and TEP, providing holistic wealth management services for successful Canadian families and business owners.</p>
<h4><strong>How did you end up in personal finance?</strong></h4>
<p>I graduated from Queen&#8217;s University with a Bachelor of Commerce Degree. I received my CFA charter in 2001. I started my career as an Underwriter with Chubb Insurance. I was recruited by AIG and worked in Bermuda for 7 years before returning to Kingston to raise our young family in 2010.</p>
<h4><strong>Give me three tips on how to have a holistic approach to personal finance?</strong></h4>
<p>Control your spending by buying things you need and on an average cost basis (i.e. you will spend one-third of your life on a mattress so buy a good one).</p>
<p>Be disciplined with your investing. Buy dominant companies with great management who care about both their customers and their shareholders (these are rare and require work to find).</p>
<p>There is a <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/discover-reasons-to-live-a-balanced-life/">balance</a> between disciplined spending and enjoying your life; life is short so if you need a trip or a new car or new shoes to enjoy your life then spend the<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-use-money-to-make-you-happier/"> money</a>.</p>
<h4><strong>What happens when we live on credit cards and not on our salary?</strong></h4>
<p>Credit cards that you pay off in full on a monthly basis and never pay interest on and accumulate rewards are great. When you overspend and pay exorbitant interest living beyond your means then you will suffer from difficult financial decisions and increasing stress.</p>
<h4><strong>How important is it to have a budget as part of a holistic approach to our personal finance?</strong></h4>
<p>I find long-term goals are helpful in providing meaning to your actions like why am I going to work and saving for my child&#8217;s education or retirement. <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-create-a-household-budget/">Budgets</a> help keep your life and spending in order; like a calendar and daily to-do lists.</p>
<h4><strong>What are some important tips to start saving?</strong></h4>
<p>Paying off your higher interest-bearing debt is most important. Taking advantage of government savings programs like RESPs, RRSPs and TFSAs is enormously important as well. Again, buying things you need (healthy food, a quality mattress) instead of buying things you want for status and cost a lot on a per-use basis (the tenth pair of shoes, vacation properties) is critically important.</p>
<h4><strong>How do you balance faith, food, finance, and family?</strong></h4>
<p>I believe in humanity; if we all do our part to contribute, we collectively accomplish amazing things. If you don&#8217;t spend money on healthy food then you&#8217;ll pay the price with poor health and physical limitations. Finance is about independence; ideally, a career doing something you enjoy while creating financial freedom to do nothing if you so choose. Raising kind, caring and confident children who find something productive they love to do in life are our number one job as parents.</p>
<h4><strong>Can you recommend some great restaurants in Kingston?</strong></h4>
<p>Kingston has an enormous array of awesome restaurants &#8211; having 35,000 students in the city helps. I prefer local family-owned restaurants such as Tango, Woodenheads, and Harpers.</p>
<h4><strong>You manage money for the wealthy, what have you learned from the experience? Do they have a holistic approach?</strong></h4>
<p>Success usually requires some form of sacrifice at some stage in their life. For many that mean focusing on academic excellence instead of always finding the nearest party. For others, that means pursuing an idea, a vision, and taking on considerable financial risk, and working excessive hours to make their dream a reality.</p>
<h4><strong>How important is food to you?</strong></h4>
<p>Food has an enormous impact on how you feel and how you look. Humanity would benefit from healthier eating with lower health care costs, lower greenhouse gas emissions, and an overall more productive society and cleaner earth.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="financial plan" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>A financial plan is a road map to achieving your financial goals. We all have financial goals. It could be for a vacation, purchasing a home, children&#8217;s education, or retirement. A financial plan looks at where you are at present and what you want to&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/reasons-to-have-a-financial-plan-and-a-disciplined-saving-strategy/">&#8230;</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="financial plan" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Untitled-Design-3.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>A financial plan is a road map to achieving your financial goals.</p>
<p>We all have financial goals. It could be for a vacation, purchasing a home, children&#8217;s education, or retirement.</p>
<p>A financial plan looks at where you are at present and what you want to achieve in the future. It looks at net worth, cash flow, insurance planning, estate planning, retirement planning, and taxes.</p>
<p>A financial plan gets you in touch with reality, helps you to become realistic, looks at opportunities and risks, and gives you peace of mind.</p>
<p>Scott Schofield of Nesbitt Burns talks about reasons to have a financial plan and a disciplined savings strategy. Having this does not make you feel guilty.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Scott tell my global audience a little about you?</strong></span></h4>
<p>I am an investment advisor in London, Ontario, for approximately 150 families and business owners. I am a Chartered Investment Manager (CIM®) and have 20 years of experience in the asset management industry. Before joining BMO Nesbitt Burns, I consulted with financial advisors in my role as Senior Vice President with Mackenzie Investments and Dynamic Funds and hold a BA in Economics from Dalhousie University.</p>
<p>When not analyzing numbers, I enjoy many outdoor activities including kayaking and stand-up paddleboarding. My favorite activity is skiing with my wife and our two daughters that are 8 and 10 years old.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>You have been around the financial services industry for a long time. What are some of the things you have learned?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>Being in the financial services industry has taught me a number of things over the years. However, one thing that stands out is that investors have a tendency to forget about ‘risk’ in their portfolios when the markets are good. It is always good to re-valuate your portfolio to ensure your portfolios are aligned with your objectives. If you are asking yourself, what are my objectives? you should seek advice from a licensed professional immediately.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Besides saving 10 percent, paying off your debts, living within your means what other advice can you give to my audience?</strong></span></h4>
<p>Great question, I would have to say seek out advice. Many Canadians feel like they do not have a high enough net worth to seek the advice of a professional. This is not the case. The value of having a financial advisor is undeniable.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Why is it important to save for retirement and what are some of the tools?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>There will come a day when you stop receiving a paycheque and need to replace that with an income from your portfolio. Saving in tax-deferred plans such as Registered Retirement Savings Plan’s (RRSP’s) and Tax-Free Saving Account’s (TFSA’s) are great ways to help reduce and manage the level of tax you will pay in retirement.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>To become successful in saving, we have to make some sacrifices and have a financial plan. Do I always have to have the latest TV, cell phone, latest car?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>Some people really like to have the latest and greatest. I do! You should treat yourself from time to time. Having a financial plan and a disciplined saving strategy can potentially take the guilt out of treating yourself because you will know if you can or cannot afford these things.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Talk to me about TFSA and RESP?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>Both are great tools for investors.</p>
<p>The Tax-Free Savings Account (TFSA) began in 2009 and is a great way for Canadians to set aside money tax-free throughout their lifetime. A TFSA does not apply taxes on any contributions, dividends, capital gains, or interest earned, and can be withdrawn tax-free. This savings account is available to individuals aged 18 and older and can be used for any purpose.</p>
<p>An RESP is a great way to save for your child&#8217;s or grandchild&#8217;s post-secondary education. Parents, grandparents, and friends can contribute money any time to an RESP – up to a lifetime total of $50,000 per child. These contributions are not tax-deductible, but any investment income that’s earned within the plan isn’t taxed until it&#8217;s withdrawn.</p>
<p>The federal government will match 20% of the first $2,500 you contribute each year. That is $500 each year. When your children or grandchildren are eligible to start receiving the money to pay for tuition, books, computers, residence, meal plans, transportation and more, they pay the tax—generally at a much lower rate than you would have paid.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>If my viewers want to become a client of yours, what are you looking for in a client?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>The bottom line is we want to work with clients that are engaged in their financial well-being.</p>
<p>Working towards financial goals is best done by a collaboration between our clients and our team.</p>
<p>It does take some investment of time in the early stages to get to know our client so we can properly propose personalized solutions and a financial plan that finds a balance between their goals and their risk tolerance. From there we implement the plan and monitor it year-round.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>How important is it to have a financial plan, a road map of where you are going, goals, estate plan, and a will?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>I cannot stress enough how important a financial plan is to our client&#8217;s financial well-being.</p>
<p>It is a personalized blueprint or roadmap to meeting and exceeding financial goals.</p>
<p>A plan is adjusted over time as life events and unexpected things happen in our clients’ lives.</p>
<p>It also is a tremendous aid in helping to minimize tax during and after our clients’ lives.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>How important is food to you and let us know some of your favorite restaurants in London?</strong></span></h4>
<p>What can I say I love food! I always like to be the first of my friends to try new restaurants and enjoy traveling and trying new to me restaurants along the way.</p>
<p>In London, I tend to frequent two of my favorites often.</p>
<p>The Church Key Bistro-Pub is a British traditional gastropub specializing in traditional food done with a gourmet flair. They use seasonal and locally sourced ingredients whenever possible. If you go there you have to try their Ale &amp; Onion Soup with the Smoked Salmon Sammy.</p>
<p>The Bungalow – Neighbourhood Hub, is a great neighborhood ‘local’ in a residential area. The restaurant’s style and cuisine are designed for casual and convivial enjoyment. They have an extensive craft beer selection and a build your own burger option that they claim results in over 3000 different possible combinations. When not tinkering with my burger recipe of choice, my go-to is the Fish Tacos with the Habanero Potato Cheddar Bacon Soup.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>How do you balance faith food family and finance in the 21st century?</strong><strong> </strong></span></h4>
<p>Finding a <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/discover-reasons-to-live-a-balanced-life/">balance</a> is sometimes tough with a busy practice and family. Making and taking the time to shut off devices and being in the moment with my family is very important to me. The best conversations are with my girls walking the dog after dinner or the quiet time when riding the chair lift when skiing the family.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="household finances" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Money and holidays go hand in hand. There is so much to do. You have to buy gifts, visit family and friends, and bring stuff to each of those visits. If one is not careful, the bills can pile up, and January can become a&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/joy-abundance-giving/">&#8230;</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="household finances" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Untitled-Design-6.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>Money and holidays go hand in hand.</p>
<p>There is so much to do. You have to buy gifts, visit family and friends, and bring stuff to each of those visits.</p>
<p>If one is not careful, the bills can pile up, and January can become a scary month. However, it does not have to turn out that way. Have a budget, set up a list, pay cash, do some free stuff for people, volunteer, give your time, do not buy on credit, do not buy last minute, give practical gifts, use coupons or online sales, and have fun.</p>
<p>Enjoy the holidays, rejuvenate and get ready for the new year.</p>
<p>I talk to Hope, who is a blogger at UndertheMedian and we discuss how to stay within a budget and to use your money wisely during the holidays.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>Hope, a pleasure to have you onboard and talk about one of my favorite topics, money and household finances. I love your name Hope and please tell my audience a little about you?</strong></span></h4>
<p>My <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/ten-skills-required-to-be-a-successful-husband/">husband</a>, Larry, and I have been married for 31 years and are the proud <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/four-practical-tips-on-how-to-be-great-parents/">parents</a> of four sons – age 11-23. I have a degree in Radio and Television, working for a local radio station for 12 years, before leaving the full-time workforce when I had children.</p>
<p>Since then, I’ve provided voiceover talent for such prestigious companies as Pioneer Hybrid International and the Museum of Science and Industry in Chicago. I sing the second soprano and have been a featured soloist for the highly-acclaimed Heritage Ensemble, am a frequent and popular speaker at the APACHE Homeschooling convention, civic, and church groups. I teach literature and public speaking in the high school department at Peoria Cooperative Academy. I have written multiple guest posts for websites, including Crystal Paine (Money Saving Mom) and Change Your Finances. Finally, I blog and give tips on living with a spirit of <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/10-secrets-to-happiness/">joy and abundance</a> on a shoestring <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-create-a-household-budget/">budget</a>.</p>
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<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>What is Under the Median all about? Why should we read it? Who is your audience?</strong></span></h4>
<p>When my husband and I <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/interview-with-tara-lalonde-author-of-an-unexpected-freedom-discover-peace-and-joy-in-the-meaning-of-life/">married</a> in 1988, we were each making $5 an hour. Three months later, our bank account registered ZERO! We had a choice to make. Would we continue our current spending habits and sink into <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/finance-debt-credit/">debt</a>, or look our situation square in the face, embrace delayed gratification, and learn to live within our means?</p>
<p>We chose to take the bull by the horns, set <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-make-smart-financial-goals/">goals</a>, and figure out how to live lean. Four years later, we purchased our first home with a 20% down payment. We paid off our 15-year <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/finance-debt-credit/">mortgage</a> in just 5 years. Then, 12 years later, we purchased our current home with cash. We did it all while raising 4 sons on an income that was consistently under the national US median income.</p>
<p>My blog, Under the Median, was born three years ago out of a desire to teach others how to not only cut costs but also to live with a spirit of joy and abundance while doing it! Encouragement and practical advice are huge parts of my blog. Anyone who wants tips on how to live within their means, save <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-use-money-to-make-you-happier/">money</a>, and create memories without spending money, will enjoy reading my blog.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>You talk a lot about budgeting. What is it and why is it important to talk about money?</strong></span></h4>
<p>Some people get very uncomfortable when you begin speaking about budgeting, but, really, they shouldn’t. A<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/reasons-to-have-a-financial-plan-and-a-disciplined-saving-strategy/"> budget</a> is a monthly spending plan, giving each dollar that you earn a job to do. It’s not about being in a financial straight jacket. It’s about giving yourself freedom, knowing that you can spend money on that latte, as long as you have budgeted for it. I often tell people that no one is excused from setting short, medium, and long-term goals. In fact, if you make a less-than-average income, <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-make-smart-financial-goals/">written goals</a> are critical to your success.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>It is not how much money you make but how much you save. Please comment?</strong></span></h4>
<p><a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/tricks-that-matter-how-much-you-save-not-how-much-you-save/">Absolutely!</a> We, personally, live in a neighborhood that is full of people who make several times what we do. My husband works at the local police department and has had captains and sergeants ask him how we bought a home in our neighborhood. We could afford to live here because we had a plan and worked diligently to make it happen. It was a long, hard road to achieve that goal.</p>
<p>Also, you have to remember that “money problems” do not just affect those who make little money. Often, folks who make a higher-than-average income, have never learned the principles of budgeting. You have to approach it as though it is a skill – because it is! The good thing is, anyone can do it! You don’t need a college degree or lots of money to make it happen. Information about how to save money and successfully budget are available for FREE. All you have to do is look for it! I’ve been <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/interview-with-jason-trueman-portfolio-manager-with-cumberland-private-wealth-management/">budgeting</a> for 30 years and I still check out<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-use-money-to-make-you-happier/"> finance</a> books from the library. Why? Because there is always something more that I can learn.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>December is the holiday season and stressful for many people with gifts and travel. How can people make it easier by spending the money they have?</strong></span></h4>
<p>I love this question! I teach a 3-pronged holiday strategy.</p>
<h6><strong>Be authentic and honest</strong></h6>
<p>There is nothing more wonderful than sharing warm moments with family and friends. However, the pressure to attend functions and spend money is very real!  It’s enough to leave you distraught, confused, and emotionally devastated. You can’t do it all &#8211; physically, financially, or emotionally. So, don’t try.  Be upfront and honest with every single person who comes to you with a request or an expectation. Answer sincerely and with a smile.</p>
<h6><strong>Set realistic expectations and boundaries</strong></h6>
<p>Boundaries are HUGE during the holidays, especially when it comes to family dynamics. It’s okay to tell your siblings that you won’t be contributing $100 toward Mom and Dad’s gift this year. Instead, you can afford $50. It’s okay to tell friends that you’d love to meet them for a drink, but you already allocated your restaurant money for the month. Better yet, invite them to your place for a pot luck dinner and then play board games or watch cheesy <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/the-true-meaning-of-christmas/">Christmas</a> movies. It’s okay to set limits on how much you will spend on gifts. When was the last time you opened a gift and said, “Wow!  This is great!  How much did it set you back?”  I would venture to say that never have such crass words come from your lips.  So, it is highly unlikely that any friend or loved one will utter them either.</p>
<h6><strong>Create margin and memories</strong></h6>
<p>If looking at your December calendar is giving you hives, then do what you need to do to make it manageable. I advise that people pick several days and a pencil in “evening at home”. This gives you emotional permission to take time out to just breathe, read a book, and sip a drink by the light of the <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/what-is-advent-and-christmas/">Christmas</a> tree. Taking time for self-care is SO important when your schedule is a little wild.</p>
<p>Finally, you must remember that creating meaningful moments does not always mean spending a lot of money. We never had money while raising the boys, but we discovered several annual events, which were free or nearly free. As the boys got older, they told us which ones were most important to them. In fact, when our oldest was home from college for Thanksgiving, all six of us gathered in the living room, and everyone scheduled into their phone, the dates and times of this year’s holiday family events. My boys did not want to miss any of our family traditions!</p>
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<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>How are household finances and money different as a single, married, and married with kids?</strong></span></h4>
<p>I remind <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/marriage-made-in-heaven/">married couples</a> that they are a team! Just like a football player would never start passing when he was supposed to be blocking or tackling, you can’t go off in your own direction when you are married. Generally, one person in a relationship is a spender and the other is a saver. You need each other to find <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/discover-reasons-to-live-a-balanced-life/">balance</a>. I am the saver, but I need my husband to periodically say, “We have the money saved for this trip. It’s okay to relax and spend the money.” Conversely, he needs me to tell him, “No, we can’t afford that new big, screen television until next year” Then, I follow up with a timeline. “If we <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/reasons-to-have-a-financial-plan-and-a-disciplined-saving-strategy/">save $100 a month,</a> we should have enough money in six months.”</p>
<p>The other thing you need to take into consideration is your partner’s communication and learning style. Larry is concrete-sequential. He doesn’t like anything that is nebulous. He likes a carefully thought out plan for nearly everything. When I began budgeting, my husband was pretty doubtful that we’d be able to reach any financial goals. Remember, we were both making $5 an hour. I realized that he needed to see my plan in black and white. So, I created a chart, delineating where we were financially now, a preliminary budget plan, and a timeline of when we would reach that first big goal (which was paying cash for a car). His reaction was like night and day! Once he could see that there were a clear path and a plan that we could set in motion, he was “in”!</p>
<p>Being married <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/baby-on-the-way/">with kids</a> is a whole new ball game! As parents, we want to give our kids the world. I remind people to think deeply about what really and truly counts in life. We need to develop our children’s character, their work ethic, their compassion for others, and their awareness of their own strengths and weaknesses. Your children need your love, affirmation, guidance, and time. None of which will cost you money! We spent a huge amount of time with our boys, deliberately creating moments every week of family bonding and fellowship. My grown sons have thanked us again and again for letting them know that they were loved and cherished.</p>
<p>Having said that, I’m a HUGE proponent of teaching financial principles at an early age. We give our sons an allowance from age 5-14 and it is tied to weekly chores and work. When they turn 14, we have a coming-of-age celebration! They receive special gifts from us, a ceremony, a blessing from my husband, and a party for family and friends. At age 14 we also stop paying them an allowance. Instead, we “invest in their dreams”, matching 50% of the amount that they earn toward their own, personal goals. They must earn their half by working for someone besides us. At age 16, they reach financial independence. We pay for all school-related expenses, healthcare, and food. They get a job, pay for their portion of the car insurance, purchase their own cell phone, and pay for all personal items and expenses. We match the first $2000 that they save toward a car.</p>
<p>Our sons knew very early in life that we would not pay for their college experience. We simply could not do it. They were encouraged to get good grades, participate in extra-curricular activities, and define their strengths and interests. Our oldest son will graduate debt-free in May of 2020, with 2 associate&#8217;s degrees and 1 bachelor&#8217;s degree. He won several scholarships, including a full-tuition offer to transfer to an amazing, small, private, Christian university. Our second son chose not to attend university. Instead, he is pursuing a career in IT. His passion for all things electronic has been clear since he was very young. Not only does his employer deeply appreciate his work ethic and commitment to the company, but they are also paying for all of his certifications.</p>
<p>I tell single people that they should not “go it alone”. No man (or woman) should be an island.</p>
<p>Get an accountability partner. It’s honestly lonely for someone who is single and is struggling with making ends meet or is deeply in debt. It can be debilitating to feel alone. They need to pick someone who will support their goals, not be afraid to lovingly be honest with them, and give them a sounding board. I mention the ability to call that partner if you are in the mall and that Kate Spade bag is calling your name. They will be able to tell you to put the plastic away and save up for it.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>Give me three tips on how we can save money and have a meaningful holiday season?</strong></span></h4>
<p>There are three major steps that I tell people to take to get through the holidays without breaking the bank.</p>
<h6><strong>Get accountable. Don’t do Christmas alone and don’t “wing it”!</strong></h6>
<p>I will tell you with absolute transparency that the opinions of others have always mattered very much to me.  I love to make people happy and nothing breaks my spirit more than knowing that I have disappointed a friend or family member.  At Christmas, my husband and I spent out of guilt, feeling that we needed to make everyone happy.</p>
<p>It also became clear in a really short order that my annual spending spree had to stop! It was time for intellectual and emotional honesty with one another. We had to negotiate what traditions stayed and which ones needed to be cut. We had to partner together to get through December without a holiday hangover in January.</p>
<p>If you are not married, I highly recommend that you get an accountability partner.  This person should be trustworthy and willing to be firm, but honest with you.</p>
<h6><strong>Plan a realistic Christmas budget</strong></h6>
<p>One of the mistakes that people make is creating a gift list and then stopping there. First of all, that gift list needs to include how much you intend to spend on each person. Just going to the mall or heading to Amazon will spell certain disaster if you have no idea how much you can reasonably spend.</p>
<p>Secondly, I include everything related to the holidays: gifts, decorations, special dinners, supplies, high-priced ingredients that I don’t generally buy, stocking stuffers, and events like annual plays or musicals. I try to think of everything that may need to be added to my holiday budget and list it.</p>
<h6><strong>Shop wisely</strong></h6>
<p>Don’t hop on the “whatever is popular” bandwagon. Usually, those items are not only hard to find, but they are also expensive. Remember the Cabbage Patch dolls in the 1980s? There were physical riots trying to grab them off the shelves. Instead, put some thought into items that are meaningful. They should also fit into your budget, of course. You may consider visiting shops that stock lightly used items. Also, pay with cash. When you do, statistically you spend 20% less.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>You have been married for three decades and raise four children. Give my readers some tips on being a wife and a mother?</strong></span></h4>
<p>As a mother, I took great pleasure in the challenge to create moments of family bonding for little or no money. For instance, because we had absolutely no money to go out to eat, we took the boys on Friday night picnics. Every Friday, we packed up whatever I had made for supper, a board game, read-aloud book, or some music, and headed off to a local park that overlooked the river. Both of my older sons voted “Friday night picnics” as their absolute favorite memory while growing up.</p>
<p>One of the other important roles of being a mother is being a sounding board for your kids without becoming a helicopter parent. My boys always knew that they could talk to me about anything – and they did! However, they also learned that if they were not looking for solutions, but for sympathy, they would preface the conversation with, “Mom, I just need you to listen”.</p>
<p>Another super important concept I talk about when I speak to parents is allowing your <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/discover-10-life-lessons-my-daughter-has-taught-me-so-far/">children</a> to be their own person. They are not carbon copies of you. They come with their own set of strengths and weaknesses, their own desires and goals, their own individual bent and calling in life. Our role, as parents, is to help them discover the talents that God has birthed in them and then facilitating a pathway for them to move in that direction.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>You talk a lot about your faith in your blog. Walk me through this faith and how has it helped you?</strong></span></h3>
<p>Being Christians has had a huge impact on our view of money. We believe that ultimately God provides for all our needs. We also understand that God has given us our income. We are stewards of it, not only to meet our own needs but also to reach out beyond our own family and impact the lives of others. Many times, when goals seemed insurmountable or stress mounted, my husband and I would take to our knees together and pray for help and for guidance. Having a frame of reference which includes a Divine impartation of strength has been absolutely critical in every area of our lives.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #003366;"><strong>Talk to me about a time you face something really challenging and how you overcame it?</strong></span></h4>
<p>Probably the biggest hurdle we have ever surmounted was paying cash for our home. In the fall of 2008, at 3:30 pm, three of my children had just come inside from playing in the front yard. At that moment, a drug dealer ran through the front yard, closely followed by the police. This was not the first time that chaos had erupted in our neighborhood. Sadly, gunshots and break-ins were becoming all too commonplace. My husband looked at me and wordlessly mouthed, “When can we move?” I did the quickest calculations I had ever done in my life!  Here’s how the situation looked on paper.</p>
<p>We owned our current home.</p>
<p>We had some savings.</p>
<p>My husband made $40,000 a year.</p>
<p>We needed an additional $60,000 to move to a better neighborhood.</p>
<p>We gave ourselves two years to save money. If we couldn’t eat it or wear it, we didn’t buy it. We cut every penny possible from our already tight budget. Every extra dollar that came into the house, went into the “house fund”. We communicated more effectively than we ever had in our married life. We prayed as a family every night and thanked God for making a way where there seemed to be none. We grabbed onto that great, big, nearly impossible goal with both hands and refused to let go!</p>
<p>Twenty months later, we had saved 37% of my husband’s income. In August of 2010, we paid cash for a three-bedroom, two-bath, brick home in a very good neighborhood.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<img width="300" height="157" src="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2-300x157.png" class="webfeedsFeaturedVisual wp-post-image" alt="financial success" style="display: block; margin: auto; margin-bottom: 5px;max-width: 100%;" link_thumbnail="" decoding="async" srcset="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2-300x157.png 300w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2-1024x536.png 1024w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2-768x402.png 768w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2-760x400.png 760w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2-600x314.png 600w, https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Untitled-Design-1-2.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p>The strength of your personal financial resources is equivalent to the quality of your financial decision-making. –Wayne Charisa Financial success isn’t just about the numbers in your bank account—it’s about defining what truly matters to your happiness and making choices that support that vision. I&#160;<a class="read-more" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/15-strategies-for-financial-success/">&#8230;</a></p>
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<p data-start="359" data-end="862">Financial success isn’t just about the numbers in your bank account—it’s about defining what truly matters to your happiness and making choices that support that vision. I first learned this lesson during my very first week at a brokerage firm on Bay Street. David Wilkes, one of the most successful advisors I’ve ever met, pulled me into his office and shared three pieces of advice that have stuck with me ever since: buy a small house, keep the first wife, and drive your car for at least 15 years.</p>
<p data-start="864" data-end="1362">David’s wisdom extended beyond investing—it was about creating a life of stability, balance, and intentionality. Over the years, I’ve taken that guidance to heart, refining it into a set of strategies that have helped me—and can help you—build financial security and freedom. In this post, I’ll share 15 practical strategies for financial success, from setting goals and budgeting to investing wisely and living intentionally, all grounded in lessons I’ve learned from experience and observation.</p>
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<h4><strong><span style="color: #000080;">What is financial success</span></strong></h4>
<p>Financial Success is how you define what is most important to your happiness.</p>
<p>It was my first week at the brokerage firm on Bay Street. David Wilkes pulls me into the office and tells me ‘Jerry, I am going to give you three pieces of advice. In other words, buy a small house, keep the first wife, and drive your car for at least 15 years.’ A great piece of advice from one of the most successful advisers on Bay Street. David was great at investing his money. He was one of the best entrepreneurs I have met. As a result, I have listened to the above advice, and here are my 15 strategies for financial success.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Write down your goals</strong></span></h4>
<p>It is important to write down your <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-make-smart-financial-goals/">financial goals</a>. It is your blueprint and vision for your financial success for instance.</p>
<p>Know the difference between<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-create-a-household-budget/"> wants and needs</a>. Food, shelter, heat, hydro and water are needs in order to sustain your life. In addition, wants are cappuccinos, going to the movies, vacations, and an expensive watch. Make sure needs are covered and then take care of wants.</p>
<p>Set<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-make-smart-financial-goals/"> short term</a> (less than a year), medium (1 to 5 years), and long-term goals (more than 5 years). Be precise, realistic; set a time frame and a dollar amount. Write beside the goals whether it is a need or a want. Figure out the cost of each goal, how many months you need to achieve it, and then how much money you need to save each month.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Create a <a style="color: #000080;" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/tony-ramolo-manulife-private-wealth/">budget</a></strong></span></h4>
<p>A budget is how you will spend your money in any given year. The<a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-create-a-household-budget/"> budget</a> tells you how much money you will have for the things you want to purchase. In my two decades of voluntary counseling, every single person who was ever referred to me never had or followed a budget. In other words, a <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-create-a-household-budget/">budget</a> also allows you to live within your means and gets you a step closer to financial success.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Create an emergency fund</strong></span></h4>
<p>As the name suggests, this is for <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/john-knox-personal-wealth-advisor/">emergencies</a>. What happens if you are laid off? What happens if you are in an accident? The dishwasher breaks down or you need winter tires. In conclusion,  open a high-interest account at a bank and have at least 6 months of your salary saved up in this account.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Pay off your <a style="color: #000080;" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/finance-debt-credit/">debts</a> </strong></span></h4>
<p>A Globe and Mail survey in 2018 found 48 % of Canadians live paycheck to paycheck. This is a stressful situation. Is it really worth carrying credit card debt at 21% interest? Once you are debt-free, you are not at the mercy of the lenders or anyone. You are free and can live life as you choose. Imagine if you paid off your mortgage, car and student loans. That means you do not have to pay rent or mortgage payments, no car or student loan payments. You can take it easy. You can take a less stressful job or work from home or work fewer days a week.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Save 10 percent</strong></span></h4>
<p>I strongly recommend that you start saving <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-use-money-to-make-you-happier/">10 percent</a> of the money you earn. As you get more disciplined you can save more. Above all, this is your nest egg.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Save for <a style="color: #000080;" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/interview-with-jason-trueman-portfolio-manager-with-cumberland-private-wealth-management/">retirement</a></strong></span></h4>
<p>At some point in our lives, the paycheck stops coming. Many of us will live at least more than two decades after we retire. We will need money for this. The best thing to do is to invest in a Registered Retirement Savings Plan.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Give to charity</strong></span></h4>
<p>The National Institute of Health did research on the brains of individuals who donate <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/tricks-that-matter-how-much-you-save-not-how-much-you-save/">money</a>. The act of giving money to a good cause activated pleasure centers in the brain. When you give money to a <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/charitable-giving/">charity</a> that is aligned with your goals and values you are making a difference and impacting other people’s lives.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Be <a style="color: #000080;" href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/patience-is-the-mother-of-all-virtues/">patient</a></strong></span></h4>
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<p>Rome was not built in one day. When you buy a home, do not go and buy a brand-new car, new furniture, install hardwood, new interlock and remodel the kitchen. The extra debt will add unnecessary pressure on you. Take your time and do one thing at a time to become financially successful.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Stay away from credit cards</strong></span></h4>
<p>The average credit card <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/finance-debt-credit/">debt</a> in Canada is $2,600. Many pay only the minimum balance. That means paying 21% interest on it. Use credit cards only if you have the money in the bank account.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Do not buy on impulse</strong></span></h4>
<p>This is your biggest enemy. It can derail any plan you have for simplicity and frugality. Avoid malls and do window shopping. Stick to your goals, budget, and plan and avoid online retail.  A walk, volunteering, going to the gym, talking to a friend, or having someone over can make up for retail therapy.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>If you are married, keep the first wife</strong></span></h4>
<p>Many successful <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/interview-with-tara-lalonde-author-of-an-unexpected-freedom-discover-peace-and-joy-in-the-meaning-of-life/">married</a> men have asked me what is the best financial advice I can give them. I always tell them to keep the first wife. <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/divorce-from-a-financial-perspective/">Divorce</a> messes you mentally, emotionally and financially. Keep her and treat her well.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Keep track of your spending</strong></span></h4>
<p>Have an excel spreadsheet or <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/how-to-make-smart-financial-goals/">write down</a> your major expenses and expenditure so you know you have the funds in your bank account.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Invest in a TFSA</strong></span></h4>
<p>If you have extra funds, invest in the <a href="https://fourcolumnsofabalancedlife.com/reasons-to-have-a-financial-plan-and-a-disciplined-saving-strategy/">Tax-Free Savings Accoun</a>t. You are allowed to invest a certain amount every year and you do not have to pay tax on any interest, dividend, or capital growth in this account.</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Do not keep up with the neighbor</strong></span></h4>
<p>Make a promise to yourself. You will not keep up with the neighbor. Do you really need to spend $40,000 on interlock? Do you need to install an outdoor pool which you will barely use? If you have a paved driveway, is an interlock driveway any better?</p>
<h4><span style="color: #000080;"><strong>Drive the car for 15 years</strong></span></h4>
<p>If you buy a new car, as soon as you drive it out of the showroom it loses thirty-five percent of its value. You are better off buying a car that is one year old. If you do decide to buy a new car, drive it for the next 15 years or at least 300,000 km before you get a new one.</p>
<p>In conclusion, these are some of my strategies for financial success, let me know if you are using them and how they have worked out for you.</p>
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